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Old 09-24-2014, 03:10 PM

Okay, so recently I was at the store and I had a bunch of guys start pestering me and picking on me, for really no apparent reason. I told them to screw off, and that made it WORSE.
I discovered after they finally left me alone, after hearing them laughing and high-fiving because they thought they got to me, that they thougt I was gay and they are jealous or angry or whatever at gays. Now, I am pretty neutral on the topic of homosexuality, I don't agree nor disagree with people on it. But my issue is this- they picked on me because they THOUGHT I was gay. I mean.... Really? Okay, yes, I dress very casually, and have a more masculine face. But, for one thing, I don't think girls should have to be super girly to not get picked on (and aren't there girly lesbians?), and I can't help my facial features!
Has this ever happened to anyone else, or am I entirely alone here? And, sorry if I offended anyone with my neutral opinion, but I was taught that's everyone else's business, not mine. So I shouldn't care either way, everyone makes their own choices.

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Old 09-24-2014, 05:38 PM

That's messed up.

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Old 09-24-2014, 05:55 PM

Really?

Those people seem rather close minded. It's not on you.

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Old 09-25-2014, 02:57 AM

Wow, when you say guys, I'm hoping you mean teens/obviously young guys. Not that that makes that kind of douchebag behaviour ok, but it would explain it . _.

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Old 09-25-2014, 03:27 AM

I am so sorry. :( That is an awful way to treat someone just because they thought you were gay. I am so sorry you were subjected to that form of bullying.

And to answer your question, yes there are girly lesbians. Ellen DeGeneres with her girlfriend Portia de Rossi

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Old 09-26-2014, 02:38 AM

People can be freaken gross at times. And these boys think that they did something "cool" But they probably realize that they can't get any girls for themselves and the only way to make them feel good is to pick on people. And picking on women is the easiest thing for them because they know if they pick on a man then they can get their asses whopped. Because their so scared to pick on someone there own size. And they would have to be pathic little twats and pick on women. the little shits. And what makes it worse is that people will tell you to get over yourself and pull the "Boys will be boys" Bull crap. I swear to god. I'm sorry that you had to go through that. -_-

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Old 09-28-2014, 07:23 PM

I don't see why people care so much about the sexuality of another person. The only time I care is if a gay guy hits on me because I'm not interested.

my mom always gets so disgusted by gays it's very annoying. they aren't gross they're just different from your ideals.
it's the equivalent of me going "eww girls have cooties"

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Old 09-28-2014, 08:08 PM

Scientifically proven that boys have more cooties than girls.

Wow Uni, that's messed up. Douchebags will be douchebags regardless of gender. I'm sorry they were terrible people to you, next time tell them to choke on a bucket of dicks. (I thing the imagery is very amusing)

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Old 09-28-2014, 11:31 PM

That is very disturbing imagery... because there's a towing company by that name here... (not the bucket part)

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Old 09-29-2014, 07:44 AM

What! Poet, you need to be clearer here >< I'm reading that as the towing company's called choke on a dick...

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Old 09-29-2014, 12:31 PM

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Scientifically proven that boys have more cooties than girls.

Wow Uni, that's messed up. Douchebags will be douchebags regardless of gender. I'm sorry they were terrible people to you, next time tell them to choke on a bucket of dicks. (I thing the imagery is very amusing)
I can't say that without giggling... <.<

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Old 09-29-2014, 12:35 PM

I'm glad you took it well. Some guys are massive jerks, hopefully they'll run into the Gay Avenger one day.

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Old 09-29-2014, 12:48 PM

They can keep each other company in the Friendzone for their entire lives.

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Old 09-29-2014, 12:53 PM

Someone actually brought up an interesting point to me one day. The friend zone is sexist and degrading to both men and women because it insists that all guys are horny jerks incapable of "just being friends" with a girl to whom he is not closely related to, and that girls are terrible ice boxing hoes who enjoy mentally torturing guys by giving them false hope of a relationship.

It's backed up by guys who insult and degrade girls who friend-zone them or their friends, and girls who avoid having guy friends because they "don't want to get hit on constantly."

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Old 09-29-2014, 01:25 PM

Yep, while points about the friendzone are valid, it's still a generalisation, so only actually accurate for a small percentage of people.

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Old 09-29-2014, 01:45 PM

If only it seemed like only a small percentage of people were jerks, though.

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Old 09-29-2014, 01:47 PM

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If only it seemed like only a small percentage of people were jerks, though.
Yeah, that's true. It's frustrating, though. The last thing someone wants is to walk through Walmart and be picked on because someone think they look a certain way.

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Old 09-29-2014, 03:12 PM

Walmart of all places. I mean, these so many available options there if someone feels the uncontrollable urge to be a complete dick to a stranger...

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Old 09-29-2014, 03:18 PM

Why I hate Walmart, Part 1: I have minor OCD and completely fixed up a tissue stand and made it beautiful. I even color coded the boxes into a pattern, inside and out, so when you took a box it wouldn't change much and still look fantastic. Que these assholes; they take an armful of boxes, then HEFT THEM onto the top shelves of everything as they walk through the store. Note that some Walmart shelves are rafter height, then they exit the freaking store without buying anything once they see a manager walking toward them and their only other route in this triangle was me with a metal-looking tennis racket.

I could have killed a man with no regrets... over tissues.

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Old 09-29-2014, 03:26 PM

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I can't say that without giggling... <.<
And that's why it remains one of my favorite things to yell at assholes. :P

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Old 09-30-2014, 07:50 PM

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What! Poet, you need to be clearer here >< I'm reading that as the towing company's called choke on a dick...
Well considering how much they charge it might as well.

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Old 09-30-2014, 11:51 PM

I'm so sorry that happened to you It definitely wasn't your fault, and those guys are obviously so immature no girl wants to be with them.

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I don't see why people care so much about the sexuality of another person. The only time I care is if a gay guy hits on me because I'm not interested.

my mom always gets so disgusted by gays it's very annoying. they aren't gross they're just different from your ideals.
it's the equivalent of me going "eww girls have cooties"
I hate that too. It's like, their choice doesn't make them any less human. Would you like someone telling you to go against everything you feel just because that's what society says is acceptable? Straight people want to be told to like the same gender as much as gay people like to be told to like the opposite gender.

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What! Poet, you need to be clearer here >< I'm reading that as the towing company's called choke on a dick...
I know!!! I need some clarity on this too!

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Why I hate Walmart, Part 1: I have minor OCD and completely fixed up a tissue stand and made it beautiful. I even color coded the boxes into a pattern, inside and out, so when you took a box it wouldn't change much and still look fantastic. Que these assholes; they take an armful of boxes, then HEFT THEM onto the top shelves of everything as they walk through the store. Note that some Walmart shelves are rafter height, then they exit the freaking store without buying anything once they see a manager walking toward them and their only other route in this triangle was me with a metal-looking tennis racket.

I could have killed a man with no regrets... over tissues.
Hahaha! This is great! "Killed them with no regrets" XD

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Old 10-01-2014, 01:56 AM

Didn't you know your worth is determined solely by whether or not those guys in particular find your appearance acceptable, and failure to comply means they are free to treat you as if you weren't human?

Fucking rotten cranberries.

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Old 10-07-2014, 02:35 PM

xDDD Cherry, what did cranberries ever do to you! Do go getting...fruitist...on us.

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Old 10-07-2014, 02:52 PM

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Didn't you know your worth is determined solely by whether or not those guys in particular find your appearance acceptable, and failure to comply means they are free to treat you as if you weren't human?

Fucking rotten cranberries.
Ugh you're right, Cherry. I guess I should just give up on life and live like a hobo.

 


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