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Old 03-16-2017, 08:03 PM

So, I was getting ready to take wifelady out, she has bad health issues so anytime she wants to go out I take her.
So anyway I was getting ready and as usual Harley the wonder dog was being difficult. He walked up to me with tears in his eyes and whined, u like her best. We'll harl, I replied. She is my wife. Yeah he sniffed, but I'm your dog. That's true I said but I never have to chase her when we go out. U on the other hand will run right in front of a car. Oh sure, he said, I get hit once with a car and u never forget it. Duh!!!! I told him. Now look, I'm taking wifelady out and you're staying here.
He was still throwing that guilt trip when we left.... Spoiled rotten chihuahua

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#427
Old 03-18-2017, 12:48 AM

Recon I'll just go to Facebook..... Slinks off

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Old 03-18-2017, 03:53 PM

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So, I was getting ready to take wifelady out, she has bad health issues so anytime she wants to go out I take her.
So anyway I was getting ready and as usual Harley the wonder dog was being difficult. He walked up to me with tears in his eyes and whined, u like her best. We'll harl, I replied. She is my wife. Yeah he sniffed, but I'm your dog. That's true I said but I never have to chase her when we go out. U on the other hand will run right in front of a car. Oh sure, he said, I get hit once with a car and u never forget it. Duh!!!! I told him. Now look, I'm taking wifelady out and you're staying here.
He was still throwing that guilt trip when we left.... Spoiled rotten chihuahua
LOL

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#429
Old 03-22-2017, 10:40 PM

Well I finished the frame for the porch roof and attached it to the trailer roof. But then I got so sick from exhaustion and a cold wind. But when I recover a bit the porch roof is ready for the tin.

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#430
Old 03-24-2017, 01:25 AM

Don't over do it.

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#431
Old 03-26-2017, 09:35 PM

I took wifelady to see her brother today and was mugged by his pets. A chihuahua, a American bulldog and a adolescent orange cat. We're home now and Harley the wonder dog acts like I cheated on him.

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#432
Old 03-28-2017, 02:32 AM

Spent the evening sitting around with the family. Wifelady, sister girl and Harley the wonder dog. Very pleasant.

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#433
Old 03-28-2017, 03:22 PM

Man this site's dead lately. Where'd all my friends go?

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#434
Old 03-28-2017, 03:56 PM

We need new Mobamingle type sites that can keep members interested.

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#435
Old 03-31-2017, 01:08 AM

And yet again I miss moba as if a living friend was dead.
It was my 1st avi site and where I made my 1st online friend. Of course I am a senior and that stands a lot of Avi fans off. Maybe it's time for me to go find a senior chat group. Or perhaps to just quit.

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Old 04-02-2017, 07:28 AM

Only if someone could create cool avatar sites like moba and mobion and bring the oldtimers back .A site that brings backbththe fun.

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A site Brown eyed kitten could join.And other old moba members.

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I guess positive thinking can make it happen.I like to see new mobamingle type sites that can have over 500;000 members of all ages and bring back the old fun.Also most of the old members to.

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#437
Old 04-03-2017, 07:10 AM

Don't quit!
I hope to have some discussion with you about renovating the piece of junk trailer I will be living in soon, hoping you can give me some pointers ane suggestions...when I feel a little less bitter about life and feel like chatting.
I feel I would just depress the thread by sharing what I have been going through...so, I will be back when I feel more like my glass is half FULL instead of MOSTLY EMPTY, ...if ya know what I mean...

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Old 04-03-2017, 02:14 PM

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Don't quit!
I hope to have some discussion with you about renovating the piece of junk trailer I will be living in soon, hoping you can give me some pointers ane suggestions...when I feel a little less bitter about life and feel like chatting.
I feel I would just depress the thread by sharing what I have been going through...so, I will be back when I feel more like my glass is half FULL instead of MOSTLY EMPTY, ...if ya know what I mean...
U got a trailer? That's great!!!!

