my ex had an affair for at LEAST 3 or 4 months before I found out. the worst part was the last 2 months of our marriage, I found out, he didn't have sex with me because he didn't want to cheat on his girlfriend. how crazy is that??

Aw that's horrible! D; I don't know how I'd cope with that to be honest. I'm already a bit of a commitmentphobe so after putting all that trust into someone for them to fuck someone else, I'd probably freak haha

the worst part is, when I found out about he, he tried to blame me and called me names and made me feel horrible! most gals I've talked to that have been in a similar situation said their jerks did the same thing.

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'who'd want to sleep with a cow like you?" ... stuff like that. he was a real peach about it all.

Not holding still? I was a total wigglebutt as a kid XD I wish they had that nose thing when I was little

@Crazy: Aw, that's horrible! I've had that sort of things said too. It really is a total crusher for the self confidence! D; I was told that I was fat, ugly and unloveable and that he only pretended to like me until he got a better offer, which he did. Jerks don't take break ups or finding outs overly well, do they?

nose thing? what??

he's not a wiggle butt ... well, he is ... it's mostly social behavior. he's 12 but is more like 5 or so when it comes to stuff like that. and he's INCREDIBLY strong!!!

O_O wow Vinyl! I tell you what though, during our marriage he had me pretty beat down emotionally. if I was more me like I was before him and like I am now he would have ended up not being able to ever have sex again! ... or something ...

nope, I don't think anybody likes being caught.

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God, I LOVE this double wall cup! my coffee is STILL warm!

-tackles crazy-

AAAH! *goes down like a sack of tatters*

I'm sorry you had such a bad experience D; He's lucky that he can still have sex, he certainly doesn't deserve it! For the most part my relationship was alright if you ignore the fact he hit me and made a few jokes about me that I took great offence too. Other than that, we worked well when we were alone. All in all though, we were a toxic couple. >.> I lost most of my friends thanks to him and the way I acted around him. I've got four of them back though

How are you doing?

*picks up DD and put in a chair*

Nein! Kein Tackle!

The nose "shot"...
For me... honestly I think my "parenting" instincts kick in with aspies. o.o
I dunno why o.o

Bucket isn't fat or ugly... o.o last I checked you looked fine...

There is no food here GG >.>'

he HIT you?? mine abused me emotionally. he knew that if he tried to hit me he'd end up in the hospital.

I'm pretty good DD ... I'd give you some foodz if I could.

I said no tackling O.o"

My exwife hit and mentally abused me o.o
The few times I slapped her for being extremely rude she called me the abusive one...

oh, my mama bear instincts come out with my son. everybody at his elementary knew me and how we go about things. this is his first year in the middle school and they are still learning that you don't fuck with me, I am in EVERYTHING related to my son, stuff like that.

smoke break! be back soon!

You can't control me GG >.>'

I am DD >.>' or Scooby-Doo xD

*feeds DD*

Thanks, Poet C:

@Crazy: Yeah, it was just the once though. My friend's brother had a 21st barbecue party and we went, he got too drunk and assumed that I was cheating on him with my friend Gregor because I gave him a hug when he left, and then he punched me in the taxi on the way back. It was the company that my mum worked for, and she went mad on the Monday after because the driver didn't do anything to stop him and she was saying that he had a daughter my age and how would he like it if someone leathered her in the back of a car etc etc. I'm just really not an intimidating person haha

-pats belly- I like a good meal!

Ja, ich kann nur sehen, ich gehe auf deinen arsch deutsch :3

I had roast tatties and gravy for dinner

GG stop speaking in tongues!

Is that not German?

I don't know what it is :(

I only know english :(