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ScamTheMan
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12-07-2015, 11:15 AM
Inzanebraned:
Hey how are you doing ? i woke up not long ago, ive had a pretty decent weekend could of went better, had a fight with my cousin's best friend but i settled things down.. Just a little misunderstanding as all..
Thank you for your positive wishing to everyone ! :) We all send them back to you and hope you have a great begining of week ! I'm a little stressed because i haven't had enough time to be fully prepared for my exam today, i'm kinda rushing things right now, taking notes and such. I have a little problem, but i'm sure things aren't gonna go as bad as i think.
Anyways what's going on with you ? ;/
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Inzanebraned
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12-07-2015, 12:50 PM
Well...my whole world went upside down in an instant, yesterday!
Hope had spent the night before her birthday with her parents...so we drove to their house to celebrate her 3rd birthday....and when I asked if we would be bringing her home, I was suddenly told that Hope would be staying with them....and " maybe she can stay with me on the weekends!"
No warning....no discussion...
Yet, Hope's other grandma knew all about it!!
I feel betrayed and taken for granted and like they took no acknowledgement of my feelings by leaving me out of the loop!
I'm rather devastated right now!
I can't sleep cuz I usually sleep with Hope....and every place my eyes fall, there are toys that will, now, go neglected...and all I want to do is cry!
I'm trying to convince myself that I'm just being a baby, crying cuz things aren't going how I want them to...
But...I had that kid with me for 90% of her 3 years....and to suddenly turn the tables on me...out of the blue...seems....cruel and thoughtless!
To think of how many times I have told them that Hope gave me reasons to want to continue waking up each day....that she removed my constant desire to....not wake up anymore....
Then, for them to do me like this!!
I'm mad...and hurt...and my house is too quiet...and I can't sleep...and once I DO sleep, I fear it will be a marathon nap, just so I don't have to be sad when I'm awake.
So...that's what's going on with me...
My proverbial glass half full of sewer sludge...
I say this because my glass is half full...cuz something worse, like them moving to another state could have happened, instead of them living 40 minutes down the mountain canyon highway...
And sewer sludge cuz my glass is never full of nice times and good luck!
I'm used to it at this point in the game....I usually just try to laugh it off...
This one hits hard...considering it's my youngest daughter who did it to me! ....the daughter who used to never miss a day of calling me or texting me every day when she wouldn't see me in person...
Recently, she only texted me to tell me she was on her way to pick up Hope...or to send me a picture of Hope while she was with them...and she NEVER makes phone calls if she can avoid it!
Now, she won't have reason to text me at all, I suspect,...unless I text first ....and I usually don't...
Poor Hope cried and cried, asking me to stay, when I had to leave to come home....
I friggin' Hope her parents feel real good about themselves!
Had they discussed it with me prior to this day, I could have talked to Hope about it and we both could have been somewhat prepared for this transition!
Sorry, folks!
I'm having a bit of a vent-fest, here!
*must purge negative thoughts*
So...everybody have a Monday, n stuff!
I know I will! ....possibly more Monday than I deserve! Lol!
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llonka
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12-07-2015, 03:51 PM
Oh no!!! How horrible for both of you. I know we haven't chatted very often, but I know how fond you are of Hope. Poor girl! I wonder why they decided to keep her like that out of the blue? I understand how devastated you must be though, she is probably like you daughter instead of grand-daughter. I hope things work out for the best.
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Menelaus
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12-07-2015, 04:57 PM
I'm so sorry to hear that. it's definitely one of the most selfish things I've heard this year. to just uproot her after so long a time of barely having any time for her, and making her leave what can only be called her home without a moment's notice. there was no thought in that act of either your or Hope's feelings, it seems just a case of 'this is what fits us right now.' you should rant, and if you feel to cry there's nothing wrong with that either. the good thing that's come out of it, even though its likely happening for the wrong reasons, it that she'll still be coming up to you on weekends. its would be a terrible shame if regular contact was broken completely. for the both of you, and for Sarah too
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12-07-2015, 05:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Inzanebraned
Ava...so, what is " normal" and how are you deviating from it?
Have you been getting your daily dose of sunshine?
When the weather gets cold, we tend to stay indoors more...making us miss out on the benefits of sunshine...sometimes resulting in mood changes and depression.
Try to get 15 minutes of daytime on your face every day.
What kind of weird things have you been doing?
Did somebody find your period-blood paintings??? ....really! Just kidding!
But, seriously! I am interested...and I hope its just a quickly passing phase and ya feel right as rain real soon!
How right does rain feel, anyway? ...I imagine it's all in one's perspective! Lol!
Hey...everybody!
I had a trying weekend....
Hope is staying semi-permanently with her parents, now...
...a decision that was suddenly sprung on me at Hope's 3rd birthday party, with no prior notice or warning!
I'm feeling pretty empty right now....and the house is too quiet.
