Awww, that doesn't sound like fun - your poor teeth! :(

Mmm, yeah, I can understand not wanting your daughter with your mom.
My parents live farther away than you live from both moms there. My parents live like a half hour, or so, drive away.

My in-laws live about 2 hours away. So we don't see them as much as we do see my parents.

Are you and Imagination dating Chanchan!?

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I like being so close to family, but then I don't. It has its ups and downs. That's for sure.

Originally Posted by p o p p e t ♥

Are you and Imagination dating Chanchan!?

Everyone seems to be asking me that
nowadays.

Yeah, just not labeling it.
Labels just make it complicated.

Yeah, I hear you there. At least my mum has learned that she needs to ring instead of just showing up.
Dad just goes along with whatever mum says, most of the time.
Although the girls love their Gramps - as Becca calls him. :P

Labels make everything in life super complicated. Do you guys get to be lucky enough to live near each other?

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I had to put a damn sign on my door telling 1.) solicitors to bug off and 2.) friends and family to CALL first, before just showing up. That's so damn rude.

Originally Posted by p o p p e t ♥

Labels make everything in life super complicated. Do you guys get to be lucky enough to live near each other?

I actually don't know.
I think he is either an hour ahead or behind me.
Probably ahead. So he must live somewhat near.

But I don't really have time to visit friends or anything.
Especially since I don't even have my license.

I don't usually curse. It's just such a huge pet peeve of mine. I mean, you honestly didn't think I had anything better to do? Or that my kid wasn't sleeping? I mean, I walk around this place in my underwear! The whole drive here, you never thought it common courtesy to let me know you were about to interrupt whatever I was doing? So sososososos rude.

Originally Posted by p o p p e t ♥

I had to put a damn sign on my door telling 1.) solicitors to bug off and 2.) friends and family to CALL first, before just showing up. That's so damn rude.

It is rude to just show up... did the sign help any?
Or do they still do it?

Aww poo, chanchan. Well one day then.

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The sign absolutely helped. Not one ring or knock since!

Originally Posted by p o p p e t ♥

Aww poo, chanchan. Well one day then.

Yeah. I am not one who is really fond of talking about
meeting people in real life. I have social anxiety so I tend to put myself in a panic when
talking about meeting people. And it reminds me of my dreadful past.

I tend to run away from relationships when it comes down to talking about meeting.
Right now, I just want to focus on getting my GED, License and a job and get the hell out of colorado.

Poppet: I totally agree with you there! I have a life that doesn't revolve around them - it's only happened a few times, but it's always at the most inappropriate time - or I had just gotten Becca down for her nap (this was all before I was even pregnant with Soph) - and then she'd get woken up by the bloody doorbell! D: Or it'd just piss me off, or it was right as we were trying to leave the house to go out and actually be productive with our day.... ugh, sometimes... people! D:

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Yay! I'm glad that it helped!

Do people call or let you know ahead of time now? Are they slooooowly learning?

Yeah, meeting people is hard. I hate meeting people. I like making friends, but gah, that first meeting. I'm so awkward, and I say weird things. It just happens. I make horrible first impressions. >.< Why do you want to leave Colorado? That's where my husband wants to live. XD

Originally Posted by p o p p e t ♥

Yeah, meeting people is hard. I hate meeting people. I like making friends, but gah, that first meeting. I'm so awkward, and I say weird things. It just happens. I make horrible first impressions. >.< Why do you want to leave Colorado? That's where my husband wants to live. XD

When I meet people the first thing I want to do
Is run the hell away from them or hide in a closet.
I am not the prettiest person. I pretty much feel like the beast in beauty in the beast.
Not just appearance wise but I just do not feel like I am at where I want to be with my life and such.

So I don't want anyone to see me at all.

The only reason that I had any friends in High School or college is really because of my twin and him dragging me around after him.

