Yeah me too.

I would love butterfly wings.

If you ever want to borrow mine and equip them then send it back you may.

Lending tree groweth

indeed indeed

I so love that about this site. I don't think I've ever been afraid someone wouldn't give me something back. Not that it hasn't happened, but I think it was an error on their part and then they kind of haven't come back. That's what prompted me to make the Lending Tree thread. It's easy to have everybody in one place post what they need post what they lent and then post when they returned it.

Originally Posted by Kirin Rosenbaum

If you ever want to borrow mine and equip them then send it back you may.

I might just do that, Kiri. Thank you for the offer.

I do love that about this site. People genuinely seem to care and are good to each other.

It is so much better than drama and hatred

Yes it is. And sadly that seems a lot harder to find in this world. There is so much drama and hatred and what not going around in the world.

But now, even with the fix, the inventory isn't working. *pouts*

I really enjoy Mene because of the people.
Everyone is so kind and we all just live and let live. :)

I've had a couple of weird/bad experiences here, but they were so brief that it didn't taint my view of Menewsha. :D

I've only had one and that person got blocked XP. Haven't seen any sign of them in years either...must've done something stupid to get themselves banned.

*hugs the thread*

*squishes Kirin!*

I'm pretty sure there's one person who blocked me.
If it were like, five years ago, I would have flipped out and started crying on the kitchen floor like goddamn Trisha Paytas or something,
But now I'm just like, "Eh, whatever". If someone doesn't like me for whatever reason, they can totally feel free to block me.

In fact, I would HOPE that they block me, instead of trying to pester me or make me upset. It's better for all involved that if I ever make someone that mad that they want to block me, that they just go ahead and block me.

I love the Live and Let Live mentality

It's one that I stand by! :D

I enjoy Mene's Live and Let Live mentality. I had one person that didn't cause drama with me but always seemed to be the center of drama and try to pull me into it. I finally had to cut her out of my life.

I had someone like that too...
I felt awful for cutting them out of my life, but they were causing too much drama.

I met her here and she was nice at first, but again, was causing drama here. Then I kept in contact with her after she left Mene and invited her to a Skype group chat to meet my other friends and she literally started drama with them. It made me look bad and made me feel bad that she treated my friends like shit for such stupid reasons that I had no choice but to cut her out. I can't live with constant drama.

Sounds a lot like me and this girl. I stayed in contact with her when she left Mene. But the last straw for me was when she chose to whine to me about always being single mere weeks after my husband passed away. Maybe that makes me shallow but I just couldn't do it.

I don't think that makes you shallow at all!
It actually says more about her that she'd choose to complain about being single when your husband died and she knew you were struggling. I understand being open and honest with people, but there is something called tact and there's a time for everything. A time to complain, a time to refrain from complaining... A time to support, and a time to be brutally honest.

I guess some people are tacky and don't have the common sense to know when these times are.

I was really, really upset that this girl thought it was okay to start drama with my friends. Especially after she complained about being lonely always, so I thought I was helping her out by introducing her to my friends, but all that did was start more drama. It spoke more about her than it did my friends... I know my friends are not "perfect" but c'mon! No one is!

And what really, REALLY sucked was that my friend who started the Skype group chat was doing it for those of us who belonged to a mental health forum, but left (due to the site's poor management) and we were being friendly and thinking that she was "one of us" (meaning she had a mental disorder) and she flipped a shit and started calling us "crazy" and saying that there wasn't anything wrong with her as if we were the ones who were wrong for assuming she had a mental disorder, when really, WE ALL have mental disorders in the group and I TOLD her ahead of time that the group was for those with mental disorders.

It left a bad taste in my mouth, and that was the last straw for me...

Yeah some people have no tact and must always be a victim and sadly those people pray on us empathetic ones.

There is nothing wrong with cutting toxic people out of your life.

Nope. I have one that I haven't fully cut out but I only let her near when I want and honestly I will never let her as close as she once was. She burned me bad, virtually left me homeless, and I can never trust her the same or let her that close again. It is self preservation. I am learning that I can't help and save everybody and that MY health and well being must ALWAYS come first.

I wish you lived near me.

Hey I am good now. It was just sketchy for a bit. I was crashing in my boyfriend's place but if his landlord had found out we would have been in a world of hurt. He wasn't supposed to have anyone staying there for more than a couple of days and I was there for months until I could find a job and a place of my own. She kicked me out because I stopped using MY money to bail her out of her irresponsible decisions. Forgetting all of the others times that I helped her out and throwing them away because of the one time I said I could do it anymore. That was when I came to the sad realization that after 3 decent years of friendship I was not excluded from her user tendencies. She uses people until they put their foot down and then she twists the story to paint her as the victim.

That was the final straw that made me start putting up walls around my empathetic heart. Being a kind hearted, caring person sadly leads you to be preyed on and hurt in this world. I hate that I have had to put up walls and become cautious of those traits in me for my own survival.