lol, were just modern day cavemen, but with nicer shoes. its not complicated, but there are unwritten laws which are learnt from an early age. men who break the 'bro' code usually get a bad name for themselves. but that's not the reason not to break it. its a little like witchcraft, any transgressions you make against the code, are visited upon you thrice in effect. but its really a very simple thing ��

I dunno. When I go to the bathroom, women always talk to me.
I mean, they don't start a full on conversation or anything, but they might say something like, "Wow, it's crowded in here." Or, "Hey, I love your hair!" Or even, "Sorry! I didn't mean to bump you."

Is it weird that women talk to me in the locker rooms as well? Especially when we're changing or if we're in the sauna. o3o I've had a woman talk to me once and we were both naked in the sauna and she just started babbling away and she was like,

"Oh, do you need me to move?" and I said,
"No, you're good." So she said,
"Oh, okay....... How was your work out?" And I said,
"Uh... good." And she said something like,
"Oh, good. Mine was great too, I did (blahblahblahblah) and (yaddayaddayadda) and then I (lalalalalala)'d."
And I was like, "Oh okay, great" and then she went on to tell me about her kids and her home in some other country and her parents and her marriage and I was like....... ._____.;

I didn't think it was weird, though. I'm just not a very outgoing person, so I didn't know what to say. D:

I dunno. I always thought women talk often in the bathrooms?

Stuff like that, yeah. Of course. But striking a conversation? Nah.

I haven't been in a locker room since school, and we talked, yes. Because we knew each other. I don't think I could handle otherwise.

Do you remember being really awkward in school locket rooms?

I remember middle school, I went to a very white, typical All American school made up of Catholic kids and there was this one girl who didn't care about what other people had to say about her body and she would just get naked without even feeling embarrassed and all the girls were like, "OMG shez a lezbean."

It's kind of funny to think about now, but I feel bad for that girl. She was just really confident in herself and wasn't self conscious and everyone spread rumors about her because of that...

So sad.

Locker rooms are bad places in middle school and high school. Just... bad ideas.

Changed in the bathroom all through middle school, babe. The high school locker rooms were dark. Not so dark you couldn't see, but it was obvious there was a light that should've been on but wasn't.

Hehe, Amane!
That actually sounds scary. School locker rooms already look like they could be the scene of a murder, but to have one that is dark would be so frightening!

It didn't look scary at all to me. I was somewhat comfortable there. "Somewhat comfortable" as I could be at school.

I'm glad I'm done with school. People tell me that college is way better than high school.
Dunno if that's true. It sounds like it's either a bunch of parties and possibilities of getting hurt, or it's just a bunch of exams and sleepless nights.

Not my thing. I'm done with school.

Some say it's parties and so much drinking. Some say it's crime (not where I go o.O). Some say it's free food and never sleeping again. For me, it's work and more work. I don't understand people with jobs and families who go to class and make it through. But it also has fun parts. I found somewhere I like to wait around when I'm free and talk to awesome people, and I'm not social.

You're changing so much, Amane!

What are you currently studying in school?

I feel good for using clips that I used to get fussed at for using.

lol, not all people have homes full of food and candy handed to them on a plate. some people have less than nothing. but they still want to make something of themselves because that's the only way to break the social poverty cycle life has handed down to them. so its not always a choice to have a family, a job, and school at the same time. sometimes its a survivalistic necessity ��

Still not feeling Amaney.

lose the ears, change the hair colour ��

I don't even recognize Amane anymore...
WHO ARE YOU?!

*likes the look, though*

Needing to doesn't make it any more possible.

man has walked on the moon. anything is possible ��
you need cyan highlights in your hair. I've got colour codes if you want to try some out ��

Originally Posted by Menelaus

lol, not all people have homes full of food and candy handed to them on a plate. some people have less than nothing. but they still want to make something of themselves because that's the only way to break the social poverty cycle life has handed down to them. so its not always a choice to have a family, a job, and school at the same time. sometimes its a survivalistic necessity ��

Sometimes, the job you want is sadly out of reach. No matter what your knowledge on the matter is, and it's simply because you didn't network enough.

Yes, it's not what you know, it's who you know!

exhibit A:

Originally Posted by Menelaus

man has walked on the moon. anything is possible

someone not networking enough isn't about not having a choice, its about self negligence. some people don't have the luxury of making such mistakes, while others learn from them and grow wiser (in an ideal world ��)

Which is disgusting because how do you get THAT?

A pain we often feel every day of our lives:

I know a guy who once stabbed a guy in the left buttock ��
a long, but oh so true, story. one probably not suited for the ears of decent peoples ��

You should have given him this cake:


There's an amazing story behind this cake.

lol, I don't think that "..in the left buttock" would fit at the bottom. but my 'friend' was the stabber, not the stabbee. so no cake for him ��
is that a picharacture of someone you know? ��