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Old 05-09-2014, 04:09 AM

The whole point of all that was that I didn't MEAN to offend anybody. From all the things she said to me after she said I made her feel bad, she understood it all wrong. Jealousy? Insult? Not at all what I was going for. I don't just turn against a friend like that.

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Old 05-09-2014, 04:43 AM

Just because you didn't MEAN to offend anybody doesn't mean people don't get offended.
"No offense but..." Won't stop someone from getting offended.

And ending your half-assed wannabe apology post with "No point in making this post. Nevermind." is adding to the insult and basically adding to the "I don't care that you're offended" thing because that last line says exactly that.
And "she understood it wrong" isn't her fault. Especially online when clarity is not easily achieved. YOU could have fixed it my ACTUALLY apologizing and BETTER explaining yourself. Instead Ana and I have busted our butts trying to defend Keno and you don't seem to be comprehending any of it.

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Old 05-09-2014, 04:45 AM

WHY CAN'T WE BE FRIENDDSSS, WHY CAN'T WE BE FRIENDS?!

okay, gais, I know what amane said seemed mean but she already stated that she didn't mean that way. While she didn't apologize, which would be ideal for her to do and i believe she should apologize, she has been trying to say she hasn't meant it in a mean way. Her defending herself and explaining and then not apologizing is a bad move on her part, imho. However, we shouldn't all just jump at her. Two wrongs don't make a right, no? Everyone has their own perception of beauty, while some may seem bogus in other's opinions, it is a "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" type thing. Though, people should try to feel more confident and acknowledge not just the beauty in their physical traits, but the beauty in their personality. You may not agree with her perception of beauty, but she does. She's stated she never meant it to be that way, but it is. It might be ridiculous or strange to you, but it's OK to her. I've talked to amane long enough to know that she sometimes words things strangely (I'm an offender of this crime as well), and I had a feeling from the beginning she never meant it the way it was taken. I understand the hurt feelings from it, hell I'd probably feel the same way on some levels, but can't we make up? Opinions are like assholes, everyone has them.

With her "throw out my opinion" thing, I think that might of been a way for her to say "Don't take it seriously, it was never meant to be offensive, just ignore it if you don't like it" type of thing.

I'm hopefully not sounding like a total ass. I'm trying to be nice and be on everyone's side here. I just want everyone to get along, ya know?

LETS ALL HAVE A GROUP HUG OF PEACE AND FRIENDSHIP

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Old 05-09-2014, 04:53 AM

All I have to say is re-read my last post. Two, three times if you must.

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Old 05-09-2014, 04:55 AM

Live update didn't happen until after I posted
So I couldn't add onto what you said, nor could I read back and validate it to fully get your point before I posted

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Old 05-09-2014, 05:02 AM

Now the opportunity has come to do so.

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Old 05-09-2014, 05:16 AM

All right, I can't come up with a big post, but I'm going to sum up what i think on this because I can't come up with much to say, and I apologize for that.

What amane said was mean and she needs to apologize, HOWEVER this situation might not have been handled well on everyone's part. Jumping on amane is the wrong approach I feel, defending her is fine and dandy but we shouldn't jump on her. Better to handle this calm and nicely since amane isn't being hostile. I that amane approached this wrong as well. From the beginning she should have apologized, rather than explain and not apologize at all. Even if she meant to in a direct way, or not, she should say it directly and learn from this mistake.

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Old 05-09-2014, 05:25 AM

I think that's the base issue here. Amane was rude and needs to account for her actions.
I don't give a single fuck if she meant it or not, offense happened and that needs to be taken care of.
You can't go about life with the attitude of "Oh, I didn't mean it so I don't have to apologize for offending people".

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Old 05-09-2014, 05:31 AM

I don't think she meant to to have that attitude, however I could see why it came across as that.
It really just comes down to Amane needing to apologize and take responsibility for what happened.

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Old 05-09-2014, 05:36 AM

THANK YOU, MOMO. Joke gone wrong, people. I really thought that line would be taken as NEUTRAL.

"Okay. Bye~" is my natural response when people say stuff like that to me and then leave. I was also thinking, "Jealous? Where did THAT come from? Alright, then." Which is why typing a simple "sorry" never came to mind.

Kenome-Chan: I am sorry to have hurt your feelings. My post was not meant to be a direct criticism of you, or even a criticism at all. Merely me making a neutral comment about how my standards have become ridiculous, and it snows on the Equator every time someone who's not doing everything there is to look like a doll come to life stands out to me. I was going for laughs or shock at how ruined I have become. If I had known my post would've upset you so, I wouldn't have made it. You should know by now I'd never do that to you out of nowhere. If I were jealous, I'd say it, not try to tear you down.
If you don't plan to read back, ↑ pretty much sums things up.
If anyone ever tries to tell you you're ugly or even remotely a sore sight, they're WRONG. You don't look bad in the least.

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Old 05-09-2014, 05:37 AM

Holy snap.
So much has happened since earlier.
So much has happened that I really don't know what to say.
I didn't mean for it to escalate.
I was just feeling defeated.
I know Amane but I don't know everything about her.
And I just felt like I was supposed to know everything right away.
And when she said she was unimpressed with they way real normal people look I just felt like..
Like I was nothing or meant nothing.
Someone had said most times people put their friends' opinions before others and that is certainly true for me.

BUT
I also understand why she defended herself.
I mean I would have done the same thing.

And thank you Ana, Kyl and MoMo for keeping peace here.
I just have to say that I'm very sorry that I made something like this happen.

I hope that we can put it all in the past and be friends again.
And I now know not to ask Amane for opinions of the appearance sort.
I'll be sure to keep my head open to remembering that.
(I assure you it won't happen again for I have a better time remembering things about friends than I do remember what most of my chemistry was about.)

