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11-23-2014, 11:37 PM
LOOOL. I NEED THIS DOLL.
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CloudDreamer
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11-23-2014, 11:38 PM
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Originally Posted by salvete
Can you go to a professor or the dean? There's always higher-ups who will listen.
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With the roommate situation... it would have to be someone here at the dorms, not the dean... but even then - as I have already said... moving rooms, no matter when it happens. is just UNBELIEVABLY stressful for me. No matter when. And the girls will get away with how they have been treating me... which is not ok with me.
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11-23-2014, 11:40 PM
I'M GONNA EXPLODE!
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11-23-2014, 11:45 PM
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Originally Posted by CloudDreamer
With the roommate situation... it would have to be someone here at the dorms, not the dean... but even then - as I have already said... moving rooms, no matter when it happens. is just UNBELIEVABLY stressful for me. No matter when. And the girls will get away with how they have been treating me... which is not ok with me.
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Are there any support groups/clubs or student centers where you could go at or near your school? I'm trying to think of other authority figures at your institutions who would be able to help you out.
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11-23-2014, 11:47 PM
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Originally Posted by CloudDreamer
I just know that going to someone above them will just result in me being moved and nothing else happening so they 'get away with all of it'. Which I know shouldn't matter but they should not be allowed to treat anyone like this.. EVER.
Oh, that's why I've not mentioned anything to them because I do not TRUST myself at all to say anything... Because I'm just so upset and peeved at their behavior in general.
The one time I got upset and did something they didn't agree with I got told "Well in my family we don't raise our voices or slam doors..." WELL SWEETIE... WE DO NOT LIVE WITH YOUR FAMILY DO WE?! That's what I told her, well I said it calmly... she was like "Oh, I know but..." And one time we had a TWO hour long talk about how I was going to change and not how we as a room were going to work together.. Because clearly how I've been doing things for SEVEN YEARS... is just wrong, and everything I do is wrong. -.- Sure since the girl that was in my bedroom with me moved out, it's not been something they've been getting on my case but basically I got told that "I will never change. It's a lost cause." And that I need to start changing EVERYTHING I do because they don't agree with how I've been doing things on my own for years. -.- *sighs*
*sighs* I'm just over immature selfish people. -.-
I've got enough stress on my plate with classes - I'm to the point where I don't even know if I can get myself to finish the semester and come back next semester... I don't even feel welcomed in my own home. -.-
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Hm that is true..
I can see that now.
And ya know I would just keep doing what I was doing.
Boo hoo on them if they think you're going to change just for THEM.
And yeah I know hoe you feel.
To the extreme.
You can do it!
I know you can!
I believe in you!
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Originally Posted by Amane
I have a computer and then a GBA, DS, and 3DS. My sisters have the ones you hook up to a TV. I never bothered asking for those because you had to use the TV. But I get a handheld all to myself whenever. Can't interfere with anyone.
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You have a 3DS?
/did I know this before?
I feel like we don't have the same games..
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11-23-2014, 11:48 PM
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Originally Posted by salvete
Are there any support groups/clubs or student centers where you could go at or near your school? I'm trying to think of other authority figures at your institutions who would be able to help you out.
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I'm not sure that I can fit anything else into my schedule - plus I'm not a super social person and after classes, I'm so worn out that it takes me days to recover only to do it all over again the next week. I hardly even go to the one club I'm a member of because it just mentally exhausts me. (I don't handle noise well, and I get very easily over stimulated which exhausts me).
I've had people tell me "If you have time to get online, you have time to go and talk to someone..." but what those people don't get... is that I Do not socialize well because of the fact I do get over stimulated VERY easily... and I go online because it doesn't require me to socialize face to face with ANYONE...
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11-23-2014, 11:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Kenome-Chan
You have a 3DS?
/did I know this before?
I feel like we don't have the same games..
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You might have. I only have one game for it. Yeah, it seems like I told you. Not sure.
