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Old 08-30-2013, 04:20 PM

I want a nap too *falls asleep in the corner*

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Old 08-30-2013, 04:23 PM

-prods Woodie with a germy stick-

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Old 08-30-2013, 04:32 PM

well i'm all good now, just need to brush my teeth at some point within the hour so i'll try to write something up. i liked our story and it is fun not knowing what direction we're going in.

currently, i have a bit of a predicament. there is a guy who likes me, it's pretty obvious even to me so you know it's obvious, and i just don't feel anything at all and i'm not looking for anything either. i am content where i am right now and he seems pretty persistent on calling and stuff and i don't like talking on phones and i don't have time to do much else these days. i guess what i'm asking is, what is a nice way to say this without seeming like a huge bitch or fickle? i don't think i was anything more than friendly so... yea... any ideas? i hate this sort of thing

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oo woody can help answer too!

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Old 08-30-2013, 04:36 PM

No germ sticks! *flails*

Ooooh. Well, the question is do you wanna be friends with him? If you do the best answer is to be forward about it. If you don't...the best answer is to be forward. Just tell him that you're not really looking for any relationship, and while you're flattered, that you're not interested.

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Old 08-30-2013, 04:41 PM

Literally, Linny, just tell him you're busy enjoying life and not looking for anyone like that. If YOU want, you can offer friendship, but make it purely in group settings, and when he texts or calls, don't really answer or talk. When he calls say you're busy and don't have time to talk, little things that make it seem like you're just a really busy person and don't have time for him.

Or, be super blunt and just say you're not into him, to no fault of his own, or to his fault, whatever works. XD

-more pokes with the germy stick- HAHA Woody!

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#2081
Old 08-30-2013, 04:42 PM

'pokes head in curiously' hello 'waves'

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Old 08-30-2013, 04:43 PM

Add on: He could be one of those that when girls are friendly he thinks they are into him, so you might just have to sort of blow him off, when he calls, don't answer and just text him to say you are busy or whatever. And if he texts to say you didn't call him back, just tell him you were busy. Just make him think you're super busy and he might just get the hint on his own, if you don't want to be too forward.

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Old 08-30-2013, 04:43 PM

yea that's what i figured i'd have to do. i was just hoping for something a bit easier to say
he asked me to text him when i was able to talk but i was busy with work stuff and house stuff and i told carn i'd play minecraft the day before so i didn't want to bail (because i do that to him a lot lol) so i sent a facebook message saying that i was busy and it got late. i got a text about 10:30 this morning saying he was going to be calling me at 6. that kind of set an alarm off in my mind for some reason. i am going to be at work so he can call all he wants and i can't answer. i haven't said anything back via text or otherwise. but yea, alarm bells and just some kind of turn off.

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hey, star :) woody and foolio are giving me boy advice how are you?

i do think that i need to just make it known that i am not one of those types that needs a significant other all the time and this is a time when i don't want anyone. probably best to say that sooner rather than later.

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Old 08-30-2013, 04:45 PM

Just tell him you will be at work, and can't talk. Whenever he says he will call, just tell him you're busy, even say what you might be vaguely doing so he gets the hint that you're a busy person. If you do talk to him just be distracted, and half way through just tell him you need to finish whatever you're doing and hang up, and if he texts just don't answer for awhile. Just basically let him think you are extremely busy, maybe he might thing you're a jerk, but then he will go away.

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#2085
Old 08-30-2013, 04:46 PM

that just seems mean to me though lol i'm not a mean person generally... unless they deserve it :P

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Old 08-30-2013, 04:50 PM

It isn't mean really. I mean, it isn't like he is just trying to be nice, asked if he could call you, and then you blew him off when yu said he could. He SAID he was going to call you, you didn't have a choice. That is rude and it may take more extreme measures to get it through.

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Old 08-30-2013, 04:50 PM

You might as well be forward about it. I know that's hard for me to do as well.... but if you enjoy his company but not his advances, let him know.

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#2088
Old 08-30-2013, 04:54 PM

maybe that was it, it seemed rude perhaps, yes

i definitely need to be forward and soon. i don't like this feeling at all -_-

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Old 08-30-2013, 04:57 PM

Yah. If he's making you feel awkward then it's time to nip it in the bud. Try and get his call tonight and just explain that you're busy with work and everything, and that it's hard to fit him in your life.

Then give him a wet willy when you see him next and set his underroos on fiyah.

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Old 08-30-2013, 04:58 PM

i don't see him hardly ever so that won't be happening

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Old 08-30-2013, 04:58 PM

See, when he starts doing that, he feels like he can, like telling you a time, and almost expecting you to be available. If he was a kinder person, or interested in your feelings on the matter, he would have asked if he could call you at said time, to see if you were available to talk, and so on, but he didn't. That is why you should not feel bad for being a bit 'mean' to him.

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Underoos?
Makes me think of Dunkaroos. MY CHILDHOOOODDD!

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#2092
Old 08-30-2013, 05:00 PM

yea that's totally it. it's like because i didn't message him last night to call that he feels like he has to be bossy and i don't like that at all. that's a sure way to piss me off quick

i love dunkaroos!!

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Old 08-30-2013, 05:03 PM

He went from having a crush to being bossy, and he likely hopes that you will just give in, and he will start to control more until you're 'together'. Boys are crazy!

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#2094
Old 08-30-2013, 05:06 PM

i think most girls would really like to have that reassurance that someone likes them, ya know? but now that i got it from someone i wasn't expecting or wish it was someone else i'm kind of taken aback

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#2095
Old 08-30-2013, 05:10 PM

Yeah, that just means you're weird. :P

No, I was the same way. I will make my own choices, I don't want a boy to decide that I like him.

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#2096
Old 08-30-2013, 05:11 PM

exactly! you and i are on the same page, holla!

well thanks, ladies! i appreciate the help and now i have to brush teeth and go to work! toodles! be back tonight!

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Old 08-30-2013, 05:13 PM

have a fun day, Linny! Glad I could help. Silly boys.

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#2098
Old 08-30-2013, 10:05 PM

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Marriage?
So soon?
But we've only just met..
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All the better! Let's not waste time on the conventional getting to know each other thing 8D!
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MARRIAGE? WITH HER?! I thought what we had was special, Randehhh!
DUDE WE CAN STILL GET MARRIED.

Wait, I can only marry one person?! D8

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Old 08-30-2013, 10:09 PM

Well... Supposedly, but we are rule-breakers! And I'm not signing a pre-nup!

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Old 08-30-2013, 10:22 PM

I have nothing to lose so we're good! RULE BREAKING IS THE BEST! WOOOO! *lives life on the edge*

 


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