Hey Mene, long time no talk, this is pretty awkward for me to be posting but sadly at 18 I don't know much about this topic. I'm just gonna dive right in..So I had sex for the first time a few hours ago, and I didn't bleed and it was relatively fine, except when he went deep. Now my lower stomach area is achey (?) or uhm has a slight uncomfortable pain.. I guess would be the only way to describe it, and I'm wondering if that is normal? And I'm wondering what else to expect, other than of course being a bit tender down there for a short while. Any advice, or I guess comfort because I'm a big chicken and I'm a slight bit worried?

Was he hitting your cervix at all? I know that a lot of girls find that uncomfortable and they can feel a little sick after. In all honesty though I don't think it's anything to worry about. As long as you were safe and enjoyed it that's the main thing :) If you want you could always treat it the same way you would period cramps and either put something warm on your belly to help sooth it or take a pain killer :)

exactly what Vinyl said.

Also don't worry about not bleeding. There are plenty of things that can break your hymen before the thought of intercourse comes to mind.

So long as you were protected and enjoyed it, fear nothing.

Just reiterating what was already said; not bleeding is fine, it can be different for all women, I don't believe I did either.

As for the pain, that's normal as well; between possibly hitting your cervix and it being your first time, your body may not be used to the depth. If you end up being fairly active, your body will get over it, though for now, (as Codette said) pain meds work wonders.

I had the same thing at the start, so don't worry :3 Your body will get used to it.