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01-11-2011, 06:57 PM
*snuggles love* may I ask what happened. Only if you want to say my dear.
And he's always with you my dear. As long as you remember him and hold him dear in your heart then he's never gone, not really. <3
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mobmob, please I wanna treat you beautiful! :'D <3
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LiviInLove
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01-11-2011, 06:59 PM
Mobsy: *hugs*
Eastriel: He was killed by a drunk driver walking home from a party the night before we were set to drive home for Thanksgiving.
It's just hard, because of the connection we shared - we were twins. My husband kind of fills the hole left but not completely.
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01-11-2011, 07:02 PM
Love, oh darling, I cannot think of anything worse than losing a twin, my friends father was killed by a police car....it's just aweful. But what I said is even more so true, the bond between twins can never be broken, he's still with you babe.
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01-11-2011, 07:05 PM
It really has been hard. And oh, that is awful! :( There are days when I swear I hear him talking to me, telling me that he loves me and that he's proud of me. And he doesn't want me to be so sad anymore. He wouldn't want me to be sad. He was the happiest person I knew. *laughs* He was so good at getting people to laugh and smile. My husband and I have agreed that we're going to find some way to get his name into our unborn baby's name when he/she is born. :heart:
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01-11-2011, 07:32 PM
awww love! Yeah, see? He's still here,he might have been robbed from you in body, far too soon, but in spirit he hasn't gone anywhere. ^^
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LiviInLove
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01-11-2011, 07:34 PM
:hug: It was far too soon, but I am so glad that I did get the almost 21 years with him. :heart: I feel so lucky to have known him. :heart:
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01-11-2011, 07:36 PM
And for that reason love, you have to keep happy. Cherish the memories, don;t let them be marred by sadness. ^^ <3
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LiviInLove
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01-11-2011, 07:38 PM
Back in November, I actually found that sharing happy stories of him helped me get through the month. ^_^ Happy stories are amazing. ^_^
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01-11-2011, 07:38 PM
Do you have any happy stories that you'd like to share love? I LOVE to hear stories. :)
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01-11-2011, 07:40 PM
When Carlie and I were around 6, we pretended that we were each other, like whenever anyone called or asked for me (Olivia) he'd answer, and if anyone asked for Oliver (yes, I call him Carlie, which was my nickname for him based on his middle name) I'd answer. Of course no one believed us, even though we'd dress up like each other.
He liked to pretend that he hated the name Carlie, I'd call him it all the time around everyone and his boyfriend even started calling him it too. :rofl: Whenever Jon would call him Carlie, my brother would turn and 'glare' at me like "see Liv, look what you started..". I'd just shrug and try not to laugh.
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01-11-2011, 07:43 PM
That is too cute darling! Adorable. I bet you two got into loads of trouble together :) So do you hope for a boy or a girl? Or does it matter at all. :) *hugs*
I think the closest person that I ever lost to me was my grandfather. He was amazing. I only recently saw his grave site because I have been deployed but seeing it kinda finished the memory or something. But I know that he's in a much better place. And he was a strong person :) He was happy til the very end and I know he wanted us to be happy. Lukemia, not a friend of mine. But it shows you how strong of a person you really are.
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Hehe, nick names are the best ^^ Especially the ones like that!
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01-11-2011, 07:47 PM
Oh, he got into more trouble than I did, but he'd always find some way to drag me into it. *laughs* We hated being apart from each other. We even managed to get into the same college so we'd not have to be apart and rented an apartment together.
Awe! *hugs* It is hard to loose those that you love. And they are in a better place. And they are alive in your memories. ^_^
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01-11-2011, 07:50 PM
Hehe, at least you always have your partner in crime, or in this case, vice versa! It seems that brothers are the best at getting caught when they are doing something ;) Oh that's so cool that you went to college together! It must have been really awesome to have him there. Like your permanent best friend. I'm sure that your child will be very honored to know later on at what a special name they have :) Something with that much meaning is always so amazing, and it's just another connection that you keep with him.
Yep! And eventually you'll see them all again. They are never really gone anyway. I just imagine him being on a really really long fishing trip ^^
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01-11-2011, 07:52 PM
>.< easty just did the most disgusting burp....
easty thinks sometimes she should have been a bloke...
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01-11-2011, 07:53 PM
Oh good grief East.... at least keep that stuff out of the thread! :illgetu:
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01-11-2011, 07:54 PM
Oh, he was my best friend - my confident, my traveling partner, when traveling in summers to either Arizona or England. Yeah, but at the same time it made it harder after the accident because everything in the apartment reminded me of him. *shrugs* Yeah. Just feels right to include Oliver in his nieces or nephew's name. Oh, and you asked me if I want a girl or a boy more and really it doesn't matter, we're actually not finding out the gender.
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01-11-2011, 07:54 PM
ohhh *pout*
can I fart here? :'DD
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01-11-2011, 07:56 PM
Oooh, the surprise. That should be fun. Then you'll just stick with all yellow or green baby clothes? I think that the yllows and the greens are the cuter ones anyway. People seem to get confused when you put blue on a girl and vice versa. Haha, I'm so glad that you have your husband though! Someone who is always there for you in that supportive manner. :) He must be a really great person then :) Reminders can be hard but if you look at them on the positive side like good memories then they aren't bad.
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01-11-2011, 07:59 PM
Oh, well we do have a bunch of neutral colours but at the same time I don't care about colors. *shrugs* I know it may get confusing but I really don't care. They're just clothes. ^_^ Oh, my husband is really amazing. :heart: He was the one who pulled me back to life. When I met him I Was just going through life, not really doing anything, just doing what was necessary to go on, but not really living. Oh, they're not bad, memories, but at the time it was in the months after the accident and it was just so hard for me. Especially since I was in denial.
Anyways, I'm getting hungry so I'm going to go and get food, I'll be back later. :hug:
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01-11-2011, 08:03 PM
I'M BACK! I'm AFTER SCHOOL! With my boyfriend!!!!! YAY! <3
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01-11-2011, 08:04 PM
*humps nys leg*
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01-11-2011, 08:05 PM
Wow, so your husband, did you know him before or did he just come out of no where like a knight in shining armor or an angel or something. You think maybe your brother could have sent a message with him or something, from where he's watching over you. Oh man. Denial is hard to deal with. And depression :( Always good to have friends and loved ones around you for support then. Then you can all share your happy memories together and it makes things a LOT easier. I was there when my ex's grandfather passed and afterwards everyone cried for a bit but then sat around eating and talking about all the good times they had with him.
Clothes are just clothes :) I bet your baby is going to be super cute :)
Ok!! Eat something for me because I'm starving!! :hug:
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01-11-2011, 08:05 PM
HEY! That's MY job!
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Zephi
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01-11-2011, 08:06 PM
Oi oi oi... really? Let's keep the level up here *holds hand over easty's head* Up here... come on! Stand up you!!
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LiviInLove
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01-11-2011, 08:08 PM
Oh, I didn't know him before The Accident happened in November of 2006 and I met Alex shortly after my 21st Birthday in 2007 (March of 2007). Oh, both of those are hard to deal with. Sharing happy memories does make things easier to deal with. :heart: My pic on my profile is of my hubs and I, last month. ^_^
Alright! YAY! I getta eat for three! :rofl: Talk to ya later!
Nyvok: Sounds lovely! Hope you're doing well. Look forward to getting to talk to you later. :)
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