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Old 02-03-2015, 01:00 PM

Double gold earning day? Not sure what that means, but I like the sound of it!! The contribution items are so adorable. Especially the sheep!!

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Old 02-03-2015, 07:04 PM

whenever a CI is released, typically for about 24 hours after, whenever you post, you earn double gold, that's what it means. :]

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Old 02-03-2015, 10:10 PM

Oh~ I get it now! Off to post more things on in the forums! :D

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Old 02-03-2015, 10:27 PM

Not sure that it's still going on. I'm not sure when it started.

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Old 02-04-2015, 12:40 AM

Ack! It looks like I've missed a lot
How's everyone doing?

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Old 02-04-2015, 01:05 AM

@ Vin - You're back! Are you feeling a little better now? I've been doing okay, stressed because of endless tests and essays that are due this week. But I think I can handle it. Without having a mental breakdown. I'm already feeling the senioritis kicking in

@ Cloud - I think it's still going on, right? Because I've been getting a lot more gold from my posts than I usually do. At least that's what I've been seeing, unless I'm imagining things

On a totally unrelated tangent, though, I hope they have a Valentine's Day event! It will be so much fun if they do~ I don't have anyone to spend time with on Valentine's Day, anyways. But that means I get to hog all the candy, which I'm totally down for

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Old 02-04-2015, 03:12 AM

Vinny: Eh, kinda feeling iffy, due to stressing out today, but on a plus, my senior project proposal got accepted!

Wanderer: Alright! Yeah, I don't really focus on that, so I'm not sure! haha! :P

Ugh, yeah, and if they have an event... I'm hiding. I absolutely HATE Valentine's Day. :/ And I'm not a fan of events... :/

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Old 02-04-2015, 05:38 PM

@ Aim - Lol thanks for the concern hun, but I wasn't sick. I've been dealing with some issues with some friends lately and well... it's just been kinda crazy lately. We spend about four and a half hours last night helping our friend Grant move out of his (now) ex-girlfriends place. It's kinda a long story, so I'm gonna put it in the hide box thingy.

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So our friend Grant's been having issues with his (at the time) girlfriend. He's tried to talk to her about things but she doesn't want to talk and basically she'd blow him off and tell him there's nothing to talk about when he'd say that they needed to talk. Both of them are in their thirties (I think she is anyways, at the very least she's in her late twenties) and both of them have kids. He only gets his kids on the weekend though since he shared custody with his ex wife.
Moving on the the main deal, Grant and Becca were together a bit over a year and in that time frame Grant would decide that he'd want a dog too (Becca had four) and unfortunately when he would find a puppy and bring it home, one of Becca's dogs would kill it. It was obvious which dog it was considering the difference in their sizes of their jaws (a huge saint bernard, a pitbull, a shepard, and a wiener dog) and with the marks the dog left Grant was able to tell it was her pitbull that did it. That and the fact that the pit would act aggressive to the pup whenever they got near each other. After the first time it happened, Grant tried to talk to her about it but she just told him "You don't know which dog it was, there's no way to tell" and she left it at that. After a some months went by, Grant found another pup, a pit too, and decided to give in one more try. Unfortunately though, Becca's pit killed this one too. Again Grant tried to talk to her about it but she told him the same thing. He tried to talk to her still and told her it was obvious which dog it was this time since her pit had blood on her muzzle. Becca said she's aggressive cause she's an old dog but that's it and he still couldn't prove it was her. Grant tried to tell her they needed to figure out what to do about her though, cause what if she went after one of the kids (since the kids are 6, 3, and almost 2). Sometimes when kids are that little they mess with dogs thinking it's funny, so what if they messed with her pit while they were outside or in a different room? Becca just blew him off though.
In the last couple weeks, they were looking for a dog for Becca's friend and when they found one Grant fell in love with her (a wiener dog) cause she instantly buddied up to him and didn't want to leave his side. He fought himself on keeping her but then finally decided he'd see how the pit would deal with her since she was used to wiener dogs. At first things seemed fine and things were going great. But when he got home from work monday his dog had been attacked and was hurt really bad. He rushed her to the vet and she had to stay over night. Again he tried to talk to Becca about her pit and even though she had blood all over he muzzle Becca kept telling him he couldn't prove which dog it was. Tuesday he asked her to let him know what the vet said when they called. While he was a work he got a text from her that just said "The dog's dead". Poor Grant was devastated at that and called her to ask why she just sent a text and didn't call. She just told him that he asked her to tell him. So after that they got into it and he tried to talk to her about her pit again. Becca in turn told him that he could get his stuff and get out when he got off work. So we spent a good chunk of last night helping him get all his stuff out. The thing I thought was crazy was when she started texting him as we were packing up his stuff. An hour and a half into getting his stuff she asked "Are you done yet?" We all were like, dude he just got off work and started doing this, chill out. And when he told her we were still getting his stuff she started asking him if he was taking any of her stuff and kept blowing up his phone asking what he was taking. At one point she decided she was coming back even if we weren't done getting his stuff. So we took his stuff to Anthony's place (he's moving in with him) and unloaded it while Grant waited for Becca at her place. When we got back she was yelling at him so we just went right back to getting the stuff from the garage. But while she was yelling I over heard her try to tell him that he never tried to talk about their issues with her. That was insane to hear.
It's honestly for the best that they broke up, especially with how she'd yell at the kids, but that fact that Grant had to lose another pup to finally break up with her is just so heart breaking. They had a lot more issues, that was just the main one that was the last straw for him.