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11-23-2014, 11:50 PM
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Originally Posted by CloudDreamer
I'm not sure that I can fit anything else into my schedule - plus I'm not a super social person and after classes, I'm so worn out that it takes me days to recover only to do it all over again the next week. I hardly even go to the one club I'm a member of because it just mentally exhausts me. (I don't handle noise well, and I get very easily over stimulated which exhausts me).
I've had people tell me "If you have time to get online, you have time to go and talk to someone..." but what those people don't get... is that I Do not socialize well because of the fact I do get over stimulated VERY easily... and I go online because it doesn't require me to socialize face to face with ANYONE...
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How do you feel about talking to people over the phone?
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11-23-2014, 11:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Kenome-Chan
Hm that is true..
I can see that now.
And ya know I would just keep doing what I was doing.
Boo hoo on them if they think you're going to change just for THEM.
And yeah I know hoe you feel.
To the extreme.
You can do it!
I know you can!
I believe in you!
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Yeah... I'm to the point where I want to start leaving post it notes EVERYWHERE because if they do that to me, because they have... I will do it to them as well...
And when people get on my case like that.. and accuse me of making excuses... etc etc etc... -.- IT MAKES ME 1) want to scream and 2) keep doing things how I want to... because they even got the FREAKING RA involved basically to tell me that there are things that are set and established guidelines (YES I KNOW THIS... I've been dorming for SEVEN YEARS NOW...) and that these things can't be changed... I KNOW. Basically treating me like a child... and I'm OLDER THAN BOTH OF THEM -- I'm even older than the RA!! D: I'm sick and tired of being treated like a CHILD! D:
Because according to them and the RA, I need a schedule for when I do my laundry, when I take my showers, when I do my homework, when I clean... I JUST NEED TO FREAKING SCHEDULE MY LIFE AROUND WHAT THEY THINK I NEED TO DO... I can tell you right now, schedules really don't work for me... -.- Regardless of what people say.
I honestly don't think I can. D:
I really don't.
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Originally Posted by salvete
How do you feel about talking to people over the phone?
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It depends on the person.
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11-23-2014, 11:52 PM
I'm back~
Made some food for dinner
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11-23-2014, 11:53 PM
They always gotta make the evil ones pretty.
@Imagi: Food sounds good…
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11-23-2014, 11:53 PM
I made bourbon chicken + rice
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11-23-2014, 11:56 PM
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Originally Posted by CloudDreamer
Yeah... I'm to the point where I want to start leaving post it notes EVERYWHERE because if they do that to me, because they have... I will do it to them as well...
And when people get on my case like that.. and accuse me of making excuses... etc etc etc... -.- IT MAKES ME 1) want to scream and 2) keep doing things how I want to... because they even got the FREAKING RA involved basically to tell me that there are things that are set and established guidelines (YES I KNOW THIS... I've been dorming for SEVEN YEARS NOW...) and that these things can't be changed... I KNOW. Basically treating me like a child... and I'm OLDER THAN BOTH OF THEM -- I'm even older than the RA!! D: I'm sick and tired of being treated like a CHILD! D:
Because according to them and the RA, I need a schedule for when I do my laundry, when I take my showers, when I do my homework, when I clean... I JUST NEED TO FREAKING SCHEDULE MY LIFE AROUND WHAT THEY THINK I NEED TO DO... I can tell you right now, schedules really don't work for me... -.- Regardless of what people say.
I honestly don't think I can. D:
I really don't.
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It depends on the person. 
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I was thinking a student center hotline of some sort, if your institution has one.
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11-23-2014, 11:57 PM
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Originally Posted by salvete
I was thinking a student center hotline of some sort, if your institution has one.
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But I don't see how that'd help with this situation... because it's nothing that they can fix.
*shrugs* Just forget I said anything, I've survived situations like this over the past seven years... I can somehow survive this one...
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11-23-2014, 11:58 PM
Good evening everyone.
Finally made it home from the dreadful store.