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Old 04-03-2017, 07:45 PM

No...not so great...
We are renting the trailer for $1000 a month...already paid for a whole month that we couldn't live in it because of the deplorable condition it is in...now we have paid for April and I still can't take Sarah there and sleep there.
The trailer is located in the middle of a run-down horse farm...some 8 or 9 horses have full range of the property and there is horse poop EVERYWHERE!
There is no place for a yard of our own, and to grow flowers will require that they stay on one of the porches to prevent the horses from eating them.
It is dirty and dusty when the weather is dry...muddy when it's wet.
I am not looking forward to being there when the summer sun will bake the horse poop and make the air stink.
The trailer stinks inside because the 2 previous tenants hoarded their garbage inside and never took it to the dump...keeping it inside to prevent visits from the bears.
The fridge still had a holiday turkey in it until we removed it and the other rotting contents last month...the fridge still stinks even after a thorough cleaning.
Previous tenants also shot guns through the trailer...severing the electricty to the bedroom that will be Sarah's room...
There are bullet holes through most of the walls and some of the floors.
The linoleum in Sarah's future room is curling at all the edges and will need to be removed.
The bathtub needs replaced as well as the bathroom sink and the kitchen sink as well...along with the cabinets and countertop in the kitchen.
There is furniture that needs to be removed...an oversized entertainment center that we have decided to dissect and use for kitchen cabinets and base for the countertop and sink.
The floor needs replaced in both bedrooms and the bathroom.
The propane furnace needs service but it does blow warm air...air that stinks, so the ducts need to be cleaned.
There is a wood burning stove that heats the place pretty well, but it needs some work done to it...the flue needs a spark arrester outside to prevent sparks from escaping and setting the dry forest on fire.
The floors are wavy, the walls are warped, the place smells bad...
The porches...one on each side of the trailer...look like they are about to fall apart...and the tin is loose on the roof of each, making it loud and noisy when the wind blows.
One of the nearby dilapitated out-buildings has a piece of loose tin roof that sticks up and blows in the wind...making it even more noisy.
The guy we are renting from has 2 children who look like refugees...hair never combed, faces dirty...
The guy talks to them like they are little more than a nuisance to him...
The guys wife is quiet and keeps to herself.
I am already overwhelmed with dislike for the place and I haven't spent a night there, yet.
We signed a 6 month lease...I am sooo hoping for a miracle to happen that will allow us to afford a more suitable place to live by the end of that lease!
Meanwhile, I have little choice but to accept what is put before me and to attempt to make the best of it...
I am often overwhelmed by thoughts of placing Sarah with the State so I can live in a tent in the forest somewhere...
Yes, a tent in the forest is move inviting to me than this trailer surrounded by falling-down buildings and horse poop!
Hope's parents have seen the place and seem to think it is great that I have a place to move to...I imagine that they don't care what conditions I have to live in as long as I get out of their house, the sooner the better!
I would like to challenge them to live there!...or to force Hope's OTHER grandmother to live there!
I KNOW that they couldn't or wouldn't...But it seems okay for ME to live there!
I am bitter. I feel unloved and unappreciated and like they just can't wait to get rid of me and Sarah.
It it weren't for Hope being the only real reason I have any desire to wake for each new day, I would find a way to die.
It really is that bad! ....and Hope won't be with me at this trailer, except for visits....so there will be ample opportunity for depression to overcome me and not care about living anymore, at all.
So...yeah! ....I'm gonna rent a trailer...it is NOT so great....but it is what it is...
I'll just accept what feels like punishment for being born and keep on keeping on until I don't anymore.
Sorry I'm so bitter in your thread, my friend! I hope stuff gets better and I'll be fun to talk to, again, some time in the future.