Aww I'm sorry hun *hugs* I hope things go good with all your school stuff! You've only got a couple months left now, right?


@ Cloud - I'm sorry you're stressing hun. That's great your proposal got accepted though! Congrats hun!
I can relate to stressing though, if you read my hide box deal above that's what we've been dealing with the last few days. That and I'm not entirely sure, but I think I caught Fish lying to me the other day. =/
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Old 02-04-2015, 06:35 PM

Aimless: I can totally relate to the senioritis... only mine hit a few years ago... and it's SUPER freaking bad this semester... 3 weeks in and I'm doing reading for classes... THE DAY that I need to have them read for, or not reading as I know the teacher doesn't throw pop quizzes. :/ I'm to the point of almost not caring about school anymore. :/
I totally did have a break down, they happen about once a week, if not more, and mom had to actually talk me down, via the phone as I live 8 hours from them. I'm almost to the point where I'm ready to tell them I want them to come and get me, and just quit, I'm so over this - I don't feel welcomed in my own home, none of the people in the dorms (in charge people) take me seriously when I say so... my roommates hate me and treat my friends like crap, yet expect me to treat their friends nicely... -.- And I'm just over my classes. :/

Vinny: Yeah, it was bad - to the point of a headache and my stomach not being happy with me. :( But thanks! Now for the hard part, actually writing the paper, and giving the presentation.

Omg, that's totally crazy. She's in total denial, and I agree with you, it's best that they broke up. She sounds crazy! D: :( Not fun, but that was great of you guys to go and help him move out, despite the stupidity with her!
Ugh, lies, is there any way to ask them directly "Did you lie to me?" Or something to try to figure out what's going on? I hate lies! D:

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Old 02-04-2015, 10:33 PM

Aww I'm sorry hun. I wish ya luck with your writing though! And the presentation too!
I know right? None of us really liked her, I think Grant knew that, but I'm not entirely sure on that. Either way we all would still be nice and polite to her, when she wasn't on her phone or tablet anyways lol. Luckily we didn't have to deal with her for very long. But poor Grant has to go back over there to get his dogs body. He's pretty upset cause he doesn't know what to do with it since he can't bury her. Hopefully he comes over tonight though cause mom gave me the number to two different pet crematoriums in town, so hopefully that can work for him.
Normally I'd say yea, but it's been almost a week since I (possibly) caught her, so if I do ask now it may cause a big fight. The way I see it is she could say yes she did, and that'd lead to a possible fight. Or she could say no and be really hurt that I'd ask, but then I'd be wondering if that's a lie too.

