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06-14-2015, 09:13 PM
That's not your horoscope??!
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06-14-2015, 09:53 PM
Hey! What a cool thread!! I've been trying to eat more natural organic foods lately - although I hate how expensive they are. Worth it though, when we have the money. :] The hubs complains at times, but I tell him to shut it (>.> I'm a good wifey I swear) and just be happy that I'm not too insanely into it, and don't completely control everything. I just wanna eat more naturally and I want to be more aware of what I'm putting into my body, especially since I'm eating for two and she gets what I eat.
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06-14-2015, 10:14 PM
Horoscope is another name for it. Really, horoscope refers to predictions about your future based on your personal astrology.
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06-15-2015, 06:35 AM
lol, and she called me a font of knowledge
I've tried and tried to eat super healthily, but the expense gets to me too. there are cheaper shops to buy from, but if you pay peanuts, you get monkeys. the poor quality of low cost healthy foods sometimes negates the benefits to one's health. for instance, we have some low cost stores which import goods from Eastern Europe. but because of the poorer quality standards they have in those countries, you just can't trust the products to be what they say they are (once you decipher the label, that is). this is why, today, I shall mainly be eating fresh fruit, and drinking vegetable smoothies from the new 'well being' store that's opened up on the high street
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06-15-2015, 03:06 PM
I'm a few hundred lines away from your standard, Mr. Fount of Knowledge.
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06-15-2015, 07:46 PM
I'm not into horoscopes. I find it hard to believe that anything in the universe could have anything to do with me. I believe I make my own way by my own decisions. But hey, to each his own, right?
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06-15-2015, 07:49 PM
Astrology was just okay until I found out how complex it is.
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Ava The Vampire
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06-15-2015, 09:01 PM
I like the idea of fate and karma.
I believe in reincarnation, but... I don't know if I could ever get into astrology or horoscope stuff. 
It just doesn't make sense to me, and complex things are only fun if it's philosophy or psychology. Even complex art, music and drama is nice. But not actual study of things...
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06-15-2015, 09:16 PM
Heh, astrology's got fate and karma in it. I'm not big on philosophy because I don't like having opinions. Psychology goes right with astrology.
I love that there's a reason for everything about a person. I love order. I love neat and nice definitions. I love when I can do or say that one THING and everyone will know exactly what I mean. (Yet I don't like ROUTINE‼ Omg! *strangles self*) I use it to learn about my OCs. I've been making astrology charts for them like putting together a puzzle. Interpretations are hard, but I'm trying.
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06-15-2015, 09:26 PM
It's funny how even the littlest quirks about a person can be explained by something.
No one is special anymore! :P
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06-15-2015, 09:28 PM
SepiaEyes: I agree with you on that train of thinking. Nothing against those who like it though. :]
Ava: I do believe in Karma too, and it's going to come at my parent's hard... *sighs* :( As much as I hate it, I know it will.
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06-15-2015, 09:31 PM
Of course we are! Do you know how many possible charts there are? Trillions. Trillions. Perhaps even more than trillions. Amazing.
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06-15-2015, 09:33 PM
What does a chart tell you?? :o
Does it tell you why I like the color orange so much?!!? :O
Moonlit; Yeah, karma is no joke. :(
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06-15-2015, 09:35 PM
It really isn't. And I know when it catches up to my parents, it won't be pretty. :/ (let's just say that my parents have not been accepting of my marriage, and have been treating me horrible since they found out I'm bisexual... Not pretty. :( And they wonder why I never told them - they accidentally found out, not really sure how.. they won't tell me. :/ All I know is they now hate me.) But anyways, yeah. :( At least my brother and his wife accept me for who I am, as does my husband. :)
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06-15-2015, 09:47 PM
Astrology isn't about just that one sign you know because of your birth date. You have a whole line of celestial bodies making you who you are. A chart shows you the placement of all of those bodies at the time of your birth. Hence its name "birth chart" (or natal chart). Really helpful visual when you get into complex things.
I've been wondering about what influences favorite colors. I really have. Wherever it is, I have something really strong making me like blue.
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06-15-2015, 09:58 PM
I'm glad your brother and his wife accept you as you are, Moonlit. :)
But it really sucks that your own parents didn't. :(
I hate it when parents do things like that! It makes me so sad.  Parents are supposed to be the ones who are supposed to love and accept you no matter what you did. They don't have to agree with it, but they do have to accept you.
I always hope that karma comes back to bite people in the ass who treated me poorly.
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06-15-2015, 10:03 PM
Yeah, at least my entire family doesn't treat me like crap.
It really upsets me that my parents acted the way that they did. :/
Especially since one of their main points is that my husband will leave me when he finds out.
Because I'm going to go off and cheat on him..
