I want to know what peoples opinions on this are. In my personal ideals, I would not do this at all. I like to take things slow and enjoy life. I think kissing is oky on a first date, but I haven't kissed on the first date. XD My husband and I were too shy to even hold hands on our very first date. SO CUTE!

Haha, that is cute. :D
Sex on the first date? I can't lie, I've done it before. :x But, I wouldn't recommend it. If you're sexually frustrated and you're looking for love, you may want to take care of that first some other way before searching haha.

Kissing on the first date seems ok to me, but sex? Wowies. I guess it depends on how long you knew the person previously?

I definitely wouldn't do it, no matter how long I had known the person.

Heh, sex on a first date? Mark me down for one. Ive actually had sex on a first/last date, aka, one night stand.

I've never done anything like that on a first date! The most I usually do is a kiss on the cheek, usually as a thank you for an awesome night and thanks for walking me to my door.

The only time I kissed someone on a first date is only because I knew them for 7 years before hand. XD Sex..no, never. I'm not very sexual and don't like people touching me too much to begin with. Heck, half the time I can't even stand the kissing thing.

Mystic: I'm not really big on sex either, neither is my husband. I like cuddles and kisses though! Can't get enough, except when he makes me not breath =____=

My husband and I were dating for a good 6 months before we kissed. (er...we were 15/16 at the time) I think it was like two months before we held hands and 2 years before we had sex. >.> But we were really young, I can't imagine him putting up with that at our current age of 24. lulz. If I wasn't married sex on the first date would still be a hell no, but I doubt I could go two years with out it after having it previously.

Melody: Awwww X3 My husbands and I first kiss was unforgettable O___O and after that we snuck kisses at work even though we could have been fired >: D It was about a year before we went all the way O_O

Actually... with my ex and current boyfriend.. I had sex on first date o.o lol

Sex on the first date... No way I wouldn't do that :x wayy to fast for me. I haven't even had sex with my bf yet and we've been together for 11 months :x we've done stuff but not all the way to full on sex XD

11 months without doing nothing? Ur tough :O

Originally Posted by Solou

11 months without doing nothing? Ur tough :O

I agree xD

I was never brave enough to have sex on a first date O_O But I don't look down on people who do XD Everyone has their own lives to live, so live it how you wanna. When I met my husband I was pretty young though, I wonder how it would change if I met him when I was older XD I am addicted to him still O_O

Originally Posted by LiliumScifi

I was never brave enough to have sex on a first date O_O But I don't look down on people who do XD Everyone has their own lives to live, so live it how you wanna. When I met my husband I was pretty young though, I wonder how it would change if I met him when I was older XD I am addicted to him still O_O

ditto. Right now, I don't think I would have made it through the first date before trying to rip off his clothes. >.> lol.

Melody: Hahahah XD So fun!! I would make a topic about interesting places where people have um. . done the naughty, but I might make people angry if I make another topic O_O And that topic could get crazy but I think it'd be funny XD

Fine if other people want to do it, but not for me at all. I don't like to rush things and I am only interested in very serious, long-term commitments when it comes to relationships (and I am the type to tie the emotional and physical aspects together rather than holding them separate). However, just how slowly that means taking things depends on the individual situation and the connection that I feel with the other person. Looking back, things went a little more quickly with my husband than I would have expected for myself, but I knew what seemed right at the time and have never regretted anything--and we're perfectly happy now.

Depends on the sitch, but it's not usually my cuppa.

I've never done it and I don't think it would be something I'll do in the future. I don't have any issues with it - if the people involved are happy. I just can't see myself enjoying such a thing.
I like to get to know someone before becoming physically involved since it is more of an emotional thing for me. I barely have a desire for sex at all actually, unless under the right circumstances (which is when my boyfriend is around - but that's mostly because I connect with him; it took a while to develop (nearly three years)).

I've had a one-night stand but the guy and I were friends before so I wouldn't call it "sex on a first date."
It wasn't really worth it. :P

I've had sex with most guys I've dated after a few months or so.
But frankly, I'd never have sex on the first date. Who knows where they've been!?

Or if they'll steal your kidney!

I wouldn't do it on the first date. I like to get to know a guy first.

I also get attached when I get that close to someone.
I don't want to get attached if he's going to not call again.

noooo NO sex at first, second third month 2 month times lol

I'm not really a 'sex on the first date' kind of girl. I've only had two boyfriends, and only one of them I have ever properly loved. Considering we were both only fifteen/sixteen when we started dating, we didn't get down to business until a year and a half or so later.

Though if I was to start dating now with someone who isn't my boyfriend, no way they'd get into my pants on the first date. But if I had my first date with my current boyfriend now, I would jump into bed with him no problem... xD

I don't think I could handle that much intimacy on a first date. o.O;