@Ely: yep noone thinks of the Romans or the Greeks because they built other things well the greeks built the Parthenon.

@Otaku: It is a bit harsh. :/ Yeah, you take things out on th eone you're closest to. But, sometimes it's not a good thing.

@Ely: He is... He needs to stop doing that. I don't. Even if he irks me, even if I'm extremely upset about something, I don't point out his faults. I want to.. I just usually stop before I say any of them since I don't want to cause conflict

@Ser: No its not my Ex did that to me alot if something went wrong its my fault.

Yeah... and now we're having a conversation that I dunno if things will work out. :/

Well I hope it does work out I left myself in a bad situation since I forgot my jump drive and guess whats on it...my paper I need to send today for revisions.

ouch. I'm sorry about that. It sounds like it'll be a good paper. Hopefully the professor will be leneiant and let you send it in after you get home.

I hope it works out too. I'm still a bit scared.

Ouch, Otaku. That shit sucks. Been there done that.

@Ser: If you need to talk about it you can either PM or vent here.

Eh things are fine. we talked it out. we're getting through it decently.

Did he apologize?

he said what he did was wrong.

Close enough, anyway.

Yeah, it's as close to an apology as I'll get.
There were moments where I really thought and it seemed like we were going to break up.

But, we didn't which is good. I don't want crap like that to happen again. things are going smoother now. he's getting slightly better.

Why did you think you were going to break up?

because something was mentioned about it obviously not working out (because we're both submissive people).
there were other parts too like him mentioning he was efforted out and tired of making so much effort and nothing happening, and another thing of nothing I was saying would change anything.

Somehow I persuaded him not to give up and we decided to try again.

I would think it a good thing that you're both submissive. Being demanding in a relationship is bad, and being dominated isn't good either.

I hope you guys can work it out.

Yeah.. though somepoints in a relationship you would like one of each at times and to switch off. like in bed.

Yeah, me too. I am happy with him.

Well yeah. ;) But just in general I don't like a leader in a relationship. I'm an equality kinda person. Except for mowing the lawn. Men do that.

Well you've just been together so long, you're obligated to try.

yeah, the leader-sub thing is the bedroom stuff. but the negative things from it carried into the rest of the relationship. ^^"
lol! Yes, the menfolk do the mowing. and he knows. :P

Yeah, which is a good thing we are. We've been together so long, why give up so easily? That and he needs to understand my brain is f'd up now with all of my final projects coming up in 3 weeks o.o

I took last night and today off because I was so sick. Tomorrow I have to start to buckle down. I have a final project due on tuesday, a few things due the week after thanksgiving, a bunch of things due the last week of classes (first week of december) and two assignments due the week after. :/

You two are just in such different places in your life journey I think it's somewhat difficult to understand the other's perspective. Not an excuse to be an ass, but it's there.

That's no fun. I have a couple essays, and a few tests. It's the norm.

Yeah, it was similar to how things happened in 08 when we separated. So, I'm sure we'll be ok. Once this semester blows over and I figure out my footing in school, all will be fine.

Yeah. ^^" the life of a grad student. ^^"

And once he figures out where he wants to go with his future I'm sure things'll be okay.

Yeah, hopefully he figures that out soon. ^^"

well I wouldn't rush to much, Better to take a long time and be sure then be forever unhappy with your choice.

sorry to but in so late, I know I'm never really on when you guys are during the work week, but I hate feeling like I'm ignoring my friends.

It's ok Birdie. ^^ You aren't ignoring us. We understand :)

Yeah... I sometimes wonder if I did that with grad school. I sometimes think I should have taken a year off to think about whether I wanted to go into LIS or Political Science stuff.
But, I'll realise it sooner or later.

We love you to pieces, Birdie, don't ever feel bad. ^.^

It's a higher degree, Ser. Either way it'll help you out.