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Lavinia
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12-02-2014, 05:25 PM
Hullo Magi, how you doing?
On rift as per? xD
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MoodyBats
Scarce Menewshan
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12-02-2014, 05:34 PM
Finally made a more festive avi.
Not sure if I like it or not.
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Imagination
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12-02-2014, 05:37 PM
Pissed off at the moment. "Friend" of mine has been lying to me over the years about who she was, and her reasoning was "names don't matter". Which annoys the crap out of me because I don't give a damn about last names. A first name is harmless. Not to mention how she lives across the freakin world from me. And to top it all off, (( and why I'm so pissed )) , I trusted her with my credit card once so she could have access to DAC on here. And yet she never trusted me with a simple thing like her first name. Apparently all the ones she gave me over the years were fake, despite how often we used to talk and webcam off of here. ?
So I'm just like, you know what screw it. I used to want to get to know you but now, frankly I dont want anything more to do with you.
Which got a sarcastic response back from her because she thinks that I'm pissed because "names matter to me".
Which if her head would come out of her ass, she'd be able to understand why I'm pissed instead of only seeing what she wants to see. But meh, at this point I guess it really doesn't matter anymore.
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Lavinia
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12-02-2014, 05:48 PM
Ugh, i read that, i don't want to get too involved but i can see both sides.
Some people really don't wanna share their personal info with people, but at the same time once you're close i dont see why she wouldn't tell you. Dont let it get to you too much it wasn't an attack directly to you she didn't tell anybody else either.
I went by a fake name once, not online, irl when i changed schools, but i told all my friends my real name xD
Sorry your angry sweetie *hugs*
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12-02-2014, 05:51 PM
Meh. She can kiss my ass. This isn't the first time we've gotten into it over something stupid that was brought on by one of her choices so I'm done. I don't need or want drama, especially when it can be easily avoided by choosing to stay away from her. It's very obvious I never knew her anyways, so no real loss I suppose.
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Lavinia
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12-02-2014, 05:56 PM
Stay positive then :)
I won't lie to you, promise! No point in it lol
My real name is most definitely Donna xD
---------- Post added 12-02-2014 at 06:56 PM ----------
Stick some angry music on or play a game, i think i'll play darksiders 1 tonight, i played 2 first haha oops
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12-02-2014, 05:59 PM
That's the thing. She flat out chose to lie. She could have very easily said hey, I'm not really comfortable with giving out personal details online, like hummy and Amane. But she didn't go that route. She specifically chose to lie and that's what pisses me off and is why I have no respect left for her. If I didn't trust her like I used to, it wouldn't bother me so much. Nor would she have ever gotten my credit card info, or my inventory when I left Menewsha. But hey, apparently lying serves her well because she gets shit from people.
After typing that, I can see her point on why she wouldn't be upset or take it very seriously. She already got a shit ton of things from me. Time to move on and do it to the next idiot.
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12-02-2014, 06:08 PM
HIM goes by a different first name on book of face due to not wanting people from school finding HIM.
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12-02-2014, 06:09 PM
Yeah but you told me that right away HIM. Which is why we never had any issues. You had the common courtesy/respect to let me know that hey, I'm not trying to deceive you, and this is why [insert reason].
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Lavinia
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12-02-2014, 06:33 PM
Poor Immy. Well at least now you know i guess. Don't let your whole day be a downer hun. What are you going to do the rest of today?
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CloudDreamer
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12-02-2014, 06:36 PM
I know that I'm hesitant to give out my name (either my first or last name) to just random people online - that being said, once I get to know someone and I know I can trust them, I'm ok with them knowing who I am (a few people on here, Lavi is one of them, is on my actual FB - not the side one that I've created with a pen name, for those who I know quite know but want to keep in contact with outside of here - but once I get to know people on there [the side sneaky account xP] I have been known to tell people my real reasoning for why I did what I did - those I have told, have understood why I did what I did and they were ok with it). But I can understand why you're hurt. If she wasn't comfortable with telling you her name, she should have just told you that she wasn't comfortable.  Sometimes people just don't see what they're doing is harmful to those around them and pushing people away.
