bella
ah okay.im frustrated,confuzed,scared,sad so i got a lot on my mind.:sweat:

Wanna talk about it Desi?

Rena: Whats your essay about? although still boring xP

no cause if i do then i feel like someone will say shut up,your annoying,or stop being a baby.

Desi: I knows that feeling

yup so i don't i will talk about it but i am not sure what to do.

Desi: Do you want us to? I'm sure no one here would tell you that. *hugs*

*Hugs Desi* Okays but just so you know we are hear

i have no idea.but here is the situation.everone probably knows me and jake going out.well jake wants me to tell my dad about me and jake but my dad i think he wouldn't like the idea since we met online and all.so im not sure if i should tell him or when cause i know he'll get mad.

maybe i should sumbit my problem in the life issues on menewsha

Desi *hugs* I knows how you feel

*:hug: Desi* Desi, I hope everything will workout. Hi Rena, thanks for popping in and saying hi.

Bells, hey
ruby, language and how it's not just words.

Desi, I knows you can do it. Just do it when its on your terms, not on jakes.

I had the same problem with my ex. I hadn't told my mom (since my dad doesn't give a crap) But I thought she'd be mad and she wasn't. Although she is kind of understanding, but still. Wait till the time feels right.

Most parents are more understanding when you explain things

im going to slam my head on something hard.i am going crazy with this frustration.i can't exactly tell me mum since she really isn't herself,she's super quiet now and i can't really go to anyone else.my sis doesn't know what to do either.

*hugs desi* It will all work out dont worry

Do you really need to tell them right now?

I agree with Ruby, do you have to tell them now?

i can't help to worry.i feel guilty for not telling him.

i have no idea jake wants my dad to know and im a bit stuck in the middle on what to do.

Desi just tell them when you want too, If jake gives you issues, I will deal with him

Not trying to be rude here, But its your family and you know when the best times to tell them stuff is. I'm not saying to ignore Jake but explain whats going on I'm sure he'll understand

im nearly pulling hair out because im so scared,worried.i don't want you to beat up on him or anything its not his fault..it mostly mine for not telling my parents in the first place but i don't think this month or next or even this year i should tell them because its been a year since my mum's stroke and she is stuck in a nursing home and we are trying are best to get her out of there.

Desi like we said, Just tell them when the time is right. And I wouldn't excitly hurt him, Just talked with him

Then just wait until then. Its not your fault or Jakes. Theres just a lot going on right now that you need to take care of first. It was a year plus before I said anything too.