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Old 04-16-2011, 09:27 PM

This week has been horrible for me. Well in the beginning of this 'wonderful' week my boyfriend and I broke up because neither of us had time and all of our friends were going against us.
Oh and today got even better.
So my friend Callie is really good friends with my Exboyfriend, even when we were dating, and I was perfectly fine with that until today. You see, Callie actually liked my exboyfriend... lets call him Mike. So Callie had been telling Mike to get over me because she liked him. She told him that it would never work out if he asked me out again and that he should just move on to someone else.

She said she was my friend to but friends dont do that to each other.... right??

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Old 04-17-2011, 12:36 AM

o.O Nope, friends don't do that to each other. Saying your friend is lying to you is abit harsh, but its true, She's not a good friend.
But if your ex does as she says and goes out with her instead, then he's not exactly a good boyfriend either D:
The best thing you can do is hope that he comes and talks to you, or you talk to him, and discuss whether or not it could work out. And hope he's not manipulated by her words.
All of your friends? O.O Is there any reason for that? otherwise i suggest you get some new friends XD

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Old 04-17-2011, 05:47 AM

Haha no not all of my friends thank goodness. Just one. I have my very best friend who has been with me through everything. Thank you so much.
I dunno whether I should confront her or not, because I havent said anything.

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Old 04-17-2011, 06:02 AM

Technically you two aren't going out anymore so if they do end up going out, they have every right to. However, that is kind of wrong of her to do that so soon after you two broke up. You should talk to your ex and see if he'd be willing to put everything back together again since you do still like him. Just because one friend didn't approve of your relationship does not mean that it has to dictate everything that you do. If they're your friend they'd let you know how they feel about it but they'd let you make your own descision. You should also talk to Callie and let her know how you feel. I wouldn't fight with her but it'd be good to at least talk about it and see where it goes from there.

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Old 04-17-2011, 03:48 PM

Your ex is now "public domain", first come first serve. If she likes him, it's perfectly normal that she should fight for him, even if she's fighting a bit low. But in all seriousness, if you two broke up because your friends were going against you, then your relationship wasn't all that good or serious to begin with, probably.

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Old 04-17-2011, 04:04 PM

She's toxic. And you can judge your ex by how he responds/responded to her--if he agreed or went along with it, then he's not someone you really want in your life, either.

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Old 04-17-2011, 06:30 PM

Reminds me of someone I know who had a guy all over her, but her friend kept telling her he wasn't good enough for her and so on. The girl then shook the guy off only to see him hold hands with her friend a couple of days later. "Hey," she said, "I thought you said he wasn't good enough for me!"

"I did," said her friend, "You're too good for him, but he is great for me!"

So now your acquaintance has one of your castoffs who is on the rebound. There may be a bit of a bruised ego because he got over it fast, but then again, if you broke off with him, he wasn't doing all that much for you, either. I say you got off the best out of this whole situation...

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Old 04-19-2011, 02:13 AM

Okay thanks you guys soo much
I am going to talk to her, but nicely and not get in her face. I will also talk to "Mike" again and see if maybe we can just forget about stupid people and move on with our lives. (Maybe get back together but i dunno)
It would have been fine if she started going after him a few months after but the day afterwards really?
I know this is a kinda stupid problem, but thanks for helping me anyways haha I really needed it right now. :)

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Old 04-19-2011, 03:31 AM

Friends definitely do not do that. A friend, even if she liked "Mike" would understand it would hurt you, and not go for him. Especially right away. Talk to her, but if she keeps going at it, you know. Just ignore her, and if he is stupid enough to go for her, then so be it. You deserve someone who takes in your feelings, and won't hurt you like that.

 


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