So I am told, I might use that to get over my present problem, [actually it isnt Derpina, still not over my ex from before her]
Kinda nobody except T knows that tho

Hope it works out for you :)

Lol time will tell XD

@ Tea in a Bucket - That's where they have times they take control... otherwise it's like "yeah you're just gonna do all the work and then I'll complain you did nothing all day" =.= Story of my marriage...

My first kiss:
was just a kiss wait no...it had a little tongue, lol I remember thinking that all kisses tasted like chocolate.....haha then the second kiss was a few minutes later....no chocolate just spit......and agressive hands.....ugh*shudders*
Fist time:
was with the father of my daughter.......we did not have her for another four years though.....I am still with him engaged and we are thinking of getting married on 12-12-12 [december 12 2012]!!!!!!!!!!

Oh jeez I don't remember much of any of my firsts. It was with my ex-husband and it was awkward, and not all that great. I think he said I tried to suffocate him with my tongue. Loving, eh?

The older I get, the more the stuff I did at a younger age gets pushed out of my memory to remember more recent stuff.

I wouldn't be too stressed out or upset if your firsts weren't all that great. My husband seems to be unable to remember much other than it was awkward as well. It gets better with practice. :P

yup always gets better

Poet, during kissing, always seems to get into "swordfights" with the other person's glasses...

Haha poor poet! For the record after some practice and also learning how to match the type of mood, hubby says I'm the best kisser he's had. He's dated more women than I have men. He also says I'm the best in the bedroom, and as strange as it sounds we've sat up and talked about past experiences with other people. It's interesting to swap stories with other people and what worked, what didn't. I'm loving how open we can be about that stuff. First husband was very strange about talking about anything that didn't involve just him. I feel you about hat first marriage. Sounds a bit déjà vu.

@Izumi: That's the best kind of relationship to have (the openness, not the weird ex husband haha)! Finding out what worked and what didn't with others will definitely improve your own experiences. C:

I definitely agree. It took him awhile to open up about particular quirks with past girlfriends, as he tended to be a bit vague to protect identities as he isn't one to kiss and tell. But me being the way I am I loved hearing about strange after-sex 'rituals'. His ex wife it was a cigarette and a soda....us its Popsicles. Yes Popsicles are wonderful afterwards. :3

@ Izu - Not surprised... gotta cool down somehow right?

@Izumi: I get really interested about that sort of things too! Never thought about popsicles, I definitely want to try that now though. The last person I was with was a smoker, so we just had twos.

My first kiss... Um, I don't really even remember! I guess that means it wasn't very special to me. Everyone wants their first kiss and their first time to be something special, but keep in mind... Its not the first time that matters, its every kiss that you share after that that makes your heart flutter, weather its your first or your five hundredth. Soo don't worry if your first kiss doesn't go well!

My first kiss happened when i was 19, with a guy i didn't really want to kiss. We were on a date, and he decided to move in, and took me by surprise. It wasn't very nice, compared to my boyfriend, who's the only other person i've kissed. I'm not the kind of person who likes having people i don't really care for in my personal space, doing intimate things with me, so kissing is somewhat special to me.
My first sexual experience was with a guy i was very much in love with, but he didn't see me as anything other than something to pass the time, and i didn't really enjoy it.

I haven't kissed someone romantically my first girlfriend (cheating Bitch) tried to move way to quickly, but I didn't know what I was doing, she was first girlfriend... I dumped her after me and a couple of my friends saw her making with another guy, and by the end of the week she had another boyfriend... then like 2 years later i had a message on FB from her like "OMG when are you moving to America!?? xxxxxxx" which kinda surprised me, then I just said "I'm not moving." "Oh okay! :) xxx some people were just saying that you were xxx" "Yeah? well they're wrong." end of convo, haven't heard from her since. :P

Obviously I haven't had sex Cheating Bitch was my first and only girlfriend... but then we had this exact thread as a topic of conversation between me and 3 other guys on a train in China and one guy said he was gay (last person on earth you think would be) and then went on to saying he had done everything under the sun. he didn't describe he just said, and he had to take off his engagement ring while we were there, it was quite saddening really. anyway then it came to me and I said what I told you then one guy asked have you had sex then? I fell off the bed giggling and was like look at me, do you think people would want to have sex with me? and he just went yeah... and then everything went awkward...

Do I regret dating my girlfriend? yes I do... I mean she's happy now with a bf of 2 years so I wish her the best and all, but it wasn't until after I had dated her that someone told me she had slapper status... and people still rip into me about it today! xD

Originally Posted by Demondog5

just had this question on my mind

1) was your first kiss.
snog Or kissing with tongs.

Uhh, I was 13 or so and dont really remember. I remember though her father caught us and pretty much treated it like we were having sex when he freaked out.

and first sexual intercourse.

Well, my first time having sex was.. interesting to say the least. Let's just say it was in a public area (at night) and kinda got "interupted" by security before bolting out of there. God forbid I get arrested for public indecency at the age of 14 =S

All other times after that have just been off and about.

Naughty, Bartuc! xD At least it makes for an interesting anecdote to tell people haha.

My first kiss wasn't special. It was by a little girl who I baby sat. Nothing sexual obviously, but it was cute to say the least. :3 But my actual first kiss was with my boyfriend under fireworks . (4th of July) It was nice.

I've never had sex, so, yep. Pretty short story there.

@ GG - What is slapper status?

@Poet: A slapper is a slut

tree'd

Ooh... I see... is that in Urban Dictionary o.o I couldn't find it...

Slapper should be, it's a pretty common word :)

Slapper is very British. *nods*

Bartuc - :0 14 too? I was 19...late bloomer I guess. Sex in public is just plain awkward...tried a few times.