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04-25-2015, 05:51 AM
A massage by a stranger would be cool in a "crystal Maybach diamonds on your tongue piece" way.
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04-25-2015, 05:59 AM
lol, that's waaaaaay too much public nakedness for the likes of me, thanks very much. I mean, I'm not a prude, but I still don't want to be that exposed in a business establishment, unless there's swimming, or really messy cookies. that's why I can't understand how some women go to a store to be waxed, or get a vajazzle. I mean, I not judging, but how intimate do you need to get with a paid stranger before somebody calls the cops?
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04-25-2015, 06:01 AM
And then buying clothes and going to the salon "jetplanes islands tigers on a gold leash" style. Yeah. That would be cool.
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I AM A PRUDE.
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I'm a prude in a ladylike way. Gotta keep it classy. Got an image to uphold here.
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04-25-2015, 06:09 AM
lol, the misread queen strikes again. wasn't Lordes talking about very expensive and eye-popping watches? lol, guess that's better than a vajazzle
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04-25-2015, 06:13 AM
No, no. The point of quoting those lines in Royals is "blood stains ballgowns trashin' the hotel room."
/it would feel like that lifestyle
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04-25-2015, 06:17 AM
lol, you guys and your modernistic trends
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04-25-2015, 06:20 AM
Pretty much, I'll jump on board if I think it's cool.
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04-25-2015, 06:27 AM
Yeah, being naked with strangers is awkward.
Especially if they are running their hands all over you! The most naked I'll get with someone is if I'm at the gym and I'm in the locker room changing clothes, or after taking a shower there I might walk back to my locker in a towel, but that's it.
I've got nothing to hide, my body isn't like... Scary or embarrassing. It's just, no one is worthy to gaze upon my nakedness.
Except my mom. (And she's not really "worthy" per se, she's just my mom... It comes with he job of being a mom.) But then, she's my mom, she's seen me naked my whole life since I was a baby.
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04-25-2015, 06:33 AM
Only time I let myself remain unclothed and uncovered is in the shower.
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04-25-2015, 06:38 AM
For the better half of the 2013, I used to be so paranoid that there was a camera in my shower head that I used to shower with my clothes on.
Even when I went to the hospital, I showered in my clothes and you couldn't convince me that someone wasn't watching me through that shower head.
Thank goodness I'm over that! Now, that was an embarrassing time in my life!
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04-25-2015, 06:41 AM
lol, as long as you're not jumping aboard because you think other people think that its cool, then that's cool
that's the thing with you girls. boys start to become uncomfortable being naked around their mothers come puberty. but you girls just keep it going til the end of days. of course, that's a good thing not a bad thing. both medically and socially. if women don't stay bonded, they turn on each other like pack animals, especially when they live in the same home and menstrual synchronization has been initialized. whereas men can coexist in the same place unfazed, as long as the betas know their place. lol, sometimes, I think I need to calm down with the people watching, but its my favourite sport
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04-25-2015, 06:49 AM
I heard that once a child becomes old enough to understand the difference between male and female bodies, they should no longer be seen naked by their parents and they should no longer see their parents naked. Which, that age is llke, estimated to be four or five years old.
I totally disagree with that. Nakedness is something that children shouldn't be ashamed of and by hiding their nakedness at a young age just makes them feel like they shouldn't be comfortable in their own bodies. Not saying that a twelve year old boy should continue to shower with his mom, God no! Just saying, five is a bit too young to expect your child to wash and dress themselves and no longer see them naked.
That's what's so sad about American society. They try so hard to push independence that they don't take into account the child's best interest. My mom used to co-sleep with me when I was an infant and people used to yell at her and say that I needed to be in a crib in a separate room so I'd be "independent". Turns out co-sleeping greatly reduces the risk of SIDS. Ugh, stupid Americans!
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04-25-2015, 06:54 AM
Oh, all the things you haven't learned about me.
You kitten me? Coming from a home dominated by girls, we avoid each other. No one gets a fork in the eye if we're together, but we're not fond. In my experience, the synchronization superstition is a myth.
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04-25-2015, 06:58 AM
I've never experienced the synchronization thing either until I started working with other women.
But I am pretty much an only child, so the only other person I could "sync up" with was my mom, but we never did.
