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Old 09-03-2016, 03:31 PM

My mom just scolded me today about priorities because I forgot my meds this morning... again. Then I didn't vacuum and I didn't do something else I can't remember that she wanted me to do.

I can't read minds and I have a really, really shitty memory!

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Old 09-03-2016, 03:32 PM

Ava - Have you tried writing things down that you're supposed to do? I find that to help at work a lot.

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Old 09-03-2016, 03:34 PM

Lists are my best friend! I have a memory like a sieve! Planners are wonderful too and then lots of notes and reminders everywhere to check the planner!

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Old 09-03-2016, 11:06 PM

They're just being spiteful.

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Old 09-04-2016, 12:37 PM

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My mom just scolded me today about priorities because I forgot my meds this morning... again. Then I didn't vacuum and I didn't do something else I can't remember that she wanted me to do.

I can't read minds and I have a really, really shitty memory!
Tell her you nee a list. I did that at one of my jobs. I opened and would forget one thing and get talked to. I finally told them look I function better with lists. After that there was a list posted for opening and closing duties. Never got anything again. And the thing I forgot was just to put a clean garbage bag in the trash can. So it wasn't like it was anything huge.

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Old 09-04-2016, 07:34 PM

My mom used to post lists around the house of things I needed to do for the day.
I think that's an awesome idea, Kirin. I haven't thought about using a list lately.

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Old 09-05-2016, 01:40 AM

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My mom just scolded me today about priorities because I forgot my meds this morning... again. Then I didn't vacuum and I didn't do something else I can't remember that she wanted me to do.

I can't read minds and I have a really, really shitty memory!
We'll, work on that memory. I actually write myself notes. Hehehe

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Old 09-05-2016, 05:12 AM

I make checklists in my google calendar

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Old 09-05-2016, 05:54 AM

I'm an auntie again!! My niece was born yesterday (but they told me today). She's adorable!

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And there's absolutely nothing wrong with needing lists to help remember. :)

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Old 09-05-2016, 10:50 AM

Lists are important. and congrats Livi

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Old 09-05-2016, 06:29 PM

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I'm an auntie again!! My niece was born yesterday (but they told me today). She's adorable!

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And there's absolutely nothing wrong with needing lists to help remember. :)
Cool, spoil her rotten

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Old 09-05-2016, 08:58 PM

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Cool, spoil her rotten
None of the kids in our family are spoiled rotten. Spoiled children are unwanted and not needed here. Thank you very much....

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Lists are important. and congrats Livi
Thanks! ^_^ I'm super happy for my brother and his wife! ^_^

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Old 09-05-2016, 09:00 PM

How's about spoiled milk?

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Old 09-05-2016, 09:02 PM

I'm tired of your jokes that aren't funny. That sounds absolutely disgusting. And no thanks anyways, because I can't have anything with lactose. And I'm not a fan of milk anyways.

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Old 09-06-2016, 12:22 AM

Sour puss nyaaaaan

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Old 09-06-2016, 05:28 AM

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Ramble away Ling Ling.
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Rambles are good gold. What's it about?
Haha...I had never thought about the extra gold gained from my ramblings.

In terms of what this one will be about? You'll have to just keep reading because at this stage I'm just beginning and there's no point trying to sum it up in a phrase though that will be a fun challenge at the end of this. It's like with writing an essay...you write the body and then the beginning and finish off with the conclusion. Or at least that was what we were taught when I was studying. Not that I ever followed that .

Firstly though, has been the thought that I may never be a mother. As someone who has always liked children even when I was technically a child myself, this is upsetting. Many of my friends are married and have at least one child in their family. And of course I’m happy for them, they deserve it. But even as I type this my eyes are starting to water and this is not the first time this has happened in recent times, and I suspect it won’t be the last either.

The unfortunate thing is, I am not in an ideal situation to try to conceive either. I am still looking for work, after a ridiculous length of time so am not in the best financial situation. Plus I’m not married nor am I in a relationship with a man who I would want have children with.

I have never been in a relationship either. Sometime last year I thought I’d try online dating as a way of meeting new guys. Over a period of about 10 months I had met several guys this way. But most of them were first meetings that never eventuated into a second meeting. It has been an interesting learning experience for me in relation to dating. It also reminded me that guys seem to find me, or at least my photos, attractive for whatever reason. Many of them told me that that was the main if not the only reason they chose to request me. This is both flattering and something I need to be wary of I think. Wary because they may be after a casual or friends with benefits type relationship.
*sigh*

So, in an attempt to sum all the above into a sentence:

TL;DR

Ling is upset by her present life situation.

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Old 09-06-2016, 10:47 AM

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None of the kids in our family are spoiled rotten. Spoiled children are unwanted and not needed here. Thank you very much....

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Thanks! ^_^ I'm super happy for my brother and his wife! ^_^
I bet.

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Old 09-06-2016, 04:49 PM

Ling - I see. That can be rough. Though, you could always consider the option of adoption. There are many children in the world who have no mother. As for dating, it's a very difficult road. Sometimes it will take years of searching. Best advice would be to try and find a hobby that resembles a person you would want to date. Like an active adventurous person might go hiking. I have heard about "single meet ups" like that where the goal is to go out and do things, not to date. Maybe your area has some of those?

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Old 09-06-2016, 06:07 PM

Did u know that curds and way are spoiled milk.
Having curds and way to eat and a tupit to sit on Made little miss Muppet a spoiled kid, and she's famous.

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Old 09-07-2016, 03:35 AM

Wait seriously? So what's the difference between them that makes one food and the other trash? It is spoiled a special way or something?

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Old 09-07-2016, 07:32 AM

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Ling - I see. That can be rough. Though, you could always consider the option of adoption. There are many children in the world who have no mother. As for dating, it's a very difficult road. Sometimes it will take years of searching. Best advice would be to try and find a hobby that resembles a person you would want to date. Like an active adventurous person might go hiking. I have heard about "single meet ups" like that where the goal is to go out and do things, not to date. Maybe your area has some of those?
Been to meet up groups...they're good but I don't even think any of the other attendees would be the type I'd date. And I don't know what type of interests of activites my ideal partner would have. I had thought of the adoption and it may be the only possibility. But I'd need to get the rest of my life sorted before they would let me adopt a child, I suspect.

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Did u know that curds and way are spoiled milk.
Having curds and way to eat and a tupit to sit on Made little miss Muppet a spoiled kid, and she's famous.
hehe...well then. I suppose she was the original famous spoiled brat....maybe.

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Old 09-07-2016, 10:42 AM

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Wait seriously? So what's the difference between them that makes one food and the other trash? It is spoiled a special way or something?
When natural milk gets to warm or old it curdles. The curds r solids, which I believe make cottage cheese ABC and the liquid is called way. Now, of course I find advise consuming the spoiled milk in your fridge. That's a whole different ball of phew

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Old 09-07-2016, 10:55 AM

*wanders in with a yawn* Morning all.

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Old 09-07-2016, 04:47 PM

Ling - Well, your ideal partner would in theory have the same interests as you in some regard.

Cheshire - Ah, so certainly there is differences. But yeah that stuff smells awful.
I wonder if that's why I never liked cottage cheese. It being from old milk.

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Old 09-07-2016, 05:00 PM

I love it.

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Hey, wheres sour puss? Oo

 


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