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#5576
Old 06-09-2018, 07:30 AM

Well...My life went to Hell tonite.
I had a manic moment in front of Hope the other night and she told her dad about it tonight and he just got irate!
Hope isn't allowed to sleep in her own bed with me because she saw me scratch myself with my nails and I said that I was sad because I wanted to die... and even if we haven't found a place to live we have to be out of this house by the 15th.
If we can't find a place by then, I am going to have Sarah's older sister apply for guardianship of Sarah and have Sarah placed (hopefully temporarily) in a host home until the BF and I can find a place to live.
I don't feel like I have much to live for anymore.
I wish I could take back my stupid mistake...but I can't. ..so my life is hell now.
Sorry for being a big downer, here! ...I just needed to tell somebody...My RL people don't seem to care much. *sigh*

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Old 06-09-2018, 09:16 PM

Oh Inzane sweetheart, *sends virtual hugs* you're in such a hard possition to be in at the moment, it's no wonder you're feeling down at the moment. It's not like you can just find somewhere in an instant you have Sarah to think of, it sounds like he's being a bit of a dick about this whole situation.

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#5578
Old 06-09-2018, 09:49 PM

*hugs Inzane* :(
I'm sorry you're feeling this way.
I wish there was more I could do to help. I'm here for you any time, if you want to vent.

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#5579
Old 06-10-2018, 12:03 AM

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Well...My life went to Hell tonite.
I had a manic moment in front of Hope the other night and she told her dad about it tonight and he just got irate!
Hope isn't allowed to sleep in her own bed with me because she saw me scratch myself with my nails and I said that I was sad because I wanted to die... and even if we haven't found a place to live we have to be out of this house by the 15th.
If we can't find a place by then, I am going to have Sarah's older sister apply for guardianship of Sarah and have Sarah placed (hopefully temporarily) in a host home until the BF and I can find a place to live.
I don't feel like I have much to live for anymore.
I wish I could take back my stupid mistake...but I can't. ..so my life is hell now.
Sorry for being a big downer, here! ...I just needed to tell somebody...My RL people don't seem to care much. *sigh*
Holy cold blooded. After seeinf u melt down they're throwing u out? I am so sorry. I think it might b time to let your daughter take sara. U just cant do it anymore..❤❤❤

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Old 06-10-2018, 03:50 AM

My daughter can't take Sarah...she would just be her guardian and Sarah would be placed in a "Host Home" until such time that we would have a place for her to live...then her sister would apply to get her out so she could live with me.
I can't even hear the thought of leaving Sarah with strangers...it is breaking my heart and what's left of my spirit.

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#5581
Old 06-10-2018, 06:16 PM

Oh Inzanebraned, I am so very sorry. I can only imagine how hard this is for you. I know you don't probably feel it, but you are an amazingly strong and wonderful person. I wish there was more that I could do for you. All I can offer is a listening ear, hugs and a virtual shoulder to cry on.

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#5582
Old 06-10-2018, 07:21 PM

Aw, I wanted to tell Inzanebraned that the term "potty parts" caught on with me. I hope that'll make her smile for a second.

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Old 06-10-2018, 09:25 PM

Yes, Amane, It did make me smile.
Hope's other grandma uses the term Girl Parts, which is cute, too.
The BF had a babysitter that taught him to call his parts his Dolly! O.O

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Old 06-10-2018, 11:02 PM

I like "potty parts" as a cute, gender-neutral name.

*shrieks* That's no dolly of mine!

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#5585
Old 06-11-2018, 12:46 AM

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Yes, Amane, It did make me smile.
Hope's other grandma uses the term Girl Parts, which is cute, too.
The BF had a babysitter that taught him to call his parts his Dolly! O.O
I just use the term "downstairs" or "down there" to refer to the junk >>;

Also PFFFFFFT! Dolly...that's probably one of the funniest names I've heard for...that . Also kind of accurate considering.....

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#5586
Old 06-11-2018, 01:21 PM

THE END OF THAT POST SCARES ME!

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#5587
Old 06-11-2018, 07:10 PM

HIM's auntie helps catch cats for neutring and for the Tom cats it's a case of they have their pompoms off.

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#5588
Old 06-11-2018, 08:58 PM

"Un-boying" is the term I hear for doing that to animals.

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Old 06-12-2018, 10:50 PM

I think you can "un-girl" a cat too. :o
I know that rabbits need to be spayed...

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#5590
Old 06-13-2018, 04:00 AM

You can un-girl a cat too for sure and is a wise thing to do just for your sanity. There is nothing more annoying in this world then a female cat in heat. They walk your house at all hours, especially night, yowling constantly to try and attract a male.

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#5591
Old 06-13-2018, 04:26 AM

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"Un-boying" is the term I hear for doing that to animals.
That's actually called castration...but that term just seems so harsh!
The term Sterilization works for either gender of animal...and humans, too.
And, yes, it is very unnerving when the house is quiet and suddenly the female cat starts screeching like somebody hanged her by her tail...and ours would grab ahold of a piece of furniture and scratch her hind legs on the carpet with her tail in the air!
It scared the heck out of everybody the first time she did it!

