I was wondering the same thing.

I am doing okay so far guys.

You have my number if you need to text/talk.

*pounces Silver Storm in a hug*

Originally Posted by Kirin Rosenbaum

You have my number if you need to text/talk.

I do Kiri thank you. Y'all have been amazing through all of this.

Originally Posted by Queen_Andais

*pounces Silver Storm in a hug*

Yay! I love hugs.

Hugs are one of the few things that you don't need words to convey your emotional support to another human being. Simple contact is often one of the over looked wonders of healing.

So very true Queenie. And greatly appreciated. Hugs are a big thing, one of the first things I fell in love with with Jacob was his hugs.

Some guys just know how to hug! My husband is one of those guys. However, I fell in love with his smile and eyes, the rest was just extra awesomeness.

Jacob sure knew how to hug. He had an amazing sense of humor and an awesome laugh that was so joyful and contagious.

I will say that when my husband sneezes, it's very grating to my nerves. They tend to be loud and there is a certain sound to them rubs my eardrums raw. Weird, right?

Yeah that is weird but I guess it kind of makes sense.

The sneezes typically come out of nowhere and there is that startle effect on me to boot.

Ever have one of those family situations where one member does something messed up to another and they tell you about it and their emotions run high so they start crying, which in turns royally pisses you off and shocks you, so you reach out to another family member, almost like you're activating a phone tree, yet it's all by text, so I guess a texting tree? That's what is happening right now between my dad, me, my older sister and the culprit, our younger sister. Thankful that the work day is over and I can go for a walk with the husband to get rid of some of the anger. She made our dad cry.

Wow. I am so sorry Queenie. That sounds so hard and frustrating.

Of course the little beeotch thinks she is the victim because I told her that if the druggy ex-boyfriend moves in with her and my nephew who is only 19 months old that I will be petitioning the courts for custody of the kiddo. He doesn't deserve to be bounced around from place to place, living out of a car because mom can't make the right choices in her life. And I refuse to let it happen. My husband and I are stable people, steady income, lived in the same place for 5 years, not drug addicts, no criminal past. It kills me how she chooses to live because we weren't raised that way.

That is sad. I hate when people do that to their kids. If you want to live that way I guess that is your business, but don't subject children to that life.

Precisely.

I should probably stop talking about the sister and start planning for our summer trip. Found out from my Godmother that the cabin will be in use for Fourth of July weekend, damn it. Means I have to decide if we are going to hit the cabin the week before or the week after. I was kind of thinking the week before since it would allow us more time for the vacation and to see everyone since we can include the Fourth of July weekend into the trip. But it all depends on work.

That sucks, Queen.
I hate it when family does things like that. It's really sad that she doesn't see how her life choices are going to effect her child.

Hey Ava. You are looking so pretty.

Queenie I hope work cooperates. Week before sounds like it could be a good idea. Give you some time to rest and relax and then finish up seeing everyone. I have been blessed to have a job that is really flexible with stuff like that.

aw, thanks, Storm. :D
How are you doing?

Ava, you'd think at twenty seven years old she would know by now to realize her actions have consequences. She either chooses to ignore them or doesn't care that there are consequences. It's always been about her, poor her, victim her, me, me, me, I, I, I, I. (Starting to sound like Captain Hook from the movie Hook)

Work did play nice and I have the last week of June off for our vacation. Talked it over with my husband, he's not overly happy that my parents will be there during the weekend, even when I told him that they wouldn't be there for the rest of the week we were. I get that he is frustrated with them for things they have done and said in the past, but damn it! Build a bridge and get over it. Or better yet, pull your big boy pants up, and contact ASU like I recommended and start going back to school. Ugh.
Sorry for venting in your thread, Silver. I will stop post haste.

I think it is okay to vent, Queenie. Obviously I am not speaking for Silver Storm, but I think it is wonderful that people are able to vent about their frustrations or problems here on Menewsha without being judged and such

I don't mind venting, just don't want to keep rehashing it and driving people insane with the drama. I try to be a little respectful. If it was my thread I would complain for as long and as loud as I wanted too.

Originally Posted by Ava The Vampire

aw, thanks, Storm. :D
How are you doing?

Not to bad. Decided to day to pamper myself and get my nails done for the first time in over a year. On the flip side almost lost my cool with a client at work today. He was being a pill and giving me issues about not having a ticket for shopping and not having his ID card with him. Then when my supervisor told him to go shop quick he basically rubbed it in my face, and went "See!" Lost my temper a bit and told the supervisor, she went and talked to him and sure enough he had signed in for food only. I knew there was something up the way he was caging.

Originally Posted by Queen_Andais

Ava, you'd think at twenty seven years old she would know by now to realize her actions have consequences. She either chooses to ignore them or doesn't care that there are consequences. It's always been about her, poor her, victim her, me, me, me, I, I, I, I. (Starting to sound like Captain Hook from the movie Hook)

Work did play nice and I have the last week of June off for our vacation. Talked it over with my husband, he's not overly happy that my parents will be there during the weekend, even when I told him that they wouldn't be there for the rest of the week we were. I get that he is frustrated with them for things they have done and said in the past, but damn it! Build a bridge and get over it. Or better yet, pull your big boy pants up, and contact ASU like I recommended and start going back to school. Ugh.
Sorry for venting in your thread, Silver. I will stop post haste.

Glad work gave you the time off. I hope you have a great time, even though your husband is being grumpy and difficult.

Don't worry about venting. I believe everyone needs a safe place to let it out and I hope that this will be a safe place where y'all can vent if ya need.

Silver Storm, that is great that you were able to pamper yourself today, but sorry to hear about what happened with your client

Queenie I understand, that makes sense. that is nice of you!

Its okay. I learn to handle them and for every rotten apple are 10 sweet, wonderful ones.