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hummy
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04-12-2012, 06:31 PM
get documentation about all of your appointments.
as far back as you can.
also, make documentation of all of your visits and phone calls.
be as prepared as you can.
don't forget to document all of your inspections/drills/tdy's etc.
show why your mother has here for now and that you are a stable family and feel she is old enough to join you.
paperwork is a pain in the butt, but, it will provide a lot of insight you will need to prove you are a good mother and deserve your daughter with you.
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Zephi
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04-12-2012, 06:45 PM
Yeah. The even suckier part is that we'll have to go through the same thing to get my husbands daughter X_x omg. That case might be a lot harder though... but maybe not. I dunno. Honestly it's just a little annoying when I can finally call the states and then I find out that they are only open monday thru wednesday. I mean really.. waht kind of days are those? Then I called the family court line and it said the judge was out so they were closed for the day. And then the regular live was busy so it's like, call back at a later time, we can't answer your call right now. =.=; These lazy people... :XD
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Jeannesha
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04-12-2012, 09:51 PM
What state is your mother in, Zeph?
I don't think that she legally has a leg to stand on in a custody battle.
Not unless she can prove some abuse in the past. That would be the only reason that courts would grant her custody.
Traveling is really good for kids! Think of her being able to quickly learn German and maybe even other languages.
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04-12-2012, 11:48 PM
Hi Jean!
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Zephi
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04-13-2012, 06:20 AM
The problem lies from when I joined the Army. You can't join as a sinlge parent, so you literally have to give up your children to do so. I gave custody to my mom and she said that she wouldn't fight me when I could get custody back. Oh yea... I believed her. Now she's just making things difficult and annoying me. I think she tries to make me angry sometimes. I told her how they said no one could go on leave in June because it was going to be a busy month and she's like, "well find a way to get over here. You're an adult, you have to do these things now." I really just want to punch her like, "I'm an adult, NOW!? JUST NOW? ARE YOU SERIOUS? I'm almost 28 years old. I have been an adult for 10 years. I took care of my daughter every single day before I joined the army. I KNOW THAT I AM AN ADULT, YOU'RE THE ONE THAT TREATS ME OTHERWISE!!!" = 3= Sorry for venting. Then if I say anything back to her she says I'm attacking her. OMG... then when I try to talk to her about my daughter coming here she just hands the phone away and completely ignores the conversation!!! It really makes me want to pull my hair out.
T^T
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hummy
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04-13-2012, 06:33 AM
i didn't know you couldn't join as a single parent.
oh, man you should have put some codicels into that arrangement.
there are people out there that DUMP their children in the trash containers!!!!!
holy crap, i see you as a very responsible person and a loving mother to want you child taken care of.
you can provide her a good life and have skills to get a good job when you get out.
family should be the last people on the earth to f*** you over, any yet they seem to be the very first ones!
vent away, that's why you have friends, to keep you sane when your mother is being dispecible!
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04-13-2012, 06:36 AM
Yep. Gotta have friends. My mom is in Ohio right now, but the custody agreement took place in NC, so it has to be amended thru NC as well. Just another annoying thing. I haven't been able to ask if they can send the paperwork to me or if someone has to pick it up. Or if I have to be there in person, or if it can be done over the phone. I'm just worried that it's going to be really expensive if my mom fights it. I know she can't afford to, so I'm hoping that she won't. :D At least I have that over her.
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Moon!
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04-13-2012, 08:04 AM
Hello? :o any fight here? :O
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Zephi
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04-13-2012, 09:19 AM
A fight? Not really... just venting I guess :sweat:
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Moon!
I need food...! ;u;
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04-13-2012, 09:27 AM
Ahhh XD thats good :O
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Zephi
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04-13-2012, 10:09 AM
I suppose. One way or another this is gonna come out... at least friends are on my side... unlike family... er... well unlike my mom. =.=
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Moon!
I need food...! ;u;
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04-13-2012, 10:15 AM
Mom your enemie?! :o
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04-13-2012, 02:15 PM
*gasp* That's not good.
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Zephi
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04-13-2012, 08:18 PM
Is what it is I suppose.
A yellow lab ran up to me today and totally reminded me of why dogs are awesome. Reminded me of my old labs, Texas and Jake. how they would run up behind you when you're walking, minding your own business and lick your hand, completely scaring the crap out of you while they say hello and slobber everywhere :XD
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04-13-2012, 09:51 PM
Lol, that's cute.
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Maka-chan
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04-14-2012, 04:06 AM
@Gold n' Silver
I got my shop opened so you can feel free to stop by. :) just thought i'd let you know.
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Gold n' Silver
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04-14-2012, 04:15 AM
Ooh cool. I'm totally going to check it out.
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Maka-chan
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04-14-2012, 09:51 AM
yay! n.n I need people to chat in there so everyone is welcomed to talk there even when I am not there.
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Moon!
I need food...! ;u;
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04-14-2012, 10:35 AM
where is that shop desi? :D
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Maka-chan
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04-14-2012, 10:36 AM
moon
the link it is my signature~ I forget to say. haha. I am so forgetful. XD
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Moon!
I need food...! ;u;
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04-14-2012, 10:37 AM
hehe xD ill check out that shop :D
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Maka-chan
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04-14-2012, 10:40 AM
woo! i Cannot wait!
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Moon!
I need food...! ;u;
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04-14-2012, 10:46 AM
mi gosh! :O your pixels are soooo cutee!! 8D hehe i like the ribbit one ;D
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Maka-chan
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04-14-2012, 10:49 AM
thank you. that is my first OC Ringo. :3
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Moon!
I need food...! ;u;
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04-14-2012, 10:50 AM
your welcome :) ooohh :o
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