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#5592
Old 06-13-2018, 06:41 PM

I think they used to castrate young boys... like, a long time ago to make them sopranos forever! O.O

I can't remember what they were called...? Eunuch?!
I feel bad for them. Usually they were castrated against their wills. It messed them up hormonally too.

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Old 06-13-2018, 08:54 PM

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I think they used to castrate young boys... like, a long time ago to make them sopranos forever! O.O

I can't remember what they were called...? Eunuch?!
I feel bad for them. Usually they were castrated against their wills. It messed them up hormonally too.

Ava is thinking o the castrati or castrato for singular.

Nice hot bath in a room full of people then off with your nuts. It was a big deal as only the best singers were chosen for it.

Eunuch was generally someone to guard priesteses/temptle maidens/female royals as they couldn't get them pregnant.

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#5594
Old 06-16-2018, 03:37 AM

Far as I know, no place castrates young boys to keep them singing soprano into adulthood...mostly because most choirs now allow women to sing in them. Key words here being "far as I know" >_>/.

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#5595
Old 06-16-2018, 10:10 AM

Friday was a hectic and busy day for me...
We found an apartment that aporoved us at the very last minute and we signed the lease on Friday...the last night that we are allowed to sleep at my daughter's house...
I had to leave in the afternoon to pick up the BF who was driving a U Haul truck to get stuff out of the storage unit that was in the mountains, about 40 minutes away...bring him down to sign the lease on the apartment, then drive back to the storage unit to pack the truck.
Then I followed him down from the mountains to the apartment and unloaded the truck.
We just stacked stuff where we could to try to hurry so we wouldn't disturb my daughter and Hope's dad when we brought Sarah back to sleep in Hope's room for the last time.
Hope went to spend the night at her other grandma's so she isn't here for my last night in her room...that makes me sad!
But, anyway, we didn't get done unloading the truck until 2:20 am, and by the time we dropped the truck off at U Haul and got to my daughter's house, it was about 3am...so I guess it was best that Hope wasn't at home to have me wake her up as I put Sarah to bed.
While BF was unloading the truck, I fed Sarah cold soup that I bought at the store because I had no idea where any pans were...the BF and I ate sandwiches.
Sarah ate well...she must have been hungry!
Before we got to the apartment, I discovered that Sarah had soaked her diaper and pants and the car seat...and I had no change of pants for her...but I had a fleece jacket...so I changed her diaper and put her legs into the arms of the jacket to keep her legs warm.
The stuff that has been in storage for nearly 2 years stinks! We found mouse poop on the floor when we moved stuff into the apartment, but couldn't tell which furniture or item it came from.
We also have a couch that was being used by the guy that is renting the trailer we used to live in...and it smells like the stinky trailer and the guy's dog!
I don't have a vacuum anymore but that couch needs to be vacuumed badly and soaked in Fabreeze!
Sorry this post is so long...I just needed to wind down from my day, and with Hope not sleeping next to me I will have a hard time falling asleep.
I'm sure that some folks might not might reading about my busy, hectic, difficult day...I hope I didn't bore anybody!
Tomorrow (Saturday) the BF works all day so my daughter will give Sarah and me...and Sarah's wheelchair...and what's left of my personal affects at her house...a ride to the apartment...She said she would try to help me set up Sarah's bed and put some stuff away.
And if she picks Hope up early enough, she will stop back by so Hope can see my new place...
It that doesn't work out, she promised Hope she would bring her over on Monday.
(Even I don't want to mess up any Fathers Day plans they may have...so if not Saturday, then Monday.)
Okay...this post has gotten terribly long and I fear I may be rambling.
I hope everybody is having a good weekend!

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#5596
Old 06-16-2018, 09:12 PM

Oh Inzane that's brilliant news ! Not about Sarah wetting her bottoms and car seat, but getting an apparentment.

Hopefully it's just historic mouse problems and not recent.

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#5597
Old 06-18-2018, 06:48 AM

Indeed on the mouse poo thing. Yay on the apartment though! Woo hoo, Inzane!

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Old 06-18-2018, 09:18 AM

Well, the BF did find a dead mouse on the floor of the U Haul truck, so it must have fallen out of something that we carried into the apartment...and I haven't seen any mice scurrying around on the floor...so I suspect it must be historic mouse poop that fell out of something we brought in.
Now I am a little concerned about the tiny sugar ants that I have found on the kitchen floor... I plan to put down ant traps and if they continue to emerge from under the stove, I will notify management.

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#5599
Old 06-18-2018, 01:14 PM

Don't be fooled by their size they're after your food and can opener to get into any tinned food... Probably the bottle opener as well.

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Old 06-19-2018, 05:24 AM

I am glad to hear about the apartment Inzane. That is good news for sure.

 



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