That is nice to hear

Man, I am so tired though. I'm ready for my work shift to be over.

I hope you ca get some rest when you get home. I went out shopping for my house today,besides getting a few things for my dog.

I slept soooo much.

How are you today?

I am doing well got out of the house today. got to visit my Sister,Brother in law,Nephew and Neice. today is my niece's birthday so I got her a doctor barbie doll. she was happy with it and my mom. got her a trampoline she is into dance plus gymnastics.

nice. How old did she turn?

Five years old got to watch her do gymnastics tonight. She was being a little show off for us. lols

aw yeah, at that age, they love to be show offs. My cousin's kids are like that too.

My nephew gave his sister his old tv. but we have a feeling he wants a new tv. but he will be nine this year once he has his birthday. he is going to take guitar lesson's this year I hope he will do well in it.

aw. Little kids are so interesting. I don't want any of my own, but I like hearing stories about kids.

I am not sure if I could handle the pain. so I there just raise a bunch of dogs be a crazy dog lady. heck dogs are cheaper to raise than kids now a days.

*gatecrashes*
I'm never having kids. They're ok only from a distance :P I don't think I'll get lonely cuz there's always the internet.

Pets are cheaper! XD

That's true, PC. Though I dunno that kids are really meant to keep you from getting lonely.

I guess not, kids are meant to take care of you when you're older Selfish to have kids for selfish reasons though. You have to practically dedicate your life to them so better not do it unless you really want them for them is what I think. Plus they're not only economically but ecologically an issue too. I think people who do all that IVF, donor, surrogacy shit are crazy. If one has to have kids isn't adoption ideal?

Your right PC adoption is a good way to help. out people that can't take care of their own kids. are even help save a child from a other country. by the way Kat how has your day bee?

If you don't want to be lonely, its better to have a lover or friends isn't it? Yes you have to devote your life to kids, but most people like the idea of raising children.

Those are just other options? Adoption is expensive and no cake walk to go through with. I doubt any of those are. Woman who can't have kids should have the right to do something like IVF. People want to experience giving birth or watching a child grow because it's very special.
Sure kids should be adopted but that's not what everyone who wants a kid wants.

So true Kat and I for one am weakling to pain. Heck I can't stand getting a shot.

Kat: I guess you're right. I'll live and let live lol
I never want to give birth cuz it looks like one of the most painful things in the world to go through .-.

It looks unpleasant as hell but usually gets better the more kids you have.

Yeah... though there's the odd case of a mother who doesn't get cramps at all. Like my aunt wasn't getting cramps but they were keeping her awake bc the baby was on its way. But she kept falling asleep, lol. So they put the end of her braid in her mouth so she'd gag and hopefully those contractions would help the baby to get pushed out 0_0

That's so weird... o.o

Never heard of something like that before. But heck that must have been scary I would guess.

My mother's first birth was long and painful, but her third lasted only for a couple of hours, which is why my baby brother was born in our bathroom! I personally wish to never give birth.

Ah, I have heard stories like that. The body just deal with pregnancy better a couple babies down the line.

My mom had four kids, including myself, and she says that when she had her first kid, she was like 'NO MORE' But she and dad love kids and were like, let's have another and when she was having me she was like 'WHAT WAS I THINKING??I FORGOT HOW MUCH IT HURTS. NO MORE" and then she did this again two more times XD.
She says it gets a little easier every time, I would imagine so. But all women are different and some may have a third pregnancy more painful than their first.