Ok... first off Daniel knows and has accepted me. He was one of the first people I told - even before I told my brother. He knew it going into our relationship that yes I'm bisexual and if he can't accept that part of me, as I'm sick of hiding it - then we won't work out - clearly we did work out as we're married, and expecting a kid in about 3 1/2 months. :)
Secondly... I would NEVER cheat!! -.- EVER. It's not who I am.
Yes, I'm bisexual, but that doesn't mean that I'll cheat. Sorry, but no. -.-
It pisses me off that they think that.  :(
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06-15-2015, 10:04 PM
I'm finding more and more of the most beautiful roundabout ways of saying I'm an aromantic asexual.
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SepiaEyes
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06-16-2015, 02:25 PM
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I'm finding more and more of the most beautiful roundabout ways of saying I'm an aromantic asexual.
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I'm an aromantic asexual too. The only person who seems to accept and understand that is my on and off boyfriend. My whole family thinks that I'm just like every other girl my age: I want sex every day and if I'm alone with a guy, we will totally have lots of sex. I'm not like that at all. It's funny too. They trust that the deacons' daughters are good girls (they have been sexually active through high school and onward, but their parents and other parents are completely oblivious), but think I'm just chomping at the bit to go have sexual relations with some tattooed and pierced guy. I do love a tattooed and pierced guy, but beyond my attraction to their good looks and personality, there is nothing. I just want a purely intellectual and emotional attachment to someone...
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06-16-2015, 02:30 PM
My family can't understand that not everyone wants to have kids someday. I want to live by myself for myself. I'm enough for me to take care of. Romantic and sexual attraction are so silly to me.
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06-16-2015, 02:54 PM
I consider myself asexual as well, but probably homoromantic asexual.
Probably.
It's difficult because my sexuality is so fluid, you know? I don't have sexual attraction to people, I prefer to just cuddle and snuggle and kiss maybe, but that's about it. However, I'm a really desperately needy person. So if I'm with someone and they want sex from me, even if I don't want sex, I give it to them because I am always so scared they'll leave me. But, I'm working on not doing that so much because it's definitely not healthy.
I want children, though, I just don't want relationships purely for sex. Not even mostly based around sex.
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06-16-2015, 03:07 PM
Mine couldn't get more solid. The amount of "no thanks" I feel.
What's that, momma? MCDERPLES? I have no idea what's going on, but… *screams*
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06-16-2015, 03:25 PM
I wish I could get to the point where my sexuality is just solid.
I hate being so flip floppity.
<< McDonalds. D:
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06-16-2015, 03:40 PM
A lot of people are unstable and can't fit into labels, and that makes me like, huh! I fit like I was made for it.
McDerples.

Sadly, though. I don't think she's leaving today and bringing home the McDerples.
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06-16-2015, 03:50 PM
I love sex, don't get me wrong, but it isn't all that I go into a relationship seeking. I want to be treated like an equal. I love to have intellectual conversations and to just be cherished and loved. Cuddles are completely amazing. I do want a relationship that isn't based solely on having sex (it is in there though just not the main driving force).
Although lately I do think about having sex a lot...  I blame my pregnancy for that one. Heh. :P But I don't want it with anyone but my husband. I'm a one person kind of gal.
Ava: If you are with someone who wants sex and you don't want to give sex - you shouldn't have to give sex, and if they leave you, they aren't worthy of being with you.  It really isn't healthy. You deserve someone who understands why you are the way you are and doesn't expect you to give something you aren't comfortable giving. If you aren't comfortable of giving something and you let them take it without you being willing to give that up, that's rape.  It may not seem like it, but it is. Because they're taking something that you aren't willing to give even if you are in a relationship with them.
I feel like sexuality is always fluid, people just wish it not to be so they act like it isn't. Everyone is fluid in their sexuality - some people just pin it down to try to make it stick, I know I tried that. It made me miserable trying to act straight when I wasn't. Yes, I have been with girls - but I never fully let myself call myself bisexual until the last few years. When I finally let myself pull out that metaphorical pin, and just let myself be free to be who I was, it definitely seemed to make me feel lighter. I do hate that some of my family can't accept me for who I am - I haven't changed. I'm still the same Luna that I was before I let myself stop trying to conform, but apparently that isn't enough for them. I need to be straight, end of story. :( *sighs* But I'm happier now that I am not making myself just be myself. I know how hard it can be, but sometimes just letting that whole part of you be as fluid as it needs to be - you'll figure it out eventually hon. From what I've learned, you can't push it to try to be something you want it to be - as it just keeps moving. Sometimes the labels of society just don't fit onto some people, and that is TOTALLY ok. You are your own unique person - that is all that matters. <3 And this just got way longer than I meant it to. Oops!  Fingers ran away on me, sorry if it's rambley.
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