You know the right one for you? Or do yo think they are the one? How long have you've been with him or her. What makes you think that this is the one you see yourself growing old with?

I have found my one I think.

Me and my gf have been going out for nearly 4 years.

I think she is the one due to we have a lot in common, but also a lot of polar opposites. So we never get bored of each other, and always find ground we like to talk about and debate about. I think it's critical that "the one" is a person you want to spend all your time with, and I never get bored of my gf's company.

Originally Posted by BurningCrusade

I have found my one I think.

Me and my gf have been going out for nearly 4 years.

I think she is the one due to we have a lot in common, but also a lot of polar opposites. So we never get bored of each other, and always find ground we like to talk about and debate about. I think it's critical that "the one" is a person you want to spend all your time with, and I never get bored of my gf's company.

Pretty much this. XD I hold the same opinion for him.

You know the right one for you?

Yes, I do believe I've found the one. He's absolutely amazing and I never get bored when I'm around him.

Or do yo think they are the one?

I believe he's the one. He's... Spectacular.

How long have you've been with him?

I've been with him about a year and two months, which is extremely long for me. Normally, a relationship doesn't last but about a month with me. I don't know why but I either pick an asshole or a guy who looks appealing and really isn't.

What makes you think that this is the one you see yourself growing old with?

Well, he's just that kind of guy. He makes me feel happy and secure, and loved. He's down to earth and realistic. Not only that but he's just such a wonderful young man.

I thought I did at one point. But we only ended up going out for about 3 weeks.
I mean, we never do get bored of each other, and we always have fun when hanging out, but she just wanted to be friends.
So that's what we've been for about a year and a half now.
If you've ever seen How I Met You Mother, I'm pretty much exactly Ted and she's basically Robin.

I believe I have found the one and darn it, if he's not it than I don't think I have any hope of meeting anyone more amazing them him so it works for me! xD
We have been married (shock, I am only in my 20's haha) for 7 years this year and if you include our dating and engagement it has been a total of 9 years! o.O
It doesn't feel that long but at the same time it feels like we were never not together. Honestly, anyone who has seen all the different sides of you and still wants to spend the rest of their life with you...what more could you ask for? <3

I don't think there is such a thing.

But, even if I did--I'm not sure yet. All my past relationships can't possibly be it. Most of them sucked for so many reasons and I was so miserable.
My current boyfriend I love the pants off of. We're not perfect, and we do fight sometimes. But...we still care about each other all the time and I miss him--he's off in the mountains right now working. He means a lot and whether or not he's the one, I'm going to try my best to make it work. <3

I really think I've found my one. Even tho we've been together for like...idk,it's not a long time,but we know each other since some time,and i've been in love with him since,well...ever. XD
We're so similar in many things and we complete each other so much it's scary.
Even tho everyone here(except mom)thinks I'm stupid,because we live far from each other....
I prefer him over any other guy of where I live.

I may have, but I'm not making guarantees. People change as time goes by.
Although, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years (as of this-coming Monday), and we're still happily in love. He's been with me though school, and sickness, through joys and deaths, as I have with him. We actually have very little in common, but it's our love for learning about other things that keeps our relationship enjoyable. We're always wondering, why is that person doing that? How does that work? Whats that like? And so we grow and learn and experience all sorts of things together...Of course we fight sometimes. (he keeps talking about kids in 5-6 years, and I keep telling him I'm never giving birth.) But without fights we'd have a pretty low maintenance relationship, and its by fighting that we realize that the other person isn't perfect, nor are our lives going to be stress-free and thats the way we like it. We both do well under pressure.

Not even close. Sadly

I was with a guy for nearly 10 years, broke up and am still looking for "the one". In a sense I do feel like he was one of "the ones". XD I do still love him, I'm just not in love with him like I used to be.

I do believe that some people are bound to have just one "soul mate". I do believe that depending on the person, it is entirely possible to love more than one person and have more than one "soul mate".

While I was with him, I also had a girlfriend who I was with for nearly three years. I do believe that I was with both of them for a reason and I did love both of them dearly, though I was closer to my hubby. I also believe that there are different kinds of "soul mates" and that "soul mate" to me means someone that you are supposed to be close with due to destiny.

