hummy:

Thanks for inviting me, how are you all? :D

thanks for stopping by! sorry we are a little slow this time of day/night =3 i'm good, how about you?

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good night and sweet dreams, squirrelie. i hope the storm passes by quickly or misses you entirely!

Originally Posted by Amane

It's about time I head off to bed, though. I must fall asleep before the storm tomorrow night! Good night, squirrelie.

I am currently bereft of caffeinated beverage.

aw, poor markie

Originally Posted by onsenmark

I am currently bereft of caffeinated beverage.

Amane; that day was perfect. even though people ended up butt hurt

*glomps clockie*

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llonka: sweetie did you add the last entry

Originally Posted by llonka

Voting will take place soon! Stay tuned for a new contest! :)

I am still not satisfied with my avatars .__.

oh i think you look adorable, Fuuie =3

Thank you hummy.
I haven't really used this flower border before so i thought i could now :3

i really like it, it's so pretty

Hello all

hiya, HIMmie. do you still need those questie items =3

HIM does. /himfail

okie dokie RAK is sending them to you with love

Thank you

cross them off then =3

That is the least amount of members I've seen online, ever!

All the quest thread is updated

yay, HIMmie

Originally Posted by hummy

*glomps clockie*

---------- Post added 06-08-2014 at 07:15 AM ----------

llonka: sweetie did you add the last entry

I think so.. I'm sorry it's taking me so long, things have been crazy at home. Now both boys are home and I feel guilty if I'm on here too long. I've been checking my threads, maybe replying and logging off.

WHY THEY NO IN SCHOOL

BUT SCHOOL JUST ENDED!

@Clock: It was beautiful.
Welp, it is the Internet.

Because school is out for the summer. xP i'm also dealing with one of my friend's loss of a child. Her son drowned in a lake last week and it's been tough. She is having a birthday party for her daughter tonight, I think it's too early, they haven't even had the boy's funeral yet. Anways I feel like I should go, but then again I don't want to because Kaleb was friends with the boy that passed away. I don't want him looking for him and get everyone all upset again. I don't even know how to tell him that the little boy isn't with us anymore or if the boy's sister even knows. Last I knew she didn't know yet. :(

Send your condolances to the parents and a gift for the little girl because it's still her birthday.

You can tell him that his friend has gone over the rainbow bridge when the question of what happens to them comes up.


Just had a quick look at it says that you should tell them that they've died.

This might be helpful

This acronym SADD NEWS can help you remember the key points:

• Setting: Prepare to talk to your child by doing some physical things that will allow you to be calm. Find a place that is quiet and neutral, not a bedroom. Pick a time that is quiet and not rushed. Turn off the TV. Pick a time when you won’t be rushing out the door or going right to bed. All of this allows you to be at your best and your child to have time to ask questions while you are together. If the news only impacts one child, make arrangements for the others to be out of the room or, if possible, out of the house to allow your child your full attention.
• Actual and Factual: Keep you explanation short and honest. Misleading or lying to a child leads to confusion later when he may over hear others talking. Talking too much can confuse children. “I have to talk to you about something very sad. Your friend died last night “.If your child is under 4, explain further: “This means that she is gone forever and not going to come back.”
• Decompress and Decide: Give the child time to think while sitting quietly next to you. Respond to any questions or statements with short answers. Decide what to say based on if the information meets the goal of making your child feel safe and clarifies misunderstandings.

• Encourage your child to talk about her thoughts and feelings if she says nothing after a few minutes. Let her know it is ok to feel sad and to ask questions: “This makes me very sad. How do you feel? What questions do you have?”
• Limit the amount of information you give.

When discussing more, remember:

1. Need to know only: talking about how much blood was in a room, or the fact that someone lost an arm in the accident are not important and can frighten the child.
2. Explain what happened in simple terms. He died in a car accident. The fact it occurred at rush hour on Hwy 40, is not important. Keep it brief to allow child to process the information.
3. Waitfor additional questions. Encourage your child to talk about questions and feelings as time passes. If your child doesn’t ask right away how her friend died, it is ok to wait a day or two and then discuss more.
4. Support: Depending on the situation, you may also be dealing with difficult emotions. Seek out support via friends, family, your physician or credible resources so you can emotionally equipped to support your child.

Thank you HIMMIE. I got teary eyed just reading that... i have no idea how he will react, but I have thing nagging feeling i need to tell him. They play very much, but he knew him enough that he knows who he is when he sees a picture or when we saw them at school, they've moved now, but i'm sure he'd know who they were if we saw them somewhere.