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01-18-2016, 11:14 PM
My parents are terribly religious too
:( It makes me so sad. I mean, they get really offended when they see anything lgbt related on TV. Like, they take it personally.
I'm like, "holy shit guys, calm the fuck down, these people don't even know you"
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01-18-2016, 11:24 PM
yup. but it works to change their opinion of them when they meet one in real life who isnt what they think they will be.
although i live in canada and not the states. we have a different perspective on a lot of things...
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01-18-2016, 11:28 PM
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My parents are terribly religious too
:( It makes me so sad. I mean, they get really offended when they see anything lgbt related on TV. Like, they take it personally.
I'm like, "holy shit guys, calm the fuck down, these people don't even know you"
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Exactly what happens in my family.
And it happens with different races too.
Like there had been a lot of interracial couple commercials which i loved
and then my grandpa starts "I don't see why it's necessary. I'm not prejudiced or anything."
And in my head I am thinking "Yeah ya are stating that whole sentence."
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01-18-2016, 11:39 PM
wow yeah my family is more like " wow look at them! they are so brave, being multi racial just out in the open like that! im so happy for them" and all i can think of is "how is that any less racists? they are as brave as any other couple..." my family is more condescending and conceited.
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01-19-2016, 12:03 AM
My whole family is either religious, racist, judgmental, Hypocrites or Anti-happiness and prefers everyone being sad or depressed.
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01-19-2016, 12:07 AM
wow... well at least you have mene right?! i have found no better support than on mene. everyone here is kind and genuinely wants you to succeed. they all want to help and be here for you, no matter who you are or what you are going through. thats why i have been here for so long.
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01-19-2016, 12:19 AM
I am not really on menewsha much.
I just don't talk to anyone and all I ever have to talk about is my problems or my art.
So I distance myself from talking usually.
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01-19-2016, 12:25 AM
We're still glad to have you here, Fuu-Chan :) at least, I like having conversations with you (but I think everyone else does too) ^_^ and same with BSW, Ava the Vampire, and everyone else <3 seeing as Menewsha is the only avatar forum on which I'm active, I think you can tell that I really like the people here :)
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01-19-2016, 12:29 AM
mene is the only forum im active on.
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01-19-2016, 12:32 AM
I am on at least six or more avatar sites. Though lately i haven't been talking on them.
A dear friend recently hurt me and I just can't bring myself to get close to people
because I rather not go through trusting someone and them betraying me all over again.
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01-19-2016, 12:37 AM
 i know the feeling all too well.... i was really close to my mother when i was a child. she was my only friend... i thought she understood me.... instead... she was lying the whole time and wasnt listening at all. she ended up having an affair on my dad and destroying our family. it emotionally stunted all of us. hence me acting like a 13 year old.... its hard to be able to put yourself out there after someone hurts you so deeply. but closing yourself off only hurts yourself more.
everyone is selfish to some extent. you just need to find someone who is able to understand you on a deeper level. my boyfriend is the least selfish, most kind and understanding person i know. thats why he is so angry all the time. because no one else is like him. but because i feel so much... i am able to understand him. and in that, he is able to move past it. as am i.
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01-19-2016, 12:42 AM
Well when I've never actually had a friend. It feels way better to be alone than being lied to. I was ditched in Junior High by girls with my exact first name who were "cooler"
And it basically happened again to my friend who i've known for 4 years
and thought was my friend. She never talks to me. EVER. Oh no but her boyfriend can e. e
And I once told him I was having a rough time and my depression got bad
and of course he told her and it she messaged me and was like "If I had known your depression was so bad I would've helped."
I've told her how bad my depression gets an every time she and I talk
it's me me me me me. Basically she brushes off my problems
talks about herself and rants to me about her friends and family. And I don't even get a "sorry your having a rough time." When that is all i want to hear is "I'm sorry. I really hope things get better."
And she is online all the time, talking to her "cooler" friends.
So I've lost my trust in people. The solitude is better for me probably. lol.
Helps me focus on art. Just friends and I have ever gotten to know one another.
All of my friends always dropped me because i wasn't cool enough.