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What happened was she was going to be hired at pet co. I asked her if she wanted to hang out (on the 13th last month) and she said sure, but she'd have to keep her schedule open in case they called her to tell her her paper work went through and they wanted her to start. I was totally fine with that. Well then when the day we agreed to hang out came around she told me she had to cancel cause a grooming appointment got changed. I told her okay and we agreed on a different day, and she told me she'd tell me when she had her schedule so we could figure something out. Now she does do grooming on her own since that's what she's been doing since she was 16, but when she said it like that it sounded like she was starting to work at pet co that day. So last week when she tells me she was signing the paper work of coarse I was confused. So when I asked her what she was signing she just laughed and told me she got hired there. I told her I knew that, but thought she had been working there for the last couple weeks. She told me she hadn't started yet and wasn't starting till this week. So after that I asked her about canceling on me and she tells me it was a friends dog she'd been grooming that day. There's the possibility that that's true, but if that's the cause why would she tell me she'd let me know her schedule when she got it when they hadn't hired her yet. If she didn't want to hang out all she had to do was say so, she's never had a problem with that before, so why would there be a problem now? She's just been acting... off since her and Anthony broke up. I get that she needed space, it's been months since the break up, but she's still acting different. Like we used to talk on a daily basis and tell each other everything. Now we talk about once a week or so and the other day I found out she's been dating this guy for the last month and a half. That shocked me that she never said anything about this guy till I asked her about it. The only reason I asked was cause she made a comment about she and Chris didn't leave her room all weekend. The only Chris she ever told me about was her other friends husband. So of coarse I was like, wait, what? And when she told me it was this new guy she'd been dating, I explained why I reacted the way I did. She just laughed and told me she'd been seeing him for a month and a half, and it just kinda surprised me she didn't say anything about him sooner.

God I feel like I wrote a novel, I'm sorry hun

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Old 02-05-2015, 03:09 AM

@ Vin - Oh I really hope so too. The only saving grace right now is that I have two art classes during the day, so that's something that I'll look forward to Only 2-3 more months!

Whoa, that's crazy! Does she not know how aggressive her pit is? Or is she just trying to think that her pit isn't as vicious as she wants to think? That's scary, and sad that he had to loose three puppies before he finally had to call it quits. And it's good that he moved out; I wouldn't want to know what would happen if one of his kids decided to mess with the pit. They're all fairly young too, poor things I hope he's handling it well; loosing three puppies in such a short span of time must be devastating...

@ Cloud - I don't even want to talk about the kids at school. There are some I can tolerate, but there are others that just really bother me a lot. They don't talk to me often, but when they do it's just really awkward because I don't really know them that well. I've lost all motivation to do anything, and it doesn't help that the majority of my things are due later this month I just want to graduate already, I have more than enough credits to graduate

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Old 02-05-2015, 03:29 AM

I'm glad you can look forward to your art classes hun! =3 And nice! That's so close to being done! I bet your excited huh? lol

I think she was just trying to protect her pit cause he suggested she get it put down. When I saw the pit she seemed like a total love, so I don't know what she had against the puppies. And it's not like the puppies instigated it. The first one I saw would just be sitting near her and she would start growling at it. I'm not sure whats up with her pit, maybe it's cause she'd up there in years? Either way it is super sad that he had to lose all three pups. And omg I couldn't imagine how he'd react if the pit went after one of the kids.
I'm glad he was able to move in with Anthony. I'm sure the kids are going to be kinda confused at first, but they're used to Anthony so at least they're comfortable around him.
I'm not sure how he's doing tonight, but I think he and Anthony are coming over tonight after we eat.

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Old 02-05-2015, 03:55 AM

Vinny: Awww! :( I keep forgetting that it's still snowy for most of y'all! And good riddance to the witch who doesn't want to hear anything about the dog.. :/ And then blames him for not communicating! D: Nope! D: She doesn't have the rights to do that.

Well in the end... honestly is it worth a fight? But at the same time, is it worth her feeling like she can get away with lying to you? Who really knows what's going on. But one thing I can say - everyone has their own grieving period. Just because you feel like she should be over it, she may not be because it's just a slower process for her. Who knows really though.

Wanderer: If you have enough units to graduate, then why don't you just graduate early? I've lost motivation to do everything - I've been in college now... for EIGHT years.. I'm over it. So freaking over it. :/ I know how it feels to be over school.

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Old 02-05-2015, 04:30 AM

Snowy? We haven't even had an inch of snow this year actually.
No kidding! I couldn't believe a lot of the stuff he told us about. I can't believe she told him the pup passed through a freakin text! That's so disrespectful and hurtful.

