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01-27-2014, 04:24 AM
 Have you been taking care of yourself? Don't need to be working youself sick, dear!
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01-27-2014, 04:29 AM
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*crawls into the thread with the last ounces of her strength*
someone... please... take my place as babysitter... *remembers the money problem* ... nevermind *crashes*
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No working yourself to death. Not allowed.
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nemo.love_22
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01-27-2014, 04:33 AM
I second Silver! It isn't allowed!
Silver: Why aren't you with your hubby?
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hummy
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01-27-2014, 04:35 AM
aw, poor mai
*gives pillow and blanket*
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01-27-2014, 09:31 PM
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Originally Posted by nemo.love_22
I second Silver! It isn't allowed!
Silver: Why aren't you with your hubby? 
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I was, but he was doing something for a moment.
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nemo.love_22
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01-27-2014, 10:09 PM
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I was, but he was doing something for a moment.
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Ah, ok.  Happy he's home?
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Can I please come down? ~Simple ...
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01-29-2014, 01:42 AM
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 Have you been taking care of yourself? Don't need to be working youself sick, dear! 
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It isn't a matter of working myself to sick. It is a matter of older girl and little boy not getting along. The girl went and took her fist out on a tree
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No working yourself to death. Not allowed.
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The emotional drainage of being a babysitter... it is so hard... and worse, I can't actually do much to help those kids. They are where they are in life with the troubles and attitudes that they have... and that is that. Nothing I say or does helps them.
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aw, poor mai
*gives pillow and blanket*
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gratefully curls in the blanket and snuggles the pillow close... thank you hummy sweetie
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nemo.love_22
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01-29-2014, 01:46 AM
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Originally Posted by maidenroseheart
It isn't a matter of working myself to sick. It is a matter of older girl and little boy not getting along. The girl went and took her fist out on a tree 
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 Aww!
I'm so about to just scream at my roommate. -.-
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01-29-2014, 03:14 AM
Oh dear, what's going on over there darling?
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nemo.love_22
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01-29-2014, 03:17 AM
Just everything - latest is just all about her, and her not being able to do anything and her wanting me to walk her dog. My thought is that if she can't take care of the dog on her own, then she shouldn't have the dog. It's just her also not being able to respect boundaries, and wanting to talk and acting like I'm ignoring her, when I'm not. :/ Doesn't help that I'm stressed and the stupid little things just get to me that much more when I'm just feeling blah.
She also nags on me about my homework all the time. Like "Do you have homework?" "Shouldn't you be doing homework?" :/ *sighs* Blahness.
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01-29-2014, 03:26 AM
wow, she sounds like a mix of little sister and overly nagging mother :( I'm sorry dear. I would just tell her if she can't walk her dog then she isn't capable of having one and logically should find it a new home.... but that wouldn't be an easy thing to do...
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01-29-2014, 03:30 AM
Thing is, this dog is her service dog, so she can't just give the dog away. :/ So that's the awkward thing about it. But at the same time, the dog is not a service dog, she is here under the pretense of being one - she does have the necessary paperwork to be one, but if she was a SERVICE DOG, she would go EVERYWHERE with her, which she doesn't.
What kind of makes me laugh is that I totally agree with you. Despite the fact that she's 2 years older than me. xD Heh. I don't think that she gets how naggy/complainy she really is. And I don't know how to talk to her about it without sounding like a naggy and like a bitch. -.- But I'm to the point where I try, and she just ignores it. And I just kind of just want to give up. :/
Apparently I'm not allowed to have 'free' time to do crafty type things... because I have to be doing HOMEWORK 24/7. -.-
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01-29-2014, 03:43 AM
It goes back to responsibility. Service dogs require owners who can handle having them.
You might, (it would take courage), going up to her and quietly saying, "Hey listen, we need to talk. Can I make an appointment with you." That makes it sound serious (which it is) and will get her attention and cause her to realize that this is something to take seriously (and hopefully respectfully). Then when you two do sit and talk, tell her, "I'm going to speak of a few things from my point of view. I know that you see it differently, but I need to express my side." Then talk to her about the nagging and, gulp, the dog.
It is just a suggestion. Take it or not. You might want to think it over and plan carefully your phrasing to sound as neutral as you can so she doesn't feel attacked.
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01-29-2014, 03:49 AM
I totally agree with you there 110% about responsibility and all of that.
Yeah, I know it needs to be done, and that would be the best way to do it. And I totally understand where you're coming from. I have been trying to figure out wording in my head for the last few days because I want to have that figured out before I approach her.
I just also want to talk to her about all this acting like no one else cares about things but her, and how WE (the other three of us) aren't saying that we don't care about whatever it is that she's complaining about at the time, but it's just that we're all trying to get into school again. And she needs to stop acting like I'm being unreasonable when I say I don't have time to go to the store with her, because quite honestly I'm stressed out enough with classes -I had a compete break down Monday before I left for class... it wasn't pretty. But she wasn't here to see that. Sure I'm good at acting like I'm all ok, but really - I just feel like I'm being taken advantage of. I do need to figure out how to word it in a way that she doesn't feel attacked, and I feel like right now, if I attempt to talk to her while I'm super stressed and upset, it will just make matters worse.
Because I don't want her to think that I'm attacking her, I just am tired of her acting like there is only POINT of view and that's hers, because there is more than one side to every story.
And I do feel sorry for her that she is in pain, and all of that, but really, life is hard for me too, and I just don't let her see it - because I've really never let anyone see that side of me most of the time - only a few people have ever seen that side of me. I'm good at hiding it.
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01-29-2014, 02:23 PM
*hugs* it is smart to wait until you are calmed down... you just got to hang in there somehow until you can talk to her
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01-29-2014, 04:27 PM
Yeah, and that's going to be the challenge. We'll see how this goes. :/
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Silver Storm
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01-29-2014, 11:40 PM
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Ah, ok.  Happy he's home?
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I am very happy he is home.
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01-29-2014, 11:43 PM
That's good. :) Sleeping better? :]
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Silver Storm
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01-29-2014, 11:44 PM
Yes, though now I have the problem of staying awake and talking.
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01-29-2014, 11:45 PM
At least you have someone to stay awake and talk to.
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Silver Storm
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01-29-2014, 11:50 PM
That is true and it is definitely nice.
My birthday is this weekend!
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maidenroseheart
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01-30-2014, 12:40 AM
Happy early birthday.
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Silver Storm
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01-30-2014, 10:51 PM
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Originally Posted by maidenroseheart
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YAY!!!!
Thanks for the reminder. I will go there now. I think I clicked on it on a day that I was really tired and then forgot.
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Happy early birthday.
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Aww thanks.
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maidenroseheart
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01-31-2014, 01:39 AM
Going to look... so tired... been biking because I hate my fat
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