I thought I had found the one for me. However his personality did a complete 360 on me in recent months. I decided it was best for us to go our separate ways for now and remain friends. I told him we both have growing up to do and both need to seek help for our issues. I said that perhaps one day we can revisit being together again once we are more mature. I still deeply love him and he still deeply loves me. Before we broke up we were almost together two years. I think he is my one, but he needs more time to grow first.

Heh. I have had guys who insisted they were "The One" for me, but they were just an arrogant annoyance. If The One happens to stumble along one day, great, but I think there are too many fabulous darlings out there to think in those terms...

I believe I have found the one woman I can honestly see myself growing old with...we share a very special deep love, that spans beyond the realm of simple lust...we are both family oriented, we both share the same values and often the same interests, though we may clash here and there, I'm confident we have a solid relationship going.