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Old 11-05-2010, 09:52 PM

I've been going out with my girlfriend since the beginning of March and I'm starting to worry. I've never been in a relationship with anybody of either gender before, so I don't know what's "normal" for this far into it. But I'm really starting to get scared for a few reasons:

1. I truly love her. I think about her 80% of the time, I get butterflies in my stomach if I'm going to see her. I tell her I love her at least twice every time I see her but... she rarely says it back to me.

2.I've tried to kiss her a lot of times now, but she either turns her head so I end up on her cheek, or she pulls away really quickly so it's barely anything. Having never been in a relationship, I don't really know how to kiss either, but she's barely letting me kiss her at all.

3. I spend quite a lot of time with her, usually at her house but we never really do anything romantic at all. We do stuff that I'd do with somebody who was just a friend.

I don't want to end my relationship with her, I love her so much, but I don't feel like it's going anywhere. I'm terrified and I don't know what to do. Could somebody please help me?

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Old 11-05-2010, 09:54 PM

First of all, you'll definitely want to talk to her about how you're feeling. Maybe she has a reason for her behavior. If it's genuine disinterest, you'll have to consider ending the relationship as a real possibility.

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Old 11-05-2010, 10:09 PM

I've talked to her about it. We've broken up. We're going to stay friends, but noting more.

 


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