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#476
Old 09-07-2015, 05:30 PM

I don't do enough. laundry is piling up. Rooms are a disaster. ect...

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Old 09-07-2015, 05:36 PM

i actually love to do laundry
it's the folding and putting away i don't like
i love the fresh clean smell ahhhhh *sniffs*

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#478
Old 09-07-2015, 05:41 PM

i don't mind chores.. its the fact that no one helps me . Yet they make more of it than i do and all i get is "we need to do laundry" or "the dishes really need to be washed" and they'll say it exasperated while i'm in the rooom. MULTIPLE times. until I do it for them....

i feel so miserably used. and I just want an escape and I can't find one.

and everyone is always telling me i'm not doing a good enough job. .everyone... all the time.

and now this stupid ex girlfriend problem.

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#479
Old 09-07-2015, 05:45 PM

Laundry is always piling up here too. Same wish dishes... it just seems to be a never ending problem!

TELL THEM... If they want the laundry done more... then do it themselves, don't expect you to be the only one to do it all the time!

STAND up for yourself!

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Old 09-07-2015, 05:51 PM

laundry is a never ending battle
especially with babies in the house

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#481
Old 09-07-2015, 05:59 PM

Yup, "fat people arent good parents" I do my best to ignore her, she really isn't around that much anyways.. really no point in getting hurt/upset for her. No one likes her anyway. I think as long as you feed kids when they need it, hold, love, play etc with them. As long as they're happy, then you're a good parent. Laundry/dishes/housework can wait. But babies grow up and move out etc and that time is so precious. I'm glad I don't waste it just doing housework. :)

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#482
Old 09-07-2015, 06:07 PM

Chikyu: is our trade list updated, sweetie

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#483
Old 09-07-2015, 06:14 PM

I ended up taking a nap.

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Old 09-07-2015, 06:16 PM


my mother is a cleanaholic!
seriously someone smokes
puts an ash in the ashtray
and she gets up to clean!

i would have rather been rocked and loved
thank God i had my Nonno who love me unconditionally
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Yup, "fat people arent good parents" I do my best to ignore her, she really isn't around that much anyways.. really no point in getting hurt/upset for her. No one likes her anyway. I think as long as you feed kids when they need it, hold, love, play etc with them. As long as they're happy, then you're a good parent. Laundry/dishes/housework can wait. But babies grow up and move out etc and that time is so precious. I'm glad I don't waste it just doing housework. :)

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#485
Old 09-07-2015, 06:19 PM

oh yeah. and my daughters autism is MY fault! like... a kid has super tantrums because of her autism and i should "pin her in my lap and take all her kicks and punches and have to leave bruises on her holding her so tight cause she's so violent just to show her she's loved" ....

like damn it people. Why am I not good enough for you? can't you see so many of the things you blame me for isn't my fault. I'm doing the best i can and I've reached the end of the pier and have nowhere to go.

and i do tell people. and i ask and plead. and than I scream after months of saying the same things over and over.

I'm so fed up with everything. and being treated liked dog shit on the bottom of a shoe.

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#486
Old 09-07-2015, 06:23 PM

a nap sounds good
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I ended up taking a nap.

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Old 09-07-2015, 06:24 PM

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a nap sounds good
I had one since I was up at 6:30am.

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#488
Old 09-07-2015, 06:24 PM

Than go take a nap hummy :D do you even sleep? you always seem to be here. xD

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I had one since I was up at 6:30am.
6:30 am is to early. T.T and i need to get used to it. God I can't believe Mary starts school tomorrow morning!

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#489
Old 09-07-2015, 06:27 PM

Shadami, have you tried just ignoring the haters - and just turning and walking away.

If you're not in a good situation - get yourself out of the situation!! Put yourself first!

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#490
Old 09-07-2015, 06:28 PM

some are family.... I wish i wish i could jsut walk away.

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Old 09-07-2015, 06:32 PM

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oh yeah. and my daughters autism is MY fault! like... a kid has super tantrums because of her autism and i should "pin her in my lap and take all her kicks and punches and have to leave bruises on her holding her so tight cause she's so violent just to show her she's loved" ....

like damn it people. Why am I not good enough for you? can't you see so many of the things you blame me for isn't my fault. I'm doing the best i can and I've reached the end of the pier and have nowhere to go.

and i do tell people. and i ask and plead. and than I scream after months of saying the same things over and over.

I'm so fed up with everything. and being treated liked dog shit on the bottom of a shoe.
can you find a support group
maybe online so you don't have to go out


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#492
Old 09-07-2015, 06:33 PM

you guys are my support group. hahaha. I at least smile when I'm on menewsha.

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#493
Old 09-07-2015, 06:39 PM

this just takes me to my profile
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Wait a minute. 115k? I just had 111 and then 108???

Found it. hummy:, it's outside of event season. You lost Cheezy Romance, then?

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#494
Old 09-07-2015, 06:44 PM

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my mother is a cleanaholic!
seriously someone smokes
puts an ash in the ashtray
and she gets up to clean!

i would have rather been rocked and loved
thank God i had my Nonno who love me unconditionally
Nothing wrong with cleaning either. I just feel like if I'm choosing between holding my baby and doing the laundry.. well I'm never going to choose the laundry.

Autism is nobody's fault Shadami that is an awful thing to say. Of couse you do the right thing by her. It's never easy to have/take care of a child with a disability. As long as you do your best, you are superman. Just like hummy said

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#495
Old 09-07-2015, 06:44 PM

i don't know anything to help you with, though
i really wish crazymuch: was still active, she could help
i'm happy we make you smile <3 you deserve to!

hey, craycray we miss you!
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you guys are my support group. hahaha. I at least smile when I'm on menewsha.

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#496
Old 09-07-2015, 06:58 PM

Shadami: Even with family you can walk away... that's what I do with my parents who treat me like crap.

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#497
Old 09-07-2015, 07:05 PM

I try to walk away and i get followed and cornered until I listen to them..

i'm in an awful place right now.

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#498
Old 09-07-2015, 07:09 PM

Then REMOVE yourself from the situation. Get yourself out of there.
You are worth more than forcing yourself to stay in a bad situation! :(

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#499
Old 09-07-2015, 07:13 PM

i wish things would look up for you, Sha
it's been a long hard time for you all and that is sad

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Old 09-07-2015, 07:15 PM

I know how hard it can be to get out of a bad situation - been there done that - but it can be done, and it doesn't make you weak to need to get yourself to a better place.

 


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