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#551
Old 01-13-2011, 06:50 PM

I don't drink coffee you know I don;t.
horrid stuff.
Nop this is a purely natural high.

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#552
Old 01-13-2011, 06:51 PM

Did I say coffee? Wow.. I definitely meant to type tea. Hmmm.. I must be thinking about cofee. A natural high. Lol. Explains why you were climbing up the walls a moment ago ^^

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#553
Old 01-13-2011, 06:52 PM

I'm bored and feel like I wanna do stuff but I don;t know what. so yah skittish skittisssh
a tissue a tissue we all fall down


DEAD

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#554
Old 01-13-2011, 06:53 PM

A tissue? What in the world are you talking about. Ring around the Roses? Oh man... that nursery ryhme is so dark. Bout the plague and all that. Man... I'm feelin sleepy guys. I might be hittin the hay soon :sleep:

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#555
Old 01-13-2011, 06:55 PM

Zephi: not that far away, he lives in the neighbouring city, but currently, a friend of his is with him and they are having band rehearsal. Still, I wish he was closer~

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#556
Old 01-13-2011, 06:57 PM

*pouts and wibbles*

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#557
Old 01-13-2011, 06:57 PM

Oh a band rehearsal! That sounds like fun. Maybe you should go over and visit or something? I definitely would. I have never heard a true garage band play. I woudl ask what type of music they play but I think that I'm going to pass out now :( I'm sorry guys! It's been a busy and productive day for me though. I hope that you all have a great day and equally productive! And positive! Remember, the key to success is to go into anything believeing in your self and knowing that you are going to come out on top. Come out VICTORIOUS! :hug: Night all!!

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Good night lovelies!!! *throws happy thoughts and VICTORY signs and confetti all around*

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#558
Old 01-13-2011, 07:04 PM

*pops back in* Sorry! Got distracted! I don't drink coffee either.

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#559
Old 01-13-2011, 10:58 PM

Alright.

I'm in need of some help. Not for me, but for my girlfriend. I love her TONS, mind you, but she's been without any income for a year. And while the unemployment rate here is ungodly high, it seems like she won't even try because she's afraid of the rejection. She'll only apply to places that have an online application and she won't call them to follow up. Its to the point where she won't even answer the phone. And I've been in the same position (after graduation I had horrible anxiety attacks that made it hard to hold down a job) and have been trying to help her in the same way she helped me, but she won't accept my help because she's embarassed about the problem.

Any ideas how to help coax her out of her shell?

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#560
Old 01-14-2011, 08:02 AM

I think zeph, being older may be the best to discuss this with you, i've just messaged her, she'll be replying any moment.

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#561
Old 01-14-2011, 08:03 AM

Well what kind of places is she applying to? Maybe if you tell her that you'll go along with her to an interview it woudl lessen the anxiety of going alone. Maybe make a game out of it? For every interview that she goes to, she gets a reward of some sort. Something that she would enjoy that would make her want to get up and go again. Or you could always spike her drinks. Seems to make me come out of my shell.

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Fear of rejection is tough, but knowing that you are going to be there for her no matter waht might make it easier as well. She might think that if she gets rejected for one place that it's the end of the world, but it's not. There is some reason that she doesn't need that job and there is a better one out there for her. Maybe do a tarot reading for her before going? Boost her confidence a little ^^

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Try reenforcing whatever skills that she has and praising her for them. It might make her realize that she is far more capable than what she gives herself credit for being.

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#562
Old 01-14-2011, 08:15 AM

*huggles zephi* advice queen!
: ( I'm only good with relationship advice when people are doubting or their on the rocks.

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#563
Old 01-14-2011, 08:19 AM

Well I hope that will be good. Sounds like she just needs a major confidence booster. Could have to do with what Hyena said before about how she hasn't told her parents certain things. That could take a major load off her chest but you know, you can't force someone in that kinda situation. Any kinda rough pushing will probably just make the situation worse :/ It's a delicate one.

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#564
Old 01-14-2011, 08:23 AM

Once I told my mum most of my anxieties, and came out, thnigs were loads better.
Honestly zeph, i'm glad you didn't know me then.

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#565
Old 01-14-2011, 08:24 AM

Why are you glad about that? I might have been able to help you :P We'd still be friends anyway ^^

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#566
Old 01-14-2011, 08:51 AM

Because I was not a nice person to be around. I was effectively dead inside.

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#567
Old 01-14-2011, 09:00 AM

Biggles has come a-knocking
So how are things in here tonight?

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#568
Old 01-14-2011, 09:03 AM

Not too bad. Love your avi Biggles ^^ THose wings are awesome :D

I've got a formation to get off to but I'll be back. Hopefully this won't take too long... :/

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#569
Old 01-14-2011, 09:06 AM

Oh thank you. I don't have much to knock around with in the old inventory. I guess I'd consider my last avatar the most complete I'd every had.

And now, I'm about to make a hasty departure, like the suspicious character I am. Have a good even'morn'tide!

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#570
Old 01-14-2011, 01:57 PM

*Dances*
weeekeeendd
weeeekeeenddd
but i'm really boreded. :'D
Zephi come ipo because I want some gold.
:)))
Now.
Please.
Kay.
Thanks.
Bye.
x

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#571
Old 01-14-2011, 02:25 PM

Hey people! I wanted to post a video that would make you laugh... cause it's me dancing like an idiot... O_O... yes... a completel idiot with no regard to herself. That's me. Anything for a smile :D



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Maybe I shoudl put that on the front page so it doesn't get burried in posts..... darn live update not working...

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#572
Old 01-14-2011, 02:40 PM

Zephhhii is a pretty little stick ladyyy
and oak tree
a diamond
a water baby
a turd head
a bum face
and a JacJac
:'D

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#573
Old 01-14-2011, 02:44 PM

Good lord. I'm more of just a stick really. Just a big old dancing stick. I dance for your entertainment. I dance to get a laugh. Please, won't you give me a laugh? Just one? D:

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#574
Old 01-14-2011, 02:44 PM

Do you want a 'ha' or a 'hee' madam. :'DDDD

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#575
Old 01-14-2011, 02:45 PM

How about a "rofl" ? Can I get one of those?

 



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