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Old 12-17-2012, 03:56 AM

I had a good friend who had to travel lots for work, but he called his girlfriend at least once a day, everyday. He told me his girlfriend found it annoying at first but he said she said that she would rather he did because then she knows that he cares.

Something so little can mean so much and yet most people don't realize that the smaller things in life are really just as important.

I'm not trying to tell you what to do but don't end up like I did... it was a mess for me. I hope everything works out for you.

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Old 12-17-2012, 04:01 AM

Thanks Kole :) I'm just hoping that this all gets sorted out. I know I shouldn't be complaining because this time last year we really almost did break up thanks to not so great friends. I just wish we could talk more and I really wouldn't care if he called me once a day I would be in heaven

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Old 12-17-2012, 04:04 AM

People take a lot for granted... maybe he just doesn't realize how important to him you really are... that is life ... my ex called me a few weeks ago and talked to me for 40 minutes... I didn't want to see him, I'm still not ready to-- he caused me way too much pain, I forgive but I have a hard time forgetting.

Well you follow your heart, because in the end that's what you're going to do. I know that's what I did. My other friend did the same and I for him. A good friend may see your in a bad relationship-- but can only be supportive and help you cope with it. You and you alone have to make the decision whether it's worth continuing or not in the end. Friends should only be supportive of your decisions.

As long as you are not being physically abused or anything gross of that nature.

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Old 12-17-2012, 04:10 AM

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I hope you and your family are doing well, Ofie.
We are, though when we were decorating the tree me and my mother were sad... When I got home I just felt really overwhelmed and just broke down, today I am much better though.

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Old 12-17-2012, 04:11 AM

I'm strong enough now and have been put through those kind of relationships to fight back for myself and leave if it ever got that way. I'm like you I can forgive its just the forgetting part that I can't do. They both were very jealous over the fact that I have finally found someone that I am happy with, they just became very untrustworthy and said very harsh things that shouldn't have been said.

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Old 12-17-2012, 04:12 AM

I never forget relationship stuff...

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Old 12-17-2012, 04:13 AM

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We are, though when we were decorating the tree me and my mother were sad... When I got home I just felt really overwhelmed and just broke down, today I am much better though.
I'm glad you are okay I know I wasn't on when everything happened but you were in my thoughts constantly

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Old 12-17-2012, 04:34 AM

Yea trust is a hard thing to get back, and I have given partners multiple chances and they still blow each and every one of them.

Well just protect your heart as well.

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Old 12-17-2012, 04:39 AM

I am but at the same time i have let my boyfriend know a deeper side to me that no one else has known but I know this will get better we just have to push through. I am done giving chances to people I am tired of being stabbed in the back by people, and he knows this so he knows not to do anything seriously wrong otherwise I will not give another chance

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Same here Laroose

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Old 12-17-2012, 09:03 AM

-wonders in to see if anyone notices me entering...-


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Old 12-17-2012, 09:10 AM

Waiting for a parcel. Waiting. *waits*

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Old 12-17-2012, 02:57 PM

Good Morning and to all a great morning even though the weather here is nasty and rainy lol

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Old 12-17-2012, 02:58 PM

*pokes head in* hello anyone in?

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Old 12-17-2012, 03:28 PM

I'm here but I'm going from web page to web page, plus I'm doing writing so I check in from time to time.
Well good morning to you anyways LOL :)

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Old 12-17-2012, 03:29 PM

Good morning all of my friends in North America :D

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Old 12-17-2012, 03:38 PM

Hello DaniCaliforna, how are you?

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Old 12-17-2012, 03:41 PM

I was about to whine parcel is still not here but a UPS van just drove past? Do I dare to hope?

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Old 12-17-2012, 03:43 PM

No you do not Kat!


grr i have to go now and do some last minute christmas shopping... I hate christmas shopping.... -_-;

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Old 12-17-2012, 03:44 PM

Better to never raise your expectations of anything. That way you'll never be disappointed. (Pessimistic post of the day!)

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Old 12-17-2012, 03:45 PM

It came back!

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It's nearly 4pm so my day has been officially wasted anyway. OH WELL. Now when my dad gets home he gets to open his super snazzy new phone and I can just seethe in a corner.

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Old 12-17-2012, 03:49 PM

And now it's a pleasant surprise! See? pessimism IS fun

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Old 12-17-2012, 03:50 PM

Ugh, I'm being such a massive bitch over this phone already. My dad LOST his and gets offered a brand new one and for my 'upgrade' I get lied to and given a year old one.

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Old 12-17-2012, 03:52 PM

Ugh phones. I went from a brand new HTC Desire HD to some old Nokia from about 2005. Worst part of moving internationally is definitely locked phones that won't allow you to switch plans

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Old 12-17-2012, 03:56 PM

To annoy me even further my dad has just arrived home. 10 minutes after the parcel. Gr8.

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Old 12-17-2012, 11:03 PM

*wanders in* Hullo there!

 



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