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#576
Old 04-26-2012, 02:24 AM

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Oh, and a quick introduction, yes. I'm Wren, a 19 year old Canadian girl. I'm the Q in LGBTQ, slowly but surely discovering my sexual identity. For now, I identify as a panromantic lesbian. So yes. Hello. <3
Welcome! I posted my reply before I saw you edit, or maybe it was before you even did it. But welcome!

Discovering your sexuality takes time in many cases. What got you on this quest to discover it? What made you realize you weren't straight?

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#577
Old 04-26-2012, 02:31 AM

hello! hwo is everyone in here tonight?

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Old 04-26-2012, 02:32 AM

I am amazing, though a bit gassy.

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Old 04-26-2012, 02:36 AM

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Welcome! I posted my reply before I saw you edit, or maybe it was before you even did it. But welcome!

Discovering your sexuality takes time in many cases. What got you on this quest to discover it? What made you realize you weren't straight?
I've always tried to be normal. I dated guys, and I thought I was pretty normal because I found guys 'cute' and everything, but I've always just preferred women a little more. Or a lot more.If I had dreams, they would be of women. If I had crushes, they would be on women.

The confusion comes from these rather large exceptions. I get crushes on a lot of guys, they just happen to all be celebrities/people I will never talk to. In my actual relationships with men, I find myself bored and not attracted to them at all.

I'm still attracted to SOME men, so I feel like I don't have the 'right' to call myself a lesbian, but I really don't want to have sex with guys. It's more of a... Joke isn't the right word. Fantasy isn't really the right word either, but maybe it is. It's fun to think about getting married to an adorable hockey player or 7, but would it actually happen? No. If I actually met these people I would probably either embarrass myself by screaming like a fangirl or I just flat-out wouldn't like them anymore.

I don't know if this makes any sense or not, but yeah. That's kind of where I'm at.

My main problem right now is finding my place in the community. I've found that the community doesn't really take me seriously and I have a hard time explaining this to lesbians I really like and want to pursue. I feel like being unsure is kind of a turn-off, but I have to choose between being unsure and being a liar.

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Old 04-26-2012, 02:41 AM

*give kirin some beano* :lol:

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Old 04-26-2012, 02:49 AM

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hello! hwo is everyone in here tonight?
MOMMA!! :squee: I'm good! How are you?

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I've always tried to be normal. I dated guys, and I thought I was pretty normal because I found guys 'cute' and everything, but I've always just preferred women a little more. Or a lot more.If I had dreams, they would be of women. If I had crushes, they would be on women.

The confusion comes from these rather large exceptions. I get crushes on a lot of guys, they just happen to all be celebrities/people I will never talk to. In my actual relationships with men, I find myself bored and not attracted to them at all.

I'm still attracted to SOME men, so I feel like I don't have the 'right' to call myself a lesbian, but I really don't want to have sex with guys. It's more of a... Joke isn't the right word. Fantasy isn't really the right word either, but maybe it is. It's fun to think about getting married to an adorable hockey player or 7, but would it actually happen? No. If I actually met these people I would probably either embarrass myself by screaming like a fangirl or I just flat-out wouldn't like them anymore.

I don't know if this makes any sense or not, but yeah. That's kind of where I'm at.

My main problem right now is finding my place in the community. I've found that the community doesn't really take me seriously and I have a hard time explaining this to lesbians I really like and want to pursue. I feel like being unsure is kind of a turn-off, but I have to choose between being unsure and being a liar.
It sounds like you're just finding yourself. While I get annoyed when people are like
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Labels are stupid and restrictive. Just live.
Because, for the intents and purposes of language and ease of description, I think of labeling as a good thing, so long as one is accurate and not ashamed of said label. But in this case, labeling yourself might not be the best thing, because it might be premature.

Whoever says that you don't belong in the LGBT community or doesn't take your feelings seriously is a douche. You're welcome here. :hug:

If you want a label, though, I'd say that your description of yourself sounds accurate (for now): a panromantic lesbian. Our community as one such person who, in one way, also fits this description. Maybe you should talk to them. They can probably help you better than I! ^_^ * Pings Mystic: *

In any case, we welcome you here. :heart: Thanks for sharing. And you can definitely talk to me in greater detail if you want! Either here or over Visitor's Message/PM.

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Old 04-26-2012, 02:50 AM

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Yeah, is there anyway you can talk to him, away from this girl? And calmly?
I talked to him a little while ago and I thanked the guys who told me the truth about her earlier today. AlessaStar:
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DaisyKeehl: I am really sorry. :/ That right there is why I don't miss high school: Too much drama. And too much bullshit. Sorry I've been busy all day and am just now getting the chance to get on here on Menewsha. I can definitely get on Skype later.
It is all right. I might not be on skype until around 11 your time because I gotta wash my hair and do all this stuff.
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#583
Old 04-26-2012, 02:51 AM

i'm HOT! it's been so hot here the last two days. >.> i think tomorrow should be a little cooler.

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#584
Old 04-26-2012, 02:52 AM

Daisy, that's okay! I'll be on all evening!

It's been hot here as well. :sweat: I'm hoping it cools off soon.

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#585
Old 04-26-2012, 02:53 AM

me too. what's with this crazy warm weather already?!?

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#586
Old 04-26-2012, 02:54 AM

Thank you!

I hate the heat. D: I can handle cold, but heat? Pffff, no.

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Old 04-26-2012, 02:54 AM

me to wren, i get a really bad headache, then i get sick! :XP

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Old 04-26-2012, 02:54 AM

I'm the same way. I adore the cold. I can handle it very well. But heat makes me sick. On the upside, the approaching summer means I can swim a lot more!

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Old 04-26-2012, 02:56 AM

I think I'm possibly allergic to the sunshine and heat. At least that's what I tell myself to justify staying inside where it's cool.

The only exception is when I'm taking baths. I overheat myself and sometimes get sick because of how toasty I like my bathwater.

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Old 04-26-2012, 02:58 AM

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I think I'm possibly allergic to the sunshine and heat. At least that's what I tell myself to justify staying inside where it's cool.

The only exception is when I'm taking baths. I overheat myself and sometimes get sick because of how toasty I like my bathwater.
You sound exactly like me! Everything you just said applies to me.

I am possibly legitimately allergic to sunlight. Everytime I step into bright sunlight, I sneeze. I always have! :lol:

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#591
Old 04-26-2012, 02:59 AM

yay for swimming!

wren- haha that's what i could tell family... :lol:

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Old 04-26-2012, 03:02 AM

It is cold here >.<

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#593
Old 04-26-2012, 03:02 AM

Daisy, you lucky woman! :illgetu:

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Old 04-26-2012, 03:03 AM

I wish it was warm... after that cold rainy weekend xD

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#595
Old 04-26-2012, 03:03 AM

we should all flock to daisy's house!

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#596
Old 04-26-2012, 03:03 AM

No! :illgetu: @llonka

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#597
Old 04-26-2012, 03:05 AM

I'll hop a plane right away!

I think I should go to bed, but it was lovely sort of meeting you all and I'll be back tomorrow, certainly. :heart: Sweeet dreams, namaste!

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Old 04-26-2012, 03:05 AM

Sweet dreams!!

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Old 04-26-2012, 03:09 AM

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I'll hop a plane right away!

I think I should go to bed, but it was lovely sort of meeting you all and I'll be back tomorrow, certainly. :heart: Sweeet dreams, namaste!
Sweet dreams! :heart: Good night!

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Old 04-26-2012, 03:10 AM

It's good you were able to talk to him. It turned
out alright I'm guessing then?

 


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