Honestly I don't think it's worth fighting about. It's the first time she's done that, but if she does it again I think I'm gonna say something. I don't mean to sound like she shouldn't still be grieving, I get it if she still is. They were together for six years. It's just that with her acting like this I just worry it's more or less her other friend influencing her. That friend is more of a party girl, or at least that's how she came off the few times I've seen her. Back when Fish first decided she wanted to break up with Anthony, that friend of hers told her she should wait till Anthony got all their bills paid then break up with him. That would have been waiting three weeks or so to tell him she wanted to break up. Personally I thought that was incredibly f***ed up to do that, and I told Fish that wasn't fair to him, especially when he'd have to start looking for his own place and figure out where to store all his stuff. Luckily she didn't wait till he paid for everything to talk to him, and since she didn't do that he offered to pay the last of the bills for her. But it was after that that a bunch of drama happened.
I just worry about Fish, maybe I'm just too concerned, but I just worry she'll get herself into trouble and not be able to get herself out of it.

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Old 02-05-2015, 04:34 AM

Oh, why can't he bury her?
That really is stupidly disrespectful. D: :(
not a way to tell someone that their dog passed... -.- :/

But see, you can't put a time limit on grief, everyone deals with it on the same way. But mmm good point. Maybe say something about how you're worried. That is a good point.

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Old 02-05-2015, 05:01 AM

Because he doesn't have a place too. He can't bury her at Becca's, he can't bury her here at our place, and he can't bury her at Anthony's cause there's a chance that Nicole's (his new girlfriend) dog would dig her up. But I found a place in town that's a pet crematorium, so that's another option for him.
No kidding! I couldn't believe that.

I know, and I'm not saying she is or isn't, cause she hasn't said anything to me about it aside from finding out she's dating again. Which is a good thing if it's gonna help her get passed it and move on.
I think I may if I get a chance to. I don't just wanna text her or call her out of the blue just to say I worry about her. Aside from the fact that I'd feel kinda embarrassed about that I think it might freak her out a bit.

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Old 02-05-2015, 05:18 AM

Ohhhh! :( Darn! And he has a new girlfriend already? That's good, hopefully he'll find something that works for him.

That does give you some time to figure out how to word it if you do wait a bit.

And ugh, I just broke my perfect record for not forgetting my keys - on a plus, one of the people who knows me who also lives in the building let me into the building and into the stairs to the floors where residents live, and my roommates were home so one of them let me in. I've let them in enough times because of forgotten keys, that it was fair that they had to do it... at least once. :P

On a plus, it's handy knowing sign and not needing an open window to communicate. Haha! I signed through a window to one of the people in the lobby. :P

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Old 02-05-2015, 05:50 AM

No no no, Grant's the one that just broke up with his girl friend. Anthony is the one that Fish broke up with back last fall and he's the one dating Nicole.
Yea that's true too.

That's a bummer you forgot your keys but it's great you had the luck to run into someone from your building and your roommates were home! I'm glad you got back into your place =3
Lmao oh that's awesome you could do that!

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Old 02-05-2015, 05:53 AM

Ohhhh! haha, too many names! And I'm tired and easily confused. XP

Yeah, I stood there trying to get someone's attention - five people were down in the lobby and I signed "I forgot my keys, can you please help me get in?" Thankfully friendly people live here. :P
Yeah, oh well - once in a year doesn't bother me, now to not forget them again. And I'll be happy.
I'm just glad my roommates let me in.

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Old 02-05-2015, 06:04 AM

Lol yea, there's a lot of friends and we're all in the same circle lol.

Lol that's great you were able to get someones attention and the people were so nice!
No kidding! Lol forgetting keys sucks. I think the last time I did that was when I was working at McDonalds and I missed my bus that would have got me to work early, so I went back home just to realize I left my keys inside. It wouldn't have been so bad if it weren't for the fact that I had a hang over lol. That's great you had someone there to let you in!

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Old 02-05-2015, 06:27 AM

hello everyone

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Old 02-05-2015, 07:24 AM

Hey Maha! How are you?

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Old 02-05-2015, 07:27 AM

Vinny: Yeah - we do what we can to create community, even if my roommates sometimes seem to act as if I'm not allowed to have friends come over. xDD I'm shocked they let me in today. Which is why I'm glad I didn't have to text them to ask them to come all the way down to let me into the building and into the stairwell. xDD

Maha, hello there! :D

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Old 02-05-2015, 04:50 PM

That's great hun! About the community deal I mean. Sorry your room mates are still giving you problems.
No kidding lol, that's great they let you in.

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Old 02-05-2015, 05:04 PM

My roommates really just ignore me and have started using air fresheners in the common areas despite me having told them that air fresheners give me headaches and make my asthma act up. So basically I hide out in my room. :/

It helps too that people know I'm not just some random person who is trying to get in. :P

 


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