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Shadami
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09-07-2015, 03:33 PM
Good morning everyone! :]
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Kay
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09-07-2015, 03:49 PM
Hey everyone how are you all today?
I'm alright. It's very nice out. It's also rather noisy with it being labor day and the town I live in has been doing their summer celebration days this week, today being the last day. They have all kinds of different things in the park every year on the last day.
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Spooky Pookie
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09-07-2015, 04:07 PM
Aawww /sadface I just got lectured by my love's grandma about my eating habits. I feel super bad now.
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09-07-2015, 04:10 PM
hey Kay!
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09-07-2015, 04:11 PM
eat however you want to <3
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09-07-2015, 04:18 PM
Spooky: You should be allowed to eat however you want to eat! Don't feel bad about it!!!
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09-07-2015, 04:20 PM
i'm feeling pizza for lunch.
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09-07-2015, 04:23 PM
I had a lamb gyro for lunch today. Very tasty
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09-07-2015, 04:29 PM
I've never had a gyro. or lamb. xD Is it really good?
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09-07-2015, 04:31 PM
I had oatmeal for breakfast - I've not quite gotten to lunch yet. Too early for lunch.
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09-07-2015, 04:34 PM
its 1 pm for me. but i'm a little to depressed to do anything about it right now....
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Spooky Pookie
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09-07-2015, 04:35 PM
She said I'm teaching olivia bad habits etc because I ate sine chocolate. It's not like I'm giving it to her, she only has milk.
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09-07-2015, 04:37 PM
Spooky: Tell her "You will do whatever you want to do... she needs to stop trying to make you feel bad. You will eat whatever you want to eat.... And she needs to just be quiet and mind her own business!"
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09-07-2015, 04:43 PM
oh goodness. people need to butt out of peoples lifes and stop trying to make them be someone else.
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09-07-2015, 04:45 PM
You go and eat chocolate if you want to eat chocolate... she has no right to make you feel bad about that!!  :( I rather dislike people who make others feel bad for their food choices. People should be allowed to eat whatever they want to eat!!
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09-07-2015, 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Shadami
oh goodness. people need to butt out of peoples lifes and stop trying to make them be someone else.
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really, it's all i can do to run my own life =3
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Spooky Pookie
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09-07-2015, 04:56 PM
Yeah I know I shouldn't let it bother me but I swear I've had so my people tell me I'm doing things wrong since I've had Olivia.. I know I'm not, she's thriving but honestly when people make digs every day, it starts to bother you..
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09-07-2015, 04:59 PM
That's when you just turn to them say "Thank you for your advice but it's not needed." And walk away.
I had a ton of people tell me I was doing things wrong when I had Norah - and it pissed me off.
Just let them say their piece, don't listen to them, and just keep doing whatever it was that you're doing.
Because if she's thriving and doing great, who cares what they think - you're doing what you feel you need to do for your daughter.
They don't get a say and have no right, at all, in making you feel bad!! 
So not cool of people to tell you that you're doing things wrong! D:
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09-07-2015, 05:03 PM
everyone knows the 'right thing' for your child,
however they don't know your child like you do
and not every child fits into their cookie cutter mold!
smile and kill 'em with kindness, sweetie
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09-07-2015, 05:10 PM
Smile and walk away. That's what I chose to do. 'listen to them', smile, nod, and walk away.
I agree with Hummy 110%!
They may think they know what's best for your child,
But at the end of the day, they don't know your child like you do.
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09-07-2015, 05:19 PM
i get it to. I'm told at least once a month that i'm a horrible mother and not doing right by my girls.
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09-07-2015, 05:21 PM
i can't believe how nose butting in people can be
y'all know your child the very best and i see both
of you as the best mother's in the world!
your children are lucky to have you both
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09-07-2015, 05:22 PM
The last time I saw my parents - I had my mom, tell me to my face, that because of my sexuality - I'm a horrible mother and that I don't deserve the love that my husband has for me. :/
That was quite awhile back, but I totally can relate to those people who feel like I'm a bad mom. *sighs*
It hurts.
But I've learned to just try to shake it off as best I can, and walk away.
They're allowed to think what they want to think.
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09-07-2015, 05:24 PM
the bad wife/ fat comments are tarting to get to me though. I'm not good enough for anyone it seems. Feel like I don't belong anywhere. except here. on mene.
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hummy
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09-07-2015, 05:27 PM
how are you a bad wife
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