And I met my hubby by literally running into him - that's what I get for not paying attention to where I was going. Awkward. But haha, it worked out! :P

Yeah, it's the worst Liv. We actually had someone show up once that we DON'T EVEN LIKE, and he brought some girl we'd never met into our home, too. So f*cking rude. I actually got my daughter dressed and picked up my purse and was like, well, we're on our way out, so bye! We didn't really have anywhere to go, but we still got in the car and left, lol. It's horrible that it has to be that way. AND THE WORST PART: that same person showed up just a couple of weeks ago (a couple years later) and READ the sign and STILL knocked. Makes me want to punch people, and I totally don't that.

They all call first now, lol. Except that dude. Who can't take a hint. If he shows up again, I told my husband, I'm not going to be nice. Why should I? We don't like him, and he certainly isn't being nice to us by showing up after dark and ignoring our requests for privacy. Ridiculous.

I feel the same way about my appearance chanchan, even though I know it's silly. It comes from childhood issues, rather than actual appearance issues I've been told. But I disagree, I think it's both.

Originally Posted by p o p p e t ♥

I feel the same way about my appearance chanchan, even though I know it's silly. It comes from childhood issues, rather than actual appearance issues I've been told. But I disagree, I think it's both.

I was bullied in Junior high because I wasn't beautiful
or even the least bit attractive. And my relatives have always pointed out my flaws
like having acne and such.

I've gotten rid most of it though and my complexion looks so much better
but I just know this is as good as it's ever going to get so I just don't even bother
with my looks. I'll do normal hygiene stuff like fix my hair and such and make sure i look decent before going out but I wont go over the top like curling my hair or putting make up on.

Poppet: Ugh! omg, some people just have the nerve. Did he leave after you got her ready, and headed out the door and left? Geeze, I give you full permission to be not nice to him! He deserves it - some people... just don't get it! And why even bring someone that you don't even know into your house... :/ D: It's not like he's not seen the sign, he has... and he still invades your privacy!
Thankfully we don't have anyone like that in our lives. *knock on wood*

I'm sure that you both are gorgeous women!

Originally Posted by LiviInLove

I'm sure that you both are gorgeous women!

Nope. Not at all for me.

Originally Posted by Fuu-Chan

Nope. Not at all for me.

Sometimes we don't see ourselves truly, but we are all gorgeous in our own way. It makes me sad that you feel that way, dear. :(

Originally Posted by LiviInLove

Sometimes we don't see ourselves truly, but we are all gorgeous in our own way. It makes me sad that you feel that way, dear. :(

I know I'm not and I have already accepted that I most likely wont ever be. I have a somewhat good personality I suppose.
Some people say I do but probably because I don't take anyone's shit.

No! He didn't! I literally had to start turning off lights and ushering them out the door. Then, when I was pulling out of the driveway, they still hadn't even driven off. So random, and so rude. This last time he said he couldn't call because his phone was dead. As if that gives him the right to just show up! Charge your phone, call, and PLAN to come by sometime. Not that we'd want him to anyway. Even my husband doesn't let him come inside now, and just steps outside and closes the door. That in itself should be a hint. Then, my husband doesn't even really try to make small talk or be overly nice. We don't get it.

Originally Posted by Fuu-Chan

I know I'm not and I have already accepted that I most likely wont ever be. I have a somewhat good personality I suppose.
Some people say I do but probably because I don't take anyone's shit.

I really don't know what to say.
I agree that you do have a good personality.

I have times now that I don't feel like I'm good looking - and I still to this day hate my picture taken.
Yet, I'm the one who's been approached by photographer friends because they want me to model for them. *hides from all the cameras* D:

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Woah wtf! D: Bloody hell, that guy is dense!! It's like "We're leaving. You aren't staying here... Leave. Now."

Or find a phone that you can use to call, or just don't come at all!

Originally Posted by LiviInLove

I really don't know what to say.
I agree that you do have a good personality.

I have times now that I don't feel like I'm good looking - and I still to this day hate my picture taken.
Yet, I'm the one who's been approached by photographer friends because they want me to model for them. *hides from all the cameras* D:

I always get my picture taken and I hate it.
Also for thinking that I am not attractive, that is usually my everyday.

I sometimes put up with cameras, but it's rare.

Originally Posted by LiviInLove

I sometimes put up with cameras, but it's rare.

I can't smile at all.
I look like I am going to laugh or cry or both.