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01-19-2016, 12:59 AM
fuu chan, i would never be like that to you. we havnt talked all that much, and im not on for long periods of type typically, but if you want. i will be your friend and listen and support you.  we can even talk of Facebook if you have it and want to. im more available there generally.
depression isnt something anyone else can really help you through. its a very solitary thing. but staying solitary tends to make it worse. hanging with friends can help distract your from it and help to release needed chemicals to help fight it.
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01-19-2016, 01:54 AM
My parents aren't racist. My mom is multiracial herself and she used to be married to a white guy. (Isn't it weird when you find out that your parents had marriages before they were together and they never told you? I had to find out by me asking why my mom's official papers had a different last name for her and she was like, 'Oh I was married before'. LIKE WTF MOM!?)
But they are very homophobic. I mean, not homophobic like, "Ew, gross, gay people" I mean my mom actually has a LOT of gay friends and even her niece, my cousin is a lesbian and has a girlfriend and she's very open about it. My mom just says, "I just don't want to talk about being gay. And I don't want to see gay people kiss."
So I mean, I really shouldn't complain, my mom does like gay people, she just feels uncomfortable around it when it's open and she takes it personally when she sees two men or two women kissing on TV or something.
But still, sometimes she says things that make me wonder about her very much.
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01-19-2016, 03:20 AM
so what is this thread about? Don't want to make an error.
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01-19-2016, 03:23 AM
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fuu chan, i would never be like that to you. we havnt talked all that much, and im not on for long periods of type typically, but if you want. i will be your friend and listen and support you.  we can even talk of Facebook if you have it and want to. im more available there generally.
depression isnt something anyone else can really help you through. its a very solitary thing. but staying solitary tends to make it worse. hanging with friends can help distract your from it and help to release needed chemicals to help fight it.
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You don't have to. Only if you want to but it isn't necessary. I am not on very long. I just don't know where to post that i bounce between six different sites 
I have no idea where I am available really lol.
well I don't have friends to hang out with.
Just my sister. and we can't go anywhere. no license or car lol.
so am kind of stuck in solitude to work on art :/
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01-19-2016, 03:27 AM
Hey all 'waves'
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01-19-2016, 03:30 AM
Kirin Rosenbaum, you can talk about whatever you want :) not just music!
Thank you all! I love that everyone is being so open-minded and kind to one another <3 and also thank you to everyone who has been sharing about themselves <3 it means a lot that you feel safe enough to share here <3
Fuu-Chan, is your sister older or younger? I was wondering if maybe someday in the future (when you get your license, GED, move out, et cetera), your sister would be nearby?
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Hi star2000shadow ^_^ <3 *waves back*
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01-19-2016, 03:37 AM
how yeah doing Salvete?
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01-19-2016, 03:40 AM
Good, thank you ^^ How are you doing?
Also, I really love how your avatar looks like it is in a picture frame!
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01-19-2016, 03:44 AM
I so don't want to go to work tomorrow.
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01-19-2016, 04:30 AM
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Aww <3 hope you can get some sleep soon. I am probably going to bed soon as well.
And in case you were curious, this is what I have for your freebie right now:
As you can see, it is still a work in progress :)
Maybe I will give out some art prizes in this hangout after I'm done with my current freebie list.
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That I did. I finally ended up just crashing because I couldn't focus on my research.
I am, I am, lol. It is a work in progress, but I like the way it's going.
*can picture Ara'mis (who won't be in the freebie) hiding in the tree watching Fiaria* XD
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01-19-2016, 04:51 AM
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Fuu-Chan, is your sister older or younger? I was wondering if maybe someday in the future (when you get your license, GED, move out, et cetera), your sister would be nearby?
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My sister and I are movig in together 
She's 24 and I'm 21.
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01-19-2016, 03:23 PM
Poor Kirin Rosenbaum D: hope your day at work is better than you expect <3
blueblackrose, glad you got some sleep! I still want to color it in and whatnot ^^
Fuu-Chan - ohh that's great!! I'm very glad to hear that you and your sister would move out/in together :)
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01-19-2016, 06:50 PM
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Fuu-Chan - ohh that's great!! I'm very glad to hear that you and your sister would move out/in together :)
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We both can't be ourselves around our dad.
Literally one slip up and he starts ranting and raving about Satan and Jehovah.
And she understands me.
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