Its not that shes younger than me to >.< do you think I should find someone else. ~blows up~

@Ely: I don't really think it's a big deal either way but I'm also the kind of person that wouldn't have sex with someone unless I cared about them a great deal.

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@Otaku: Is the age difference a problem in your mind?

Not really but its like grh me and him are friends with benefits right now but its like grh I can't compete with a virgin.

@Vix: Oh, I'm the same way. I've said it a million times, but I'll say it again. I have trust issues, and unless I'm in love with someone I am asexual. Period.

@Otaku: Is he...like...contemplating cheating on you with a virgin? I thought your Edward was a good guy...

He is and yes I am ok with him doing this but...me and him have problems right now.

@Otaku: Have you tried talking to him about it? And what do you mean by competing? Is there someone else in the picture? Because he has no right to judge you on your sexual history.

@Ely: I wouldn't call myself asexual but I'm not letting some jackass get the best of me.

@Otaku: Wow...I'm sorry, hon. :hug:s

@Otaku: I wouldn't be okay with my guy thinking about screwing around with another woman. I'd murder him and he knows it.

@Vix: No hes not judging me at all but it bugs me that he does want to sleep with a virgin. Since hes more dominant in bed makes it hard to make a move on him as well.
@Elysium:its ok me and him have hit a point were we are unsure of what we want.

@Vix: I dunno. I'm like....I find guys attractive when I'm not dating/in love with them, but they can't turn me on unless I feel safe with them. I'm the same as you, and am not used to much touching. From family, friends, or otherwise, so it's got to be a special person.

I think this world is severely screwed up in the sex department. Especially America. Love is not sex. Sex is love.

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@Otaku: Vix is very right. You deserve better than an idiot that would judge you for your sex history (unless there's like 40 men therein...) and/or who would even f'ing consider cheating on you.

@Vix: maybe I will kill him lol jk. Its just confusing because we've been having problems with my anger and spending time together. stuff like that.
@Ely: some people are ok with their lovers having sex with other people. Its a turn on

@Otaku: Oh, I know. I know. Lol. I've heard of pretty much every kink in the book. I just don't think that's a good thing, and people who find that a turn on usually need therapy because that kind of sexual fetish comes from some serious past issues.

@Otaku: Punch him in the balls and move on. You deserve a man who will respect you.

@Ely: Amen, sister.

And about people being okay with their partners sleeping with others, it doesn't sound like you're 100% on board with it what with your worrying and all...

Originally Posted by Vix Viral

@Otaku: I wouldn't be okay with my guy thinking about screwing around with another woman. I'd murder him and he knows it.

I'd murder myself.

I'm a one woman man now :)

@Elysium: thats true who knows.
@Vix: your right maybe I should just tell him I don't want him to go.

@Dan: That's what I like to hear!

@Otaku: I would definitely be honest with him about how you feel. You shouldn't put yourself in harm's way for him to satisfy some needless fantasy. If he wants to fuck some chick, that's his choice but it doesn't mean that you have to accept it if you're not okay with it.

@Vix: Ok then I'll talk with him about it. Thanks for the advice by the way.

@Otaku: I have been in your situation. Some men are damned assholes. My ex, that I just finally told to take an f'ing hike, told me he loved me but didn't think he could stay with me because he hadn't screwed enough things/acted out any of his fantasies.

It's obvious you're not okay with this, so tell him. Give him an ultimatum: It's either me or the virgin bitch.

@Ely: yeah thats true. Ug why must life be so difficult sometimes?

*shrugs* Why must any of our lives be complicated? If the world were fair we'd all find our soul mates on the first go and never have to deal with heart break.

@Otaku: You're welcome. We just want you to be happy and I'll be damned if I keep quiet when I see someone suffering.

@Ely: Sounds like he lacks balls. We all have our fantasies but isn't sharing them and discovering new ones together part of the fun?

@Vix: is it bad that I cheated on him to? I mean maybe Karma is just kicking my butt for being stupid.

@Vix: God. You can say that again. He was an asshole bastard of epic proportions. Utter idiot, that one. I'm glad I'm finally done with that one.

@Otaku: We all make mistakes. You two must have worked it out if you got to this point. However, just because one partner cheated doesn't give the other the right to do the same thing.

@Ely: So am I from what I've heard of him. He can't just walk all over you and expect you to pine away for him.

@Vix: oh yeah that is true to. anyway enough negative stuff for now. how is everyone summers?