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Old 09-02-2013, 05:38 AM

Yes... 12 hours... just goes to prove that people really do overlook me on Mene, most people do... Hardly anyone responds to me on here anymore, really doesn't make me feel welcome.

Look up, my post is on this this page, people posted since I posted, but NO ONE even seemed to notice me... -.- This is the 11th post since my post, and no one even bothered to even say hi, or how are you....? UGH! D: *sighs and hides in a corner* I Do not get what people's problem with me is... or why this even started.... This started and that made me feel not welcomed on here, and then people started calling me out on my mood, but it's been almost a year since this all started and I DO NOT know what happened to cause it all to happen. I am just tired of feeling like I'm always an outcast no matter what, and nothing I do will ever change it... I try to talk to people, but people hardly ever notice I'm around.

And I don't know why I keep coming back, it just makes me want to cry. This is the story of my life, I'm always an outsider, no matter how hard I try... why do I keep trying?! :( It just ends up with me feeling even worse because apparently most people don't even like me, or so that's what I get from people always overlooking me, never even saying hi, but saying hi to everyone else, and then being told time and time again, that that is what happens... that it happens sometimes, but the fact that I notice that everyone else gets noticed... yet my posts don't get noticed... and I never get people responding to them, no matter what.

This just makes me feel like crying... I'm tired of it... why do I keep coming back...?? Same thing time and time again. T_T

I know people apparently just want me to shut up, or at least that's what I get, but I am tired of people acting like it is ok to treat people like this, talk to the people you want to and ignore everyone else... Because it isn't right. T_T

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Old 09-02-2013, 05:45 AM

Cuz if you don't come back I can't give you snuggles and you can't give me new suggestions on what to watch. *pout face*
Okay so that last reason is pretty selfish from me...but I'm like that and can admit it. XD

On a random note WTF Skype! Why do these boys always try and show me their junk T.T Every day I'm deleting a new bunch of dick pics. A lot of them don't even speck english. HOW DO THEY FIND ME! /paranoid.

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Old 09-02-2013, 05:46 AM

It seems to be a loooong time since I last saw you post.
Hi there Nemomo.

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Old 09-02-2013, 05:47 AM

Neph: But I'm just so tired of being overlooked, time and time again, like I'm no one, and someone that doesn't have feelings and it's ok to treat me this way... I am just sick of people saying "It happens, it's life... get over it." Really now. Then why does everyone else get replied to but me most of the time?? Really?? T_T UGH! D:

That's why I don't add people I don't know to Skype.

Xuv: It's because lately people rarely notice if I'm on or not.. I've been around, people just don't seem to care if I post or not...

Like today, it took 12 hours for someone to even notice me... and others got noticed long before I did.

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Old 09-02-2013, 05:54 AM

I can understand. It takes some time but I used to be like that as well. I guess I just became jaded and don't care anymore or I say really stupid shit just to get noticed. During events I'll find my self often saying things that are just reflective of what others are saying to feel like I'm a part of it. Your right though outside of events their isn't any real reason for it. Unless when they were posting they saw your online button was off so they didn't try talking to you because of that.

The strange thing is I don't add them. It's like one of those invite things and their profile pic has that. With a message in some random language that is loosely "hey girl add me and let's mess around" It's like someone put my e-mail into some strange mailing list.

Hey rete. *smoochie face*

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Old 09-02-2013, 05:57 AM

It's not just during events... it's all the bloody time.... I don't feel it's right to do stupid things to get noticed, I don't want become known as the attention whore. Because that is NOT who I am... But this is happening all the time... for like a year and getting worse as the year has gone on. I am just SICK of it! If I posted, no reason to not post back. I will respond if I am online... -.- UGH! JUST SO FREAKING sick of it, it was happening even before all of that - me and my invisible status. I'm just not sure why this all started or what in the world I did to make them think it's ok to treat me like this. T_T I don't get it I really don't. And I am just SO SO SO sick of this.

I can almost guarantee that if I made it show that I was online, I would still get ignored and overlooked... just as much as I already am. That online status (or lack of one) doesn't seem to matter to people these days, and I just don't get it! D: I no longer see the happy all inclusive community that mene boasts to have... If it's all inclusive, then why do I constantly get overlooked??

Oh, weird. D: That's strange.

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Old 09-02-2013, 06:01 AM

Hello nemo, I'm sorry to hear that, it must be frustrating to feel like you're being ignored...I probably haven't seen you posting lately or we usually visit different threads...and I hardly ever check the who's online list on the main forum page...

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Old 09-02-2013, 06:03 AM

Ling: It's not that I feel that I am being ignored, I know I am being ignored... it's WAY past the feeling stage, and I do not know what I have done to deserve any of this... I posted in here, and people took 12 hours ( ) to respond to me... I am sick of it utterly and overly sick of it... this has been happening way too often too, to make it be "oh, it just happens" type of thing. How do people expect me to feel when I post and then 12 hours goes by and yet other people are getting replies to other posts that they have posted yet I haven't.... I am not even sure why I don't even try anymore. And people wonder why I'm jaded.