*sigh*
I hope everybody had a nice weekend and that the week kicks off in fine fashion for you all!
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Originally Posted by ScamTheMan
the Cheshire Pisces:
But does it play with your everyday life ? I hope it doesn't, like are there things you love to do but can't do them anymore ?
Was it geneticly passed on ?
Menelaus:
Oh okay that's why then, i didn't really want to mention it, but I'm in a adult programm at the moment, i still go to school everyday but it's a programm for people who dropped out of highschool, that's the payback for my mistakes ..
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Yes, Im very limited on physical activities.
I do my best and push against the limits of the disease.
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ScamTheMan
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12-07-2015, 09:26 PM
Aww chucks, by the way, does it bother you that i ping you or no ? Let me know. I have another uncle who is HIV POSITIVE and he's been living hell since he's been diagnosed with it. All those meds, pain and sufering .. i feel so bad.. ive only seen him a period of time of a month in my whole life.. My family hasn't accepted him . It's really heart crushing story.. I can tell you more about it if you'd like..
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12-07-2015, 10:19 PM
CAN'T FIND MY ANIME. *throws a lamp*
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Inzanebraned
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12-07-2015, 11:41 PM
Well...i texted Turtles and shared how I felt...with emphasis on the fact that my displeasure had not stemmed from the fact that Hope wouldn't be returning with me, but the fact that I was the last to be informed of the plan! ...especially since the other grandma knew about it!
As it is, Hope's mom feels that Hope should still spend most of her time with me...and that they really just want to take advantage of the time they have available, since Turtles is unemployed right now...
AGAIN, if only they would have talked to me about it, and not just "SPRUNG" it on me the way they did, I wouldn't have had much to be upset about!....I'd be sadly missing my Hope,...but I would have KNOWN that I was going to be missing her!
I, also, could have brought some of her more favorite toys...things that make me sad to see being neglected! Lol!
Things could have been so much nicer if they would have just thought of somebody else's feelings than their own!
I find it sad, because, before she met Hope's dad, Turtles was my mini-me...my shadow...my second skin...
She used to contact me each and every day that she couldn't see me...
Now, she can't even let me know about stuff that affects me!
So...anyways....
My feelings got hurt...i threw a silent tantrum...I expressed my feelings to Hope's mom...I think we are on the same page, now....
In any case, I feel better....
Hey...I'm sorry I wall-of-texted your thread with my pity party, Ava!
I just really needed to rant a bit...and the good folks that frequent your thread are usually pretty supportive....uh....well....MOST of them, anyway! Lol!
I receive little to no emotional support outside of Menewsha....
THANKS, you guys, for letting me cry on your virtual shoulder for a minute!
So....how is everybody?
I hope the day was good for you all!
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kelseydee
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12-08-2015, 02:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Inzanebraned
Well...i texted Turtles and shared how I felt...with emphasis on the fact that my displeasure had not stemmed from the fact that Hope wouldn't be returning with me, but the fact that I was the last to be informed of the plan! ...especially since the other grandma knew about it!
As it is, Hope's mom feels that Hope should still spend most of her time with me...and that they really just want to take advantage of the time they have available, since Turtles is unemployed right now...
AGAIN, if only they would have talked to me about it, and not just "SPRUNG" it on me the way they did, I wouldn't have had much to be upset about!....I'd be sadly missing my Hope,...but I would have KNOWN that I was going to be missing her!
I, also, could have brought some of her more favorite toys...things that make me sad to see being neglected! Lol!
Things could have been so much nicer if they would have just thought of somebody else's feelings than their own!
I find it sad, because, before she met Hope's dad, Turtles was my mini-me...my shadow...my second skin...
She used to contact me each and every day that she couldn't see me...
Now, she can't even let me know about stuff that affects me!
So...anyways....
My feelings got hurt...i threw a silent tantrum...I expressed my feelings to Hope's mom...I think we are on the same page, now....
In any case, I feel better....
Hey...I'm sorry I wall-of-texted your thread with my pity party, Ava!
I just really needed to rant a bit...and the good folks that frequent your thread are usually pretty supportive....uh....well....MOST of them, anyway! Lol!
I receive little to no emotional support outside of Menewsha....
THANKS, you guys, for letting me cry on your virtual shoulder for a minute!
So....how is everybody?
I hope the day was good for you all!
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12-08-2015, 03:04 PM
SHE'S A CAT IN THE MOUNTAINS!
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Menelaus
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12-09-2015, 07:27 AM
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SHE'S A CAT IN THE MOUNTAINS!
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lol, the randomness of that post reminds me of an RP charry I once made. he was a transdimentional anthropomorphic samurai rabbit who could only speak in haikus. as fun as he was to write, it became increasingly difficult to come up with haikus that people could understand. only so many ways you can fit rice wine, sukura berries and Mt Fuji into a meaningful phrase
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Originally Posted by Inzanebraned
Well...i texted Turtles and shared how felt... So...anyways....