So even though people might not think it's my fault at all I'm still going to say sorry,
Because in all my years I've learned that even if it isn't your fault you should say sorry.
It helps make things better faster:

IM SORRY AMANE THAT I TOOK WHAT YOU SAID THE WRONG WAY AND STARTED ALL THIS.

IM SORRY KYL THAT THIS HAPPENED IN YOUR THREAD,
I SHOULD OF DISCUSSED IT WITH HER THROUGH PM'S.

IM SORRY ANA AND MOMO THAT YOU BOTH GOT INVOLVED.

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THANK YOU, MOMO. Joke gone wrong, people. I really thought that line would be taken as NEUTRAL.

"Okay. Bye~" is my natural response when people say stuff like that to me and then leave. I was also thinking, "Jealous? Where did THAT come from? Alright, then." Which is why typing a simple "sorry" never came to mind.

Kenome-Chan: I am sorry to have hurt your feelings. My post was not meant to be a direct criticism of you, or even a criticism at all. Merely me making a neutral comment about how my standards have become ridiculous, and it snows on the Equator every time someone who's not doing everything there is to look like a doll come to life stands out to me. I was going for laughs or shock at how ruined I have become. If I had known my post would've upset you so, I wouldn't have made it. You should know by now I'd never do that to you out of nowhere. If I were jealous, I'd say it, not try to tear you down.
If you don't plan to read back, ↑ pretty much sums things up.
If anyone ever tries to tell you you're ugly or even remotely a sore sight, they're WRONG. You don't look bad in the least.
AROGHJSNNK I POSTED AND THEN MY PAGE UPDATED.

It's okay now Amane.
I just think you could of been a little more clear on your response.
But again I'm not trying to be mean.
I know now that your standards are high and that you're ruined so I'll be sure to remember that so this doesn't happen again.

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Old 05-09-2014, 05:47 AM

I'M ALL FOR TREATING THIS LIKE A COLLECTIVE HALLUCINATION AND MOVING ON AND BEING FRIENDS.

LET IT BE KNOWN THAT I WAS RUINED AGAINST MY WILL.
/oh, and if anyone's thinking it…
/IT'S NOT JUST K-POP IDOLS OR ASIANS AT ALL
/THERE ARE SOME STUNNING PEOPLE OUT THERE

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Old 05-09-2014, 05:53 AM

OKAY LET'S TREAT IT AS SUCH.

/I still feel really bad though for making this happen in the first place

I have a thing for emo guys and anime guys.
/and Jack and Alex from All Time Low

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Old 05-09-2014, 05:55 AM

I HAVE THINGS FOR ANIME GUYS
AND I'M DAMN PROUD OF IT

---------- Post added 05-09-2014 at 01:55 AM ----------

LETS ALL HUG AND BE MERRY, KAY?! MKAY
~PULLS ERRYONE INTO A BIG HUG~

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Old 05-09-2014, 05:58 AM

MOMO Y U NO POST IN CLOSET?!

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Old 05-09-2014, 05:58 AM

/HUGS WITH MOMO AND AMANE AND ANA AND KYL
I LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH
YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW
I TALK TO MOMO LIKE ALL THE TIME
I JUST GOT ANA'S NUMBER SO IVE BEEN TEXTING HER
AND I ONLY COME ON MENE TO TALK TO AMANE AND KYL

---------- Post added 05-09-2014 at 12:59 AM ----------

SHIT MAN RUU IS HERE
I LOVE YOU TOO RUU!

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Old 05-09-2014, 06:00 AM

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/HUGS WITH MOMO AND AMANE AND ANA AND KYL
I LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH
YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW
I TALK TO MOMO LIKE ALL THE TIME
I JUST GOT ANA'S NUMBER SO IVE BEEN TEXTING HER
AND I ONLY COME ON MENE TO TALK TO AMANE AND KYL

---------- Post added 05-09-2014 at 12:59 AM ----------

SHIT MAN RUU IS HERE
I LOVE YOU TOO RUU!
WHOO! RUU GETS LOVES TOO! <3

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Old 05-09-2014, 06:01 AM

I SORRY RURUUUUUU
I FORGETS TO GET IN THERE
ILUVEYOUBBY

KENO: I LOVE YOU SO MUUUCCHH TOOOO
//luffles UPON

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Old 05-09-2014, 06:02 AM

MO: YOU JUST DON'T LOVE ME LIKE YOU LOVE THEM!

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Old 05-09-2014, 06:04 AM

THAT'S NOT TRUUUEEEE
I LOVE YOU LONG TIEM BBY
PLUSIWASTAKINGCAREOBUSSINESS
BUT I LOVES YOU LIKE A LOVE SONG BBY

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Old 05-09-2014, 06:06 AM

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I KNEW IT!

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Old 05-09-2014, 06:07 AM

I WILL SIT ON YOUUUUUUUUUUUU
AND MAKE YOU LOVE MEEEEE
AND ACCEPT MY LOOVVVEEEEEE

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Old 05-09-2014, 06:07 AM

GET YOUR BUTT AWAY FROM ME WOMAN!

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Old 05-09-2014, 06:08 AM

Ruu that's the best post in da world.

Amane:
I know what Riku's hair style will look like next.
Wanna see?
It made MoMo melt into a puddle of puddlyness.

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Old 05-09-2014, 06:09 AM

//SITS ON RU
YOU HAVE BEEN SAT UPON
IT IS MY LOVE SIT
I LOVE SIT ON YOU
DO YOU SEE MY LOVE?!
MY SQUISHAFYING LOVE?!

 


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