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Imagination
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11-24-2014, 12:00 AM
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Originally Posted by Imagination
Ello Fuu :)
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Hello Imagination, how are you doing?
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salvete
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11-24-2014, 12:02 AM
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Originally Posted by CloudDreamer
But I don't see how that'd help with this situation... because it's nothing that they can fix.
*shrugs* Just forget I said anything, I've survived situations like this over the past seven years... I can somehow survive this one...
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Usually, the people in charge at student centers (not student clubs...like actual centers at the institution) are administrators themselves and willing to listen and help students figure out ways to address and solve issues. At least, that is my personal experience. I'm not sure if it would be the same way at your school.
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11-24-2014, 12:03 AM
*struggles to get tabbies sorted out so I don't have to scroll x_x*
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11-24-2014, 12:03 AM
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Originally Posted by Fuu-Chan
Hello Imagination, how are you doing?
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Doing pretty good, just watching Supernatural at the moment :D
You?
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CloudDreamer
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11-24-2014, 12:04 AM
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Originally Posted by salvete
Usually, the people in charge at student centers (not student clubs...like actual centers at the institution) are administrators themselves and willing to listen and help students figure out ways to address and solve issues. At least, that is my personal experience. I'm not sure if it would be the same way at your school.
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It's not worth it... it'll just add more stress into my life trying to force myself to be more social than I already am, which is exhausting enough... Just forget I ever said anything it's not worth it. I'll survive. I always do. Despite hating them, and not feeling welcome here, I'll survive. It's not the first time I've had shitty roommates.
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11-24-2014, 12:04 AM
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Originally Posted by Imagination
Doing pretty good, just watching Supernatural at the moment :D
You?
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Letting my eyes adjust back to being in a room with light
and thinking what to eat.
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11-24-2014, 12:05 AM
Food is good 
Don't wait and think too long
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Kenome-Chan
Love me as I am.
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11-24-2014, 12:05 AM
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Originally Posted by Amane
You might have. I only have one game for it. Yeah, it seems like I told you. Not sure.
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Maybe.
What game do you have?
And I think you did at one point but I'm not sure.
Quote:
Originally Posted by CloudDreamer
Yeah... I'm to the point where I want to start leaving post it notes EVERYWHERE because if they do that to me, because they have... I will do it to them as well...
And when people get on my case like that.. and accuse me of making excuses... etc etc etc... -.- IT MAKES ME 1) want to scream and 2) keep doing things how I want to... because they even got the FREAKING RA involved basically to tell me that there are things that are set and established guidelines (YES I KNOW THIS... I've been dorming for SEVEN YEARS NOW...) and that these things can't be changed... I KNOW. Basically treating me like a child... and I'm OLDER THAN BOTH OF THEM -- I'm even older than the RA!! D: I'm sick and tired of being treated like a CHILD! D:
Because according to them and the RA, I need a schedule for when I do my laundry, when I take my showers, when I do my homework, when I clean... I JUST NEED TO FREAKING SCHEDULE MY LIFE AROUND WHAT THEY THINK I NEED TO DO... I can tell you right now, schedules really don't work for me... -.- Regardless of what people say.
I honestly don't think I can. D:
I really don't.
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I'd do it.
Like you do this to me why can't I do it back.
If people keep pushing me to do something I just take my sweet time doing it or starting to do it.
Like I know what I have to do.
And I'll do it when I want to.
When I have time.
And I'd ignore them all.
You obviously know the rules and guidelines.
You've been there for SEVEN YEARS now.
And who does schedules for everything?
I sure don't.
Only when I have a lot of things to do in a day.
Other than that we do laundry when we can and want to.
And I shower when I can.
We live in a house that has 8 people in it.
And I believe in you.
Just so you know.
Just try your best.
I give you credit for at least trying.
By the way Happy Birthday!
I meant to say it earlier but I was to caught up in our conversation.
Sorry.
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11-24-2014, 12:06 AM
I was asleep. Had a tab open.
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