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Lavinia
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12-02-2014, 06:40 PM
Yeah hun i guess it is different for everybody. There's so many fake profiles out these days and some people do it for the wrong reasons so it gets hard to trust.
But it really depends on the situation or the reasons for that specific person. I don't really care who knows my name cause i have no enemies...yet xDD
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CloudDreamer
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12-02-2014, 06:44 PM
I feel that I'm not one to let people know my actual name, because I'm not a huge fan of it in general. xD 
Although that is only a tiny part of it.
Although I do get it, what can a person do with just a first name.  It just depends on how the person is and what's happened etc etc etc... who knows the whole picture.
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salvete
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12-02-2014, 06:52 PM
First names are more powerful than many people think. I was once approached by a complete stranger who just began chatting with me...and one of the questions he asked was "what's your name?"
Later on, I did a google search with my first name and some of the information I shared with him about myself, and I was one of the first search results. Yikes!
So, be careful out there with your online identities!
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KushyKissez
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12-02-2014, 06:52 PM
I think if you don't want to get that close and personal with people then you should be upfront about it and tell them ur only here for games n a casual chat .... but to get close to people n lie about names n stuff isn't nice...I couldn't get close to people and lie to them because my conscience would eat me up... if I didn't want to get to know people I wouldn't chat to them offline or whatever... but I don't care that people know who I am offline because I'm the same person online and iv nothing to hide:) I'm sorry about u being pissed imagination I can see why and it's understandable... I had a good friend online for 3 years and I thought he was so awesome until he started making different accounts to mess with me pretending to be all these different people trolling me n stuff.. then told me that he wasn't who he said he was.. it hurt a lot cus then the 3 years I thought we were good friends meant nothing anymore because it was just one big lie... and I don't care for liars and fakes lol
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hiya everyone:)
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CloudDreamer
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12-02-2014, 06:54 PM
Ok, time for me to go and head off to get things done before class... out into the rain I go! 
Thank goodness for having packed some warmer weather shirts, and that my parents brought me my water proof boots (not rain boots, these are actual boots that are comfier than rain boots).
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KushyKissez
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12-02-2014, 06:54 PM
Bye cloudy have a good day:)
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CloudDreamer
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12-02-2014, 06:56 PM
Thanks. I'll try. I'm stressing over an exam that I have to take in just over an hour.
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Lavinia
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12-02-2014, 06:57 PM
Hey peeps who just joined :)
If people really want to steal your identity they could do it, i'm not gonna tell a total stranger personal details but it's just a name.
I'd rather trust until i'm given reason not to, with most things, not all things ofc. but eh, i have that kind of attitude, i always try to see the positives :)
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And good luck on the test Cloud! <33
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KushyKissez
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12-02-2014, 06:57 PM
goodluck cloudy I'm sure you'll do just fine ^_^
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hummy
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12-02-2014, 06:58 PM
haven't backread, but.....names are POWERFUL. This comes from a person who has had here identify stolen THREE times buy "friends. So please don't think badly of anyone who wants to keep their personal life private, they may have a perfectly valid reason. Everyone is validated in how they feel, regardless of if you see their point of view or not, just saying =3 RAK is a safe place to be who you are, always"
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CloudDreamer
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12-02-2014, 06:58 PM
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salvete
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12-02-2014, 06:58 PM
Okay bye CloudDreamer! ^_^ <3 *waves* See you later!
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MoodyBats
Scarce Menewshan
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12-02-2014, 07:00 PM
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KushyKissez
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12-02-2014, 07:00 PM
I'm off to the market to put some stuff back up that will hopefully sell... n try find someone who will trade ci's no luck yet:( have a good day everyone
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