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Old 09-02-2013, 06:03 AM

Hi Ling. :)

Their are more ways of being an attention whore than just acting like a nutter. It just happens to be the more fun one. Some people consider long pity posts in the same light as three line bat shit crazy posts about being an alien. XD

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Old 09-02-2013, 06:10 AM

I try to avoid typing long posts where possible, because I'm the type of person who would often only skim through walls of texts that others post...sometimes it's not easy when I have things to say though.

nemo, I actually recall seeing you post about the same problem of being ignored a while back elsewhere...I was more of a lurker back then, but to see that it's still ongoing does seem concerning.

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Old 09-02-2013, 06:17 AM

I go both ways with posting. It depends on the topic and my mood. :) If I'm more relaxed I'm more open with people and tend to have longer posts. If I'm hyper or multi tasking often I won't do more than a few sentences. Which I know annoys people with lovely long posts but I can only do what I can. >.< Some times I feel like I'm not good enough. We all do.

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Old 09-02-2013, 06:22 AM

Neph: well how do you expect me to feel...? -.-

Ling: Yes, it has been going on for over a year now and I am honestly ready to leave Mene all together and not come back because what I'm getting from it is that I am not really sure what else I can do. I just don't get it and honestly, I don't know what to do.... I feel like an outsider enough in real life but now online as well?

Neph (again): I can get that, I know that I am the same way. But the fact that people get replied to...? But not me. But I do totally understand not having the mood to post all the time.

But because of how this is all going on for so long, it makes me not feel like I'm good enough and I'm not wanted.

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Old 09-02-2013, 06:44 AM

I don't expect anything. Just for you to be you. Everyone feels how they feel and all we can do is try and be there when they need a chat. :) I try and support everyone I can. It stresses me out more than it should when two people I like fight or someone feels ignored.

Your a fun and talented girl. And I enjoy our chats. Plus your strong enough to voice your feelings on a public forum. So I respect that. This is just my personal selfishness coming threw but I feel a bit like when you say people aren't talking to you your ignoring that I am. So instead of us having a chat about something exciting coming up in your/my life your lingering on others you can't control.

If people can't look beyond your long posts to see you or take time to respond and say hi then they probably aren't worth bothering about anyway. :) *hugs*

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Old 09-02-2013, 06:48 AM

I try to be me and the only reason I voice how I feel is because I'm sick of being the one that people think that it's ok to walk all over me.. because I am so sick of people that. No, no. I mean most people, I just am tired and don't fully overlook scanning before I hit post. It's been a CRAZY week. And I know I can't control it yet it just makes me feel like crying and I keep having to ask "WHY in the world would I keep subjecting myself to all of this?" I'm actually slowly getting ready to leave fully - giving people contact info to keep in contact with me, people who I do want to keep in contact with - not everyone has it yet, but I'm getting close.

And I know that much, but at the same time, it still hurts me deeply. I've always been super sensitive, and in a way, I feel like I act like myself and some people just seem to hate me, for no reason. I get ignored enough in person, I've actually gone to the extreme of learning another language and finding a culture that I don't even have to talk in - like verbally talking. The Deaf community accepts me so much more than the hearing culture I was born into and that makes me sad. My roommate who I've known for a week - in person - 5 months texting before we actually met - gets me better than some of my friends back home do.

Blah, doesn't help that I'm super homesick right now either, I just feel like sobbing.

I just wish I knew why people started ignoring me in the first place, I don't get it. I wish that people could just talk to me if they had a problem with me instead of ignoring me, if that makes sense. Communication is key, FOR SURE!

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Old 09-02-2013, 07:00 AM

I don't know nemo well, but from our few interactions, in the NaNoWriMo threads that have popped up in the past and elsewhere, I have a good impression of you. I wouldn't intentionally ignore you, if I have not responded to a post, it's because I either don't know what to say or I honestly didn't see your post.

I must admit, this particular thread because it's so active that I probably do often miss peoples' posts...

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Old 09-02-2013, 07:01 AM

Ling: I can get that, I get that people do overlook posts.

And I can totally understand that too - I do get overlooked at times in WAY slower threads than this one, not everyone does, but it seems to be the majority of people seem to overlook me.

But like today, I post, other people get replied to, and then it takes 12 hours for people to see a post that's on the same page as the one that they were posting on? It wasn't fast in here today??

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Old 09-02-2013, 07:43 AM

I saw it... but I didn't end up responding to any of them after a while...
hard to feel social in this thread...

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Old 09-02-2013, 07:48 AM

Well, how do you think that makes me feel...?

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Old 09-02-2013, 07:57 AM

Well you posted after I stopped replying to people. o.o
Didn't even reply to the person who spoke of me directly.

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Old 09-02-2013, 08:24 AM

Successful shopping trip was succcessful.

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Old 09-02-2013, 02:20 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by Vinyl View Post
I can sense Nalin getting into a horrible lion related accident in a minute ha.

@Citrus: What item is the mane/tail from?
<_< I missed this post entirely.

It's from a past CI (I think either June or July) called I am Leon, hear me RAWR.

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Old 09-02-2013, 02:40 PM

Huh. Here I was, thinking i'd lost my ability to rant. Turns out I haven't. And I remember exactly why I did it so much.

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Old 09-02-2013, 02:48 PM

I went shopping with my aunt~ checking prices here and there.

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Old 09-02-2013, 02:49 PM

Neat. What were you looking at?

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Old 09-02-2013, 02:58 PM

Aunt looking for gown for a wedding dinner.
I am looking for craft supplies. Just can't find that particular colour of polymer clay and other craft things.

 


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