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Old 11-01-2013, 05:29 AM

well, it is still very early and we have our first date on sunday. She asked me, beat me to the punch (forwardness is good quality number one). She is an aquarium/fish nerd like me, extremely sweet but not sugary or phony kind of sweet, just a warm hearted down to earth person. She is in great shape and very physically attractive, intelligent, direct, open minded, oh and also a total nerd in a good way. She has an amazing play ethic, like actually likes to play and be physical and learn new things just like me. For instance she is excited to learn how to fence from me, just as I'm excited to go on mud runs with her. SHe dives, and if everything works out we are going to be dive buddies. On top of all of that she is a total bad ass... like, trained mother fucking polar bears before, is not afraid to be sweaty and covered in mud, is gonna dive right in if something looks fun and needs doing even if it might make a mess, but at the same time is a thoughtful and careful planner. Honestly, I want to get to know her better, but I'm already pretty damn impressed.

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Old 11-01-2013, 05:53 AM

Ooh... sounds like you scored. Just be sure to reel her in :D

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Old 11-01-2013, 07:15 AM

Well... I guess I don't feel like women are fish. I will just be myself, and if she chooses me then I will be happy. All of that stuff is great, but the most important thing you need to love someone is for them to love you, you know?

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Old 11-01-2013, 07:19 AM

Yup... there's a lot of fish in the sea... but that doesn't help much when trying to find a human.

Mutual love is always very important ^^

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#5005
Old 11-01-2013, 04:18 PM

Omg, I think Feral is talking about me.
Just kidding!
I don't know who you are.

My halloween was ruined. It was awful.

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#5006
Old 11-01-2013, 08:35 PM

Pistachio: How was your Halloween ruined? T_T That's awful! :( I'm sorry!

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Old 11-01-2013, 08:51 PM

Well, I had plans to take my cousin out trick or treating. Her mom flipped out and decided she wasn't going to go with us. So my cousin got upset and decided she didn't want to go anymore. I had invited them [my cousin and her friend] to my house, which is literally down the road, so I could do their makeup. I missed my aunt's phone call. I took them back home, and that is when she just flipped. She wasn't even home yet. We got back before seven. Mind this, that I'm twenty six, and I have my own son. She must forget that I'm an adult. Everybody in my family acts like I am twelve, and can't handle myself.

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#5008
Old 11-01-2013, 09:05 PM

Oh, wow! That is just insane! I'm sorry that things just fell apart on you like that! I know that some of my family members see me the same way - It pisses me off. So I can totally relate!

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Old 11-01-2013, 09:50 PM

One thing that I think triggered it was that my cousin's friend [that my aunt dislikes, no clue why] was with her.

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Old 11-01-2013, 09:51 PM

Could have been but still... D: Still not cool at all!

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#5011
Old 11-01-2013, 10:54 PM

No, not really.

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#5012
Old 11-01-2013, 11:41 PM

But people will act that way, whether we like or not. Gotta love annoying people. xD

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#5013
Old 11-02-2013, 12:51 AM

Ahh I love being an adult sometimes >.>

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Old 11-02-2013, 01:09 AM

Totally agree there! >.<

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#5015
Old 11-02-2013, 01:26 AM

yeah. I think it just gets better. my childhood was pretty terrible but Im pretty happy now.

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#5016
Old 11-02-2013, 01:31 AM

Oh, I just mean, sometimes doing things children can't. Like sex. Or, smoking.

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Old 11-02-2013, 02:07 AM

I just hate it when people judge me for being a single mother. *sighs* They don't know my story, and we're better off without that man. But it's great now, and it makes me smile, the few times that Norah and I have gone out with my boyfriend, they think he's her father, and I don't bother to correct them. He's a better man that that guy anyways, he deserves to be her father.

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#5018
Old 11-02-2013, 02:39 AM

Screw being an adult... kids these days are more mature than their parents =.=
Thank goodness there are exceptions though... some parents are mature enough to be called adults...

I'll just be a kid raising a kid :D (Once I get one)

When the guy you're dating is getting called daddy, you know they approve :)

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#5019
Old 11-02-2013, 02:56 AM

I do try to be mature, as mature as I can be though.

Yeah, does it count if my 10 month old will crawl up to him and just hold her arms up for him to pick her up, without anyone prompting her?

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#5020
Old 11-02-2013, 04:30 AM

Yeah that would probably count. She likes him for sure at least.

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Old 11-02-2013, 04:31 AM

Yeah, I am thankful that she does like him. It's a plus.

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Old 11-02-2013, 04:40 AM

It's always good that the kids approve.
I know a lot of parents say the kid's opinion doesn't matter, but they notice many things a lovestruck person wouldn't. :)

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Old 11-02-2013, 04:42 AM

It really does matter, their opinion, to me at least. Especially if the person is going to be around them a lot. Ya know?

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Old 11-02-2013, 05:00 AM

yeah. impress the kids and by then you will have impressed the mother right?

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Old 11-02-2013, 01:02 PM

I think we look at maturity entirely the wrong way. I don't think maturity really is about disciplining yourself into behaving correctly. Really it should be about the continued accumulation of experience to direct your already correct self/mind/heart/spirit, depending on how you want to think about it. In otherwords, with an open mind there isn't really much difference between a child and an adult other than time, and with a loving relationship that relationship can be so amazingly rewarding for the child, like a great well of memories and experience to tap into and have vicariously. In order for that to happen though, the parent cant try to force control on their child, but has to parent from a perspective of offering love and guidance openly. That's a mature parent I think, and I agree with poet that they seem sadly rare.

 


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