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Old 02-06-2012, 07:26 PM

Cass: Oh, there is nothing wrong with being immature every now and then. But there is definitely a point where some people take it way too far! But one just needs to know when is the time and all that.

Yeah -sigh- Oh, from what he's told me, he realized it before we broke up, he just didn't know how to tell me - which is yet another reason I'm peeved with him. :XD

Oh, that's how it was with mine as well! He understood me in ways that most don't get me. And he was one of the first boys I actually felt comfortable actually being myself around. And not someone I was pretending to be.

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:28 PM

Love is tough, and confusing sometimes O: Do you ladies remember the good times too, or just the bad stuff?

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:29 PM

Yeah i was super close to his sister who had the two kids.

He got jealous a few times actually. But i dunno why. He used to have lads nights and i used to have girl nights xD

But when i lost my job i stayed home with her and the kids so i got super attached.

His other sister actually asked me to be bridesmaid for her wedding this year, but i don't see it happening, its been too long now, by then she'll probably get to know his new girl and pick her instead xD

I just can't wait to give my own kids the love i gave hers!

But i dunno if i want it in the next 8 months yet :shock:

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:30 PM

@Nemo: Definitely! My ex is one of those people. *pokes him in the eye with a fork*

Aw, yikes. I certainly wouldn't want to know that. D;

Snap! My ex was the first person that I would actually consider a love of mine. There wasn't anything I held back from with him. And it's incredibly hard for me to be comfortable with someone.

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:30 PM

Oh yeah gotta remember the good. It just sucks when the bad start outweighing and you forget xD

I try and remember the good but i get bitter now cause the bad seems to stick out and make sense for our failing haha.

I just wish things cudda been different and we fitted better, cause i really wanted a kid to him and his family. They were all amazing and beautiful and the most caring people i've ever known, even if he had a temper and a horrible side xD

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:30 PM

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It's the good times that makes me put up with all the shit he puts me through now. If it wasn't for the good times, I couldn't give a shiny shite what he said about me.

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Yeah i was super close to his sister who had the two kids.

He got jealous a few times actually. But i dunno why. He used to have lads nights and i used to have girl nights xD

But when i lost my job i stayed home with her and the kids so i got super attached.

His other sister actually asked me to be bridesmaid for her wedding this year, but i don't see it happening, its been too long now, by then she'll probably get to know his new girl and pick her instead xD

I just can't wait to give my own kids the love i gave hers!

But i dunno if i want it in the next 8 months yet :shock:
At least his family still think of you. C:

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:32 PM

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I remember the good times from my first ex, all the time. We were so cute. :hug:

My last ex though, no. There was just waaay too much bad constantly going on to outweigh any good moments.

If my current and I ever break up there will be plenty of good times to remember though.
(I hope we don't break up, though. xD)

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:33 PM

You learn from each experience though, right?

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:34 PM

Have fun, guys~

Dentist appointment for me. :ninja:

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:34 PM

Hm...I think the only thing I've learned would be not to get too attached to anyone, because they all leave eventually. Not the best lesson to learn though. :lol:

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:34 PM

Vicky: Oh, I definitely remember the good times. Those are the ones that make me smile. :) I agree with what Cass said, honestly it's the good memories that are in a way, making me feel like I need to give him a second chance.

Lavi: Awes! :hug: I can't imagine being pulled away from them that. :( And tough decisions.

Cass: Eh... yeah - and honestly, I've been mentally beating myself up because I never saw it. I told my sister that he told me he's gay, and you want to know her response, "I knew it. I was right." -sigh- But that is the past, I need to try to move on.

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:34 PM

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:35 PM

@Iku: Have fun, I have the dentist Friday. :gonk:

@Nemo: At the time you don't see it though. *hug*

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:36 PM

Haha yeah. im totally detached from most people around me right now, and i think its down to my ex.

I just don't see how i could be comfortable and hopeful in my next relationship, ill be so paranoid about the same thing happening again, even though chances are it will eventually anyway xD

I just go with the flow, hope for the best, and if feelings happen, feelings happen! I hope i get more good times next time around, whenever that is.

If not, and i end up with a bubba this summer, i'll just pass my love to him/her/them instead! xD

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:37 PM

Cass: Yeah. Didn't help either that we didn't see each other all that often either.

Lavi: I like the idea of just going with the flow. :heart:

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:37 PM

Lav can loves HIM. HIM had a relationship it failed miserably

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:38 PM

Hello, new people. Mind if I dive into the discussion for a bit?

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:39 PM

I think if you worry about a new relationship going the same way as the last one, then you're not ready for a new one yet *nods*

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:39 PM

@Lavi: I think I'm just going to go with the flow. I've been slutting it up recently, so I really need to stop that too. I don't want to earn a rep. D;

@Nemo: I think there was only two or three days when I wasn't with my ex during our relationship.


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Of course not! The more the merrier! <3

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I think if you worry about a new relationship going the same way as the last one, then you're not ready for a new one yet *nods*
That sounds the best advice. (:

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:40 PM

Oh my, love is the topic. I find comfort in being mildly asexual, there's no heartbreak and I stray from seeking a companion. I don't have "relationships," I have friends and that's about it.

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:41 PM

Being comfortable with your life is best *nods*

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:41 PM

Haha yeah im definitely not ready yet.

Im only just starting to feel comfortable again.

But then, i wish i didnt get lonely and have a one night stand with my ex (different ex not the horrible failed miserably one)...now im bladdi preggers! D=
Unless the test i did is just being evil to teach me a lesson....how evil that would be!

And hey Ophelia, how are you? ^^

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:43 PM

@Ophelia: It's always best to be comfortable with your life. I mean, it's you that lives it on a daily basis, not everyone else. C:

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:43 PM

Well, you can be a mommy without needing the daddy around. Big change, but it would be kind of exciting too, if you want a little one.

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Old 02-06-2012, 07:45 PM

To Vicktoria :: Absolutely. If I couldn't be comfortable in my own skin, I'd be lost.

To Lavinia :: Quite energetic for once (I'm usually rather lazy), and yourself?

To Cassette :: Precisely! I wish more people would realize that about their lives.

 



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