As for the whole "the one" thing. In my case, I'm not too sure if that said person exists.

I think so. We met six years ago and have been going out for three years. I know he isn't sure yet though because he has told me that when he's pretty sure, we'll move in together, and when he's certain, he'll propose.

He's sweet, intelligent, hard working, and fun. He recognizes my faults and helps me to correct them but doesn't insist that I do so. He's happy with me as I am even if I don't change. He only wants me to change to help me and only if I also want the change.

i believe and know i have found the one, he is amazing inside and out, we have so much in common along with some things that we dont have common, we never run out of things to talk about and we always have funn together, he is great with my kids and they love him, i would do anything for him and i know he would do anything for me and the kids. he is the love of my life and the father of my kids. vince you are my world, my everything and i love you with all my heart and soul!!!!

im proud to say yes i have the one she makes me smile when im down she pick me up when im on the ground she makes me the happiest person alive and keeps me going day by day her name is daisy and i love her with all my heart and i am proud to say she is the one and always will be

We're married, so I'd sure hope so. ;P We have been together for over four years now and I've felt very sure of it from early on in the relationship. I couldn't begin to imagine myself with someone else, nor could I ever picture us falling apart. We have every intention of spending our lives together.

Yes I have found my one and married him. Didn't think someone like them existed but there he was. XD And we hope we die together because neither can imagine life without each other.

I certainly hope that my boyfriend is my one and only. We've been together for the past three and a half years, we've got so much in common, we're best friends as well as boyfriend and girlfriend and we both love each other to the moon and back. I can't imagine us splitting up or drifting apart, but you never know what the future holds.

At the moment, my boyfriend is definitely my 'Mr Right' and I wouldn't have it any other way.

Pff, no. I don't even date, so I haven't found any "one" yet.

Yes. I believe I have and we're engaged. Everything about it just feels so right. There are these moments that happen every once in a while were we stop feeling like him and I and we become 'Us'. It's a wonderful feeling. We get along so well, of course we have our stupid little arguments but never anything that we can remember what it was over later. We have similar hobbies but many different ones too. And we always have stories to tell each other. There are a few weird things about our relationship though, we both feel like we have known each other for much longer than we have, and we both had dreams with each other in it about a year before we ever met. But I can't imagine anyone else treating me like he does or making me as happy as he does, so I wouldn't want to be with anyone else. He's the one.

I thought I had found the right one 26 days ago. Guess I was wrong...:no:

I think I have found "the one", but I won't say I have until/if we truly do spend the rest of our lives together. He makes me happy for the most part and I know that he loves and cares about me (which is a completely great feeling.) We've made it 2 years 7 months so far and I'm ecstatic to see how far we can make it. :)

I'm not sure if I believe in "the one." I think the idea is a bit silly, but my current significant other is my first and his dedication to me is unbelievable and I truly want to make out relationship last for as long as possible. He waited for me for a year before I was even certain I was ready to date. We haven't been together for very long yet, but I can see us sticking with each other for quite a while.

Originally Posted by ~~LOOOOOOONGCAT~~

Yes. I believe I have and we're engaged. Everything about it just feels so right. There are these moments that happen every once in a while were we stop feeling like him and I and we become 'Us'. It's a wonderful feeling. We get along so well, of course we have our stupid little arguments but never anything that we can remember what it was over later. We have similar hobbies but many different ones too. And we always have stories to tell each other. There are a few weird things about our relationship though, we both feel like we have known each other for much longer than we have, and we both had dreams with each other in it about a year before we ever met. But I can't imagine anyone else treating me like he does or making me as happy as he does, so I wouldn't want to be with anyone else. He's the one.

That's so sweet!
I'm very happy for you two.
:)

I don't believe in this. It's all nonsense to me. There are billions of people in the world and thus an infinite number of Ones or Soul Mates. There's not just one person for everyone, there are several.

Personally, no matter how much I have loved someone, I have never called any of them The One. Not even my current boyfriend whom I love more than all the others combined.

My honest opinion is that you'll never truly know, there'll always be the drawbacks that change your mind or mainly you just need to separate for an amount of years. Hoping that that distance would somehow bring some closure to your relationship. But at times like this it mostly depends.