My feelings got hurt...i threw a silent tantrum...I expressed my feelings to Hope's mom...I think we are on the same page, now....
In any case, I feel better....
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so glad you got some form of resolution out of this, I can only imagine how the whole situation must've been playing on your mind. its hard when we get dumped on, ever harder when the dumper is a loved one. its lucky that you're so understanding of her situation (I.e; the monster in-law's influence on the hubby) or things could've gone a whole lot worse
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12-09-2015, 02:36 PM
Inzanebraned is the cat in the mountains!
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ScamTheMan
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12-09-2015, 03:11 PM
Hello everyone , how's everything doing ?
Haven't been that active in the past two days so what's going on ? :)
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kelseydee
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12-09-2015, 03:41 PM
Inzanedbrane is now the cat woman.
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Inzanebraned
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12-09-2015, 08:04 PM
Yes...I be the cat in the mountains...
There was a day when I aspired to have so many cats that you wouldn't be able to walk through my house...I wanted to make little cat-walks and bridges for them to explore....and THEN I could have been the Cat Woman!
....but, alas, that dream never came true....
So, I'm just the Cat in the Mountains.....I'm fine with that! Lol!
Hope came home yesterday!
My house feels "normal" again!
Ya know....I have spent the past 3 years forcing myself to understand and like Hope's paternal grandma....
She was a single parent of 1 child....she made some mistakes and poor choices in life...
I had thought we may have hit it off....we both had babies when we were young....thought we could be supportive of each other....
But....I just can't LIKE that woman!
She is plastic and fake...she is sneaky...and she is a hypocrite!
She's one of those folks that greet you with a huge smile and enthusiasm....but you can almost read their mind saying "God, I HATE this person!"
Fake fake fake!
The BF has a brother-in-law that is the same way....I can't stand him at all!
I will be friendly and "nice" to Paternal Grandma....for Hope's sake...unless I am given good reason to purge myself of all my pent up feelings toward her in her presence...
I'd rather avoid that.
So...if I do attend her Christmas gathering, I must abstain from alcohol....for nothing loosens the tongue like a little booze! Lol!
Her house is so big, it should be easy enough to avoid much face time with her.
So....where the heck is Ava?
I haven't been on much, but the last I heard, she was feeling weird and being accused of behaving weird....
I hope all is well!
I think about and worry about ya when ya go missing! .....all of ya!!
I hope the week is treating you all well, so far!  !
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kelseydee
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12-09-2015, 08:12 PM
I've been having a hard time w my copd. I used to dance for the sheer joy of it, but largely it hits my lungs and they give me chest pain.
Still I keep trying. 1&2 a 1234 tap tap tapir tap, tap.
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Inzanebraned
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12-09-2015, 10:26 PM
I hope you get to feeling better, Capt!
Do you use a humidifier at your house?....maybe one that filters the air?
I find that having a humidifier running most of the time makes me feel better.
I dance around a lot....from room to room....while doing the dishes....
we have the radio on almost all the time.
As a result, Hope has become the best 3 year old improv dancer I have ever seen! Lol!
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ScamTheMan
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12-09-2015, 11:06 PM
Hello InzaneBraned :) How's it going ?
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Menelaus
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12-13-2015, 04:16 PM
a friend made me the most delicious batch of chocolate cupcakes today, just thought I'd share
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Amane
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12-13-2015, 04:34 PM
DUDE-A-ROOS. CHOCOLATE CUPCAKES. CHOCOLATE IN GENERAL.
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Menelaus
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12-14-2015, 03:26 AM
maaaan, they were soooo 'melt in your mouth' defabulicious. I did mean to post a pic of them, but they didn't last the time it took me to access the photo app. besides, I didn't want want the responsibility of any of you to licking your screens, 'static au tongue' is a lawsuit just waiting to happen
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kelseydee
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12-14-2015, 04:08 AM
I heard that. Wasn't that a thing in Vegas?
The people verses playboy digital.
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Menelaus
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12-15-2015, 07:36 AM
lol, sounds about right, you New Worlders do like a good financial lynching. a case like that wouldn't even see the courtroom here in the UK, not unless the playboy bunnies were real rabbits
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Inzanebraned
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12-16-2015, 09:49 PM
Hey! Where the heck is Ava?!?
We have gone far too long without a post about poop or periods!
The balance of things is all out of wack in your prolonged absence!
But, seriously! ....I'm a little worried....
I hope to see ya back real soon!
I'm looking forward to that Kwanzaa thing you were gonna do!
I hope your absence is a symptom of GREAT THINGS going on in your life!
(Seriously?....nobody Facebooks or texts Ava? Nobody knows how she is?)
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kelseydee
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12-16-2015, 09:59 PM
Not I said the Cheshire Pisces.
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