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#3401
Old 10-05-2016, 12:00 AM

well i like putting potatoes in a microwave for 5 minutes before I bake them because it speeds up the actual baking process cause I have no patience to wait an hour for the delightfulness of potatoes. mmm so gooooood.

and I have a ramen cooker that's a microwave steamer. GREAT for veggies too. That way i can puree them for hiding in actual meals. Other than that... don't really use a microwave.

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#3402
Old 10-05-2016, 12:02 AM

Ah, got ya.

Time to go help my hubby with the kids.
Hopefully I can find the energy.
I've had little to no energy lately. :(
Although he said that if I need some down time, he can find a way to distract them while he finishes dinner.
But I just feel like such a slacker. :(

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#3403
Old 10-05-2016, 12:16 AM

Momma can't without a microwave. She was like… I am not going back to heating stuff on the stove. It's so great when momma can't with something. That's the only time when I'm glad we're similar.

I can't without a microwave because I'm scared of the stove.

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#3404
Old 10-05-2016, 03:04 AM



Ava
I mean, I do like kids, but I'm
not sure If i want some of my own.

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#3405
Old 10-05-2016, 04:43 AM

*whispers* When they're your own, you gotta pay for them!

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#3406
Old 10-05-2016, 10:42 AM

The thing I love about this thread is how the conversation deviates away becomes completely random then somehow comes back round to the subject :D <3

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#3407
Old 10-05-2016, 01:52 PM

I love children....... :'(

I want one of my own one day! I feel like I have to hurry up too, since I'm not getting any younger!

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#3408
Old 10-05-2016, 02:04 PM

I want to adopt ^^

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#3409
Old 10-05-2016, 02:09 PM

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I love children....... :'(

I want one of my own one day! I feel like I have to hurry up too, since I'm not getting any younger!
Hon, you're still young! No need to rush. I didn't have my oldest until I was 25 - and my twins will be born a month or so before I turn 31. Enjoy life. Live a little. Life changes COMPLETELY when you have kids. More than you will ever know!

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#3410
Old 10-05-2016, 02:40 PM

Ava, you have it so bad it kills me with laughter every time.

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#3411
Old 10-06-2016, 02:46 PM

I'm not sure feeling pressure to produce before your body gives out is funny amane. The urge for a child can run very deep and if it doesnt happen it can leave individuals to have feels of failure or feel incomplete.

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#3412
Old 10-06-2016, 03:38 PM

Not sure that is what Amane is saying in her post, Easty. She has a tendency to be a completely different wave length from the rest of the conversation. And if it is, well, then it's not a pleasant thing to say to someone.

I do want kids and I am certainly not getting any younger. Hell, 33 is rapidly approaching for me

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#3413
Old 10-06-2016, 07:14 PM

I think amane is just joking. amane and ava the vampire are friends so it always seemed to me they are just joking around and they understand each other's senses of humor

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if amane ever insults me, for example, I would think she's being hilarious. but amane like never insults me anyway lol she just points out all the drips of optimism seeping out of my pores :o

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#3414
Old 10-06-2016, 07:18 PM

Okay, it just didn't come off right to me. I think its because its something my auntie has really struggled with. She was with a man for 10 years of her life, loved him to death, but he didn't want kids, shes always wanted them so she made the difficult decision to leave him. 10 years down the line he now has two kids, which is just a slap in the face! And shes been with the guy shes with now for a decade and he's lovely and they're brilliant together but he too has never wanted kids, so shes had to accept that that will always be empty for her in that regard but at the same time she does still have a full life and a happy one.

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#3415
Old 10-06-2016, 07:27 PM

awwww I am so sorry to hear that eastriel <3

I can definitely understand how that kind of joke would be definitely inappropriate in that situation

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I feel like young people do joke about "ahhh I want a baby soooo badlyyyyyy" but while it is definitely not meant to be offensive to anyone who is actually trying to conceive a child, I can see why it would understandably not be funny to people who have been struggling with this or people who know someone who has been struggling with this

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#3416
Old 10-06-2016, 07:50 PM

One of my best friends has been struggling to try to conceive for years.
So to me, knowing her struggles - it's not a funny statement either.

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#3417
Old 10-06-2016, 09:46 PM

I want a kiddo too and we haven't been using birth control for well over three years now and no kiddo yet. Nothing to get too worked up over, but I can see where it would be insensitive for someone to say that about another wanting a kiddo.

Sorry to hear about your Aunt, Easty.

One of the reasons I want a kiddo is to pass on my father's line, I am the last of his blood line. My uncle never had kids, thankfully and I am my dad's only biological offspring. Plus, it would be nice for my nephew to have a cousin or two to play with at family gatherings. My older sister definitely doesn't want to have children, seems my younger sister and I ruined her years before by being brats and out of control heathens. Oops.

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#3418
Old 10-06-2016, 10:15 PM

Oh, guys. That's a running joke between me and Ava. She won't be hurt. We talk like that all the time. She knows of my aversion to reproduction. Move along!

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she just points out all the drips of optimism seeping out of my pores :o
All over the place. One day I'm gonna shove you into a long shower with the knob set to "pessimistic" to balance ya' out.

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#3419
Old 10-06-2016, 11:40 PM

I definitely was NOT joking about wanting a baby and needing to do it soon because I am getting old and I don't want to be too old to have a baby.

But yeah, I know Amane. She isn't offending me.

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#3420
Old 10-06-2016, 11:45 PM

Cole needs to come back so we can double-team you again. Maybe we'll crank out another album.

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#3421
Old 10-07-2016, 01:47 AM

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Momma can't without a microwave. She was like… I am not going back to heating stuff on the stove. It's so great when momma can't with something. That's the only time when I'm glad we're similar.

I can't without a microwave because I'm scared of the stove.
Do you know how bad it sucks to be petrified of the oven and love baking? I have an anxiety attack Everytime I open the oven door to check on cookies or bread or pizza. Dang thing is terrifying!

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#3422
Old 10-07-2016, 01:52 AM

Baking sounds like a good aesthetic for me, but again, scared! I'm not as brave as you.

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#3423
Old 10-07-2016, 02:15 AM

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I definitely was NOT joking about wanting a baby and needing to do it soon because I am getting old and I don't want to be too old to have a baby.

But yeah, I know Amane. She isn't offending me.
Hon, you're not getting too old! You have time! If you think that 21 is too old, then me at almost 31 - should be too old to have these twins. I'm sure that you'll get your baby.

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#3424
Old 10-07-2016, 02:28 AM

There should've been more witnesses that one time Cole said something harsh to me and someone who didn't know we were cool was like, whoa, that was brutal. Have a heart!

My relationship with my friends is like those wild animals who play by trying to kill each other.

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#3425
Old 10-07-2016, 06:58 AM

I'm 23, my mum didnt have my sister until she was 29 and me until she was 31, theres no difference in parenting due to age, well at least that thats negative, in many ways being a more 'mature' (because imo anything under 40 isnt a mature parent in the least) is positive, I found my mum and dad had more life experience and could support and guide me in a variety of different ways. They were also much more financially secure, and whilst of course money wasn't flowing, there were no hugely evident financial struggles.

Thanks for the sensitivity to my Aunts struggles Amane ;PPPP <3

 


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