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04-25-2015, 07:07 AM
lol, its because America is the home of psychology. most of the modern theories are formulated there. everytime a new theory is formulated, someone wants to try it out. but the problem with that, is the fact that psychology is a soft science. as apposed to the hard sciences such as mathematics, physics, biology, or even geology, the soft sciences, psychology, sociology, economics ect, cannot be definitively proven to be one thing or another. mainly because they deal with people and not hard facts. people are different, in their very nature, so what may be the norm/standard for the one, may not necessarily be for the other. in essence, you can please all of the people some of the time, and some of the people all of the time, but you can't please all of the people all of the time. nobody knows for sure which way is the correct way, because the variables are interchangeable with each and every subject. they can only extrapolate for the general populous, and hope that its enough to freak out the few members who may be vastly divergent to the norm. personally, if both parent and child are mentally well balanced, I don't see anything wrong with the whole naked issue. though, saying that, I know a girl who was breastfed up until the age of five. can you say "parental separation issues"? and at the age of twenty six too
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04-25-2015, 07:07 AM
I don't understand how the "telling them to cover themselves up makes them ashamed" thing works. I was taught to be covered up and very careful about what I do, and wear, because I'm a girl. I don't feel uncomfortable in my own body or ashamed. Rather, I consider my body sacred, only mine, and I need to protect it. I get uncomfortable if I DON'T act "ladylike." I want to be seen as a young lady, a precious doll that needs to be protected.
My family isn't as closed off about body process talk as I am. Yet I still am very much closed off about it because it's gross. TMI. I don't want to be associated with gross, and I don't want to associate others with gross.
Gross. This post came out looking serious. Fiddlest*cks. Pardon my language.
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04-25-2015, 07:18 AM
lol, menstrual sinc is to do with a mixture of hormones, which are internally spread, and pheromones, which are externally spread. and it doesn't always happen. but to call it a myth is like saying babies don't poop because you've never changed a diaper. best friends are actually quite prone to this phenomena. and, in similar fashion, mortal enemies are not. so its possible that some modicum of positive interaction is involved in its activation
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short answer, it doesn't always work
lol, on a lighter note, clowns. totally scary, or just freakishly funny?
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04-25-2015, 01:34 PM
Clowns are adorable.
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My uncle used to have a picture of three black clowns in his living room and for some reason I always loved that picture.
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04-25-2015, 02:02 PM
MORNING EVERYBODY.HAD BAD STORMS LAST NIGHT
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04-25-2015, 02:05 PM
I think I know the style of picture you mean. and no doubt you have alot of happy memories of being there. but you'd be surprised at how many people there are who do suffer from clourophobia. maybe its the big shoes, the teeny tiny cars, or the fact that Steven King took one of life's pleasures and turned it into a living nightmare. I'm conflicted which
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04-25-2015, 03:59 PM
Clowns aren't the thing to fear in this world. Bugs are.
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04-25-2015, 04:03 PM
That was one of the most surprisingly interesting back reads I've encountered as of recently. U guys covered quit a few topics, lol.
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04-25-2015, 04:03 PM
How can you be afraid of something like this, by chance?
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04-25-2015, 04:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Ava The Vampire
I heard that once a child becomes old enough to understand the difference between male and female bodies, they should no longer be seen naked by their parents and they should no longer see their parents naked. Which, that age is llke, estimated to be four or five years old.
I totally disagree with that. Nakedness is something that children shouldn't be ashamed of and by hiding their nakedness at a young age just makes them feel like they shouldn't be comfortable in their own bodies. Not saying that a twelve year old boy should continue to shower with his mom, God no! Just saying, five is a bit too young to expect your child to wash and dress themselves and no longer see them naked.
That's what's so sad about American society. They try so hard to push independence that they don't take into account the child's best interest. My mom used to co-sleep with me when I was an infant and people used to yell at her and say that I needed to be in a crib in a separate room so I'd be "independent". Turns out co-sleeping greatly reduces the risk of SIDS. Ugh, stupid Americans!
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I co-slept with my mom until I was 9yrs old! And I'm the oldest out of 3 girls. My dad worked nights for years so my mom didn't mind at all. I had a whole bedroom for myself that I would play & nap in but at night, I couldn't sleep without my mom. I decided at age 10 on my own to start sleeping in my own bed. Just out of the blue one day I guess I became brave enough to face the task of independent sleeping.
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04-25-2015, 04:26 PM
That is a Pokemon, isn't it?
*snorts* Don't push independence on an infant.
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