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Old 10-18-2010, 04:38 AM

I married a morbidly obese man. He is disabled and can barely walk because of other health problems. The same health problems that have caused his weight gain. He eats the same amount as I do - and I am a normal weight. I want him to loose weight, but only to help his health. I could care less if you are 100 pounds or 500 pounds.

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Old 10-21-2010, 03:33 AM

I don't judge people by their looks.
I think it's a real jerkface thing to do.
I'm one of those people who don't care what people look like.
As long as their attitude and personality is well.
And they're not one of those immature idiots screaming out of their car window "Watch Out!" (For no reason because they think it's funny" when your walking home from the store. ¬¬
And they don't ask you what your problem is if you just happen to glance over at them. Cha'know?

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Old 10-21-2010, 03:41 AM

4 people in my family have had gastric bypass surgery, and more are planning on it. At 5'3 and 150 lbs, I am the smallest on in my family. Which is scary, b/c my doctor said it would be good to drop a few pounds :sweat:
I do judge people by their appearance, in terms of hygiene and 'upkeep'. You can't choose your genes, but you can choose whether or not to take care of yourself.
The person I judge the most based on weight will always be myself.

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Old 10-22-2010, 12:52 AM

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If they're really skinny or really chunky then yeah, I sometimes will. Which I know I have a bit of a cheek doing, 'cause my tummy is a little on the padded side if truth be told.

Though it isn't so much weight that I judge, I mean I don't bother with that, but one thing I just can't fathom is dirty people. Like, everyone knows what soap and water is, so greasy hair and BO just shouldn't even be something I come into contact with where I live since everyone has houses and local supermarkets :gonk:

But I am guilty of sometimes doing a bit judging. Though I'm fine with chunky people, infact in some cases chunky people come out as awesomely cute (squeeze their cheeks and go "aaah" cute) xD
What about homeless people?

This one guy comes into my work often. We assume he's homeless, 'cause otherwise, it's unfathomable. He smells so bad, you can smell him all the way across the restaurant. And he has a drooling problem. It's gross.

But anyway, this is about weight not hygiene... I don't really judge people by their weight unless it's judging whether I'm physically attracted to them, which kinda depends on the guy. I like some fairly hefty men and others I'm really not attracted to at all. Same for skinny men. But I prefer a man with more meat on him.

Females, since I'm not physically attracted to them, I don't really judge based on weight. Some women, I have wondered how they get so big, but you never know what caused it. So, I don't think negatively about them for their size.

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Old 10-22-2010, 02:23 AM

I don't but I have been judged by my weight. I've always been heavy set and no diet ever works for me. It hurts when being judged. In high school I almost killed myself because the teasing was so bad. Be careful what you say to a person because you never know how they will take t.

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Old 10-22-2010, 05:41 AM

I do in my mind but I never voice these opinions aloud. I tend to be more judgmental on those people who are over weight and it doesn't even have to be obese. This is probably because both of my parents are overweight. They are constantly trying to go on diets but end up folding and snacking on junk no matter what I say to them. They are even coming down with some health problems and they still can't seem to stay on track. It's extremely frustrating but I know that losing weight is something that people have to really want for themselves. My mom is always making up other reasons for losing weight rather than it's something that she really what she wants to do. I think that's why she keeps failing.

Erm, while I can be judgmental of these people at first it tends to go away if I get to know the person. I am worried about some of my friends though, but I couldn't possibly say something like that to them. >.<

 


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