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11-23-2014, 09:49 PM
At least Cloud didn't have a block of cheese stolen like HIM's friend did
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Lavinia
Queen Procrastinator!
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11-23-2014, 09:50 PM
i dont see anybody throwing a party for cloud!
Get to it!
I'm going shopping, when im back i expect all balloons to be inflated! xD
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CloudDreamer
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11-23-2014, 09:51 PM
HIM: But I have two roommates who treat me like ABSOLUTE crap.. To me that's worse than a stolen block of cheese. And I have no food for them to steal. I hardly ever go shopping.
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salvete
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11-23-2014, 09:55 PM
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Originally Posted by CloudDreamer
Oh, I do leave but it's on my Subbed list so I see it when it comes there - I may be slow with responding as I'm trying to start an essay that's due tomorrow, but I will see responses eventually.  I lurk... quite a bit. Plus I'm also in invisible mode, so no one really can see when I'm on anyways.
Thing is... sadly, as much as I hate it... I'm used to it - so many people over the years have treated me this way.... OVER and OVER again.
Mmm, I honestly don't know, but thing is... really... I don't have any friends or family... I live 8 hours from both my parents and my brother (in opposite directions -and one of them is out of state)... But adding in having to move before the semester starts will only start me off stressed... :/
Close... as in do I live close, or am I close to them emotionally? No I am not close to them as in I don't live close, but I am close to them in other ways... but there is really nothing they can do from 8 hours away... it's not like they can just drop everything and come down here... they do have lives and school and work.
There's nothing that my family can do... they live WAY too far away. -.-
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I meant close as in - would they be able to support you emotionally through the process of changing rooms for next semester. Being physically close does, of course, help the situation. But, there is still much they can do even from 8 hours away in terms of restoring and maintaining your psychological well-being. Do you speak with them often, e.g. via video chat, Skype, over the phone...?
It's a shame that harmful people have chosen to target you like this over the years.
May I ask where you are located? Again, you don't have to share this information. I'm just wondering if you are located anywhere near me.
Also, happy birthday! Sorry to be speaking with you about this type of thing on a day that should be celebrated! (and also helping you procrastinate on your essay)
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11-23-2014, 09:56 PM
Don't get dragged down to their level if they want to act like children let them. If they call you anti-social just tell them you're not user friendly
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salvete
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11-23-2014, 10:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Lavinia
i dont see anybody throwing a party for cloud!
Get to it!
I'm going shopping, when im back i expect all balloons to be inflated! xD
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*starts inflating some balloons*
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CloudDreamer
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11-23-2014, 10:09 PM
Salvete: Mmm... yes... but for me, I need that physically there connection so no at the same time. I mean they do try but it isn't enough. I do talk to them somewhat often, as often as my insane schedule allows me to - and whenever it works with their schedules as well - mom goes to school three days a week and dad works, so it's a matter of catching them when they're home.  (Or have their phones on. haha!)
It makes me want to scream but when I do... i get told off because I'm not acting maturely enough for them... I can never win. Why do I even try.
I'm currently in Southern California - that's all you'll get.  But I'm headed back up to Northern California in about a month, for a month.
Thank you. Eh, it's ok - I really don't like my birthday anyways. (ugh stupid essay.)
HIM: Oh, that's why I've not said anything to them because I don't trust myself not to yell at them and stoop to their level.
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salvete
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11-23-2014, 10:12 PM
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Originally Posted by CloudDreamer
Salvete: Mmm... yes... but for me, I need that physically there connection so no at the same time. I mean they do try but it isn't enough. I do talk to them somewhat often, as often as my insane schedule allows me to - and whenever it works with their schedules as well - mom goes to school three days a week and dad works, so it's a matter of catching them when they're home.  (Or have their phones on. haha!)
It makes me want to scream but when I do... i get told off because I'm not acting maturely enough for them... I can never win. Why do I even try.
I'm currently in Southern California - that's all you'll get.  But I'm headed back up to Northern California in about a month, for a month.
Thank you. Eh, it's ok - I really don't like my birthday anyways. (ugh stupid essay.)
HIM: Oh, that's why I've not said anything to them because I don't trust myself not to yell at them and stoop to their level.
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Hmm that's not anywhere near me, but I do have friends living in California. Now it's a question of whether I want to introduce my friends to a stranger I met online :)
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CloudDreamer
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11-23-2014, 10:16 PM
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Originally Posted by salvete
Hmm that's not anywhere near me, but I do have friends living in California. Now it's a question of whether I want to introduce my friends to a stranger I met online :)
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I'm not really comfortable meeting people in person anyways. I'm a really a shy quiet person irl.
But the thing also is... California is such a huge state that just because one lives in the state, doesn't mean that we're close to each other.
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Imagination
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11-23-2014, 10:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Lavinia
i dont see anybody throwing a party for cloud!
Get to it!
I'm going shopping, when im back i expect all balloons to be inflated! xD
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Have fun~
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salvete
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11-23-2014, 10:20 PM
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Originally Posted by CloudDreamer
I'm not really comfortable meeting people in person anyways. I'm a really a shy quiet person irl.
But the thing also is... California is such a huge state that just because one lives in the state, doesn't mean that we're close to each other.
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Yes, I can understand that.
It would certainly be easier for them to travel to where you are, as opposed to my flying across the sky to you.
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CloudDreamer
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11-23-2014, 10:24 PM
Salvete: Meeting people I don't know stresses me out so that'd probably just add more stress though. :/ Plus I don't trust people easily because of all the crap that I've been put through by people.
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11-23-2014, 10:24 PM
I don't trust people period.
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Lavinia
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11-23-2014, 10:25 PM
trust nobody but yourself!! xD
Although i don't really trust myself either....
*inflates the bouncy castle*
Who's joining me? ^_^
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Originally Posted by Imagination
I don't trust people period.
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*high fives*
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11-23-2014, 10:25 PM
Weren't you going shopping Lavi?
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Lavinia
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11-23-2014, 10:26 PM
I'm back, didnt need much just had to get there before it closed lol
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Imagination
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11-23-2014, 10:27 PM
Sounds like all you did was run to the petrol station
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Lavinia
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11-23-2014, 10:29 PM
STAHP SPYING MAGI!
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Imagination
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11-23-2014, 10:29 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lavinia
STAHP SPYING MAGI!
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I know I'm good
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CloudDreamer
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11-23-2014, 10:30 PM
 *hides herself in a pile of pillows*
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Imagination
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11-23-2014, 10:31 PM
Why do you look so sad on your birthday Cloud?
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CloudDreamer
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11-23-2014, 10:32 PM
Because I am. It's how I feel.
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Lavinia
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11-23-2014, 10:32 PM
*takes pillows and throws them on the bouncy castle with blankets*
BOUNCY CASTLE DEN!
(i so did that once)
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CloudDreamer
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11-23-2014, 10:33 PM
Eep! *tries to cling onto some of the pillows*
(That does sound like fun!)
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Imagination
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11-23-2014, 10:35 PM
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Originally Posted by CloudDreamer
Because I am. It's how I feel.
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Well that's no good =/
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