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Old 04-04-2017, 12:48 AM

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No...not so great...
We are renting the trailer for $1000 a month...already paid for a whole month that we couldn't live in it because of the deplorable condition it is in...now we have paid for April and I still can't take Sarah there and sleep there.
The trailer is located in the middle of a run-down horse farm...some 8 or 9 horses have full range of the property and there is horse poop EVERYWHERE!
There is no place for a yard of our own, and to grow flowers will require that they stay on one of the porches to prevent the horses from eating them.
It is dirty and dusty when the weather is dry...muddy when it's wet.
I am not looking forward to being there when the summer sun will bake the horse poop and make the air stink.
The trailer stinks inside because the 2 previous tenants hoarded their garbage inside and never took it to the dump...keeping it inside to prevent visits from the bears.
The fridge still had a holiday turkey in it until we removed it and the other rotting contents last month...the fridge still stinks even after a thorough cleaning.
Previous tenants also shot guns through the trailer...severing the electricty to the bedroom that will be Sarah's room...
There are bullet holes through most of the walls and some of the floors.
The linoleum in Sarah's future room is curling at all the edges and will need to be removed.
The bathtub needs replaced as well as the bathroom sink and the kitchen sink as well...along with the cabinets and countertop in the kitchen.
There is furniture that needs to be removed...an oversized entertainment center that we have decided to dissect and use for kitchen cabinets and base for the countertop and sink.
The floor needs replaced in both bedrooms and the bathroom.
The propane furnace needs service but it does blow warm air...air that stinks, so the ducts need to be cleaned.
There is a wood burning stove that heats the place pretty well, but it needs some work done to it...the flue needs a spark arrester outside to prevent sparks from escaping and setting the dry forest on fire.
The floors are wavy, the walls are warped, the place smells bad...
The porches...one on each side of the trailer...look like they are about to fall apart...and the tin is loose on the roof of each, making it loud and noisy when the wind blows.
One of the nearby dilapitated out-buildings has a piece of loose tin roof that sticks up and blows in the wind...making it even more noisy.
The guy we are renting from has 2 children who look like refugees...hair never combed, faces dirty...
The guy talks to them like they are little more than a nuisance to him...
The guys wife is quiet and keeps to herself.
I am already overwhelmed with dislike for the place and I haven't spent a night there, yet.
We signed a 6 month lease...I am sooo hoping for a miracle to happen that will allow us to afford a more suitable place to live by the end of that lease!
Meanwhile, I have little choice but to accept what is put before me and to attempt to make the best of it...
I am often overwhelmed by thoughts of placing Sarah with the State so I can live in a tent in the forest somewhere...
Yes, a tent in the forest is move inviting to me than this trailer surrounded by falling-down buildings and horse poop!
Hope's parents have seen the place and seem to think it is great that I have a place to move to...I imagine that they don't care what conditions I have to live in as long as I get out of their house, the sooner the better!
I would like to challenge them to live there!...or to force Hope's OTHER grandmother to live there!
I KNOW that they couldn't or wouldn't...But it seems okay for ME to live there!
I am bitter. I feel unloved and unappreciated and like they just can't wait to get rid of me and Sarah.
It it weren't for Hope being the only real reason I have any desire to wake for each new day, I would find a way to die.
It really is that bad! ....and Hope won't be with me at this trailer, except for visits....so there will be ample opportunity for depression to overcome me and not care about living anymore, at all.
So...yeah! ....I'm gonna rent a trailer...it is NOT so great....but it is what it is...
I'll just accept what feels like punishment for being born and keep on keeping on until I don't anymore.
Sorry I'm so bitter in your thread, my friend! I hope stuff gets better and I'll be fun to talk to, again, some time in the future.
OK. Take pics of everything. Then stop paying the rent till the landlord fixes all that stuff. He can't take u to Court on the lease without bringing the health department down on himself hells bells for a thousand a month u got to b able to get a better place. Average trailer rent around here for decent places is 500 per.

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Old 04-04-2017, 05:18 AM

Let me explain a little more about that trailer...
We are not renting it from the land owner, but from the family who is renting the 10 acre property...so it is more like a sub-let.
In a moment of desperation to vacate Hope's family's house, I agreed to rent this trailer as is...with the agreement that any money spent on supplies to make it a livable home would be reimbursed.
Our "landlord" ussured us that the primary landlord is good about reimbursement, but I have yet to see if his word is good.
I have been so massively uncomfortable while staying with Hope's family...and it seems evident that they are just as uncomfortable having Sarah and me stay with them.
I was stupid and gave up first and last month's rent for the trailer when BF signed the 6 month lease.
I want desperately to live in the mountains, away from the city...and this was the first affordable choice that came along.
Most 2 bedroom homes go for $1700 to $2000 a month in the communities we prefer to live in...
In the city, a 2 bedroom apartment can run above $2500 a month!
At the time, this seemed like a good way to get Sarah and me out of Hope's family's hair...
Now it just makes me hate myself for agreeing to rent the trailer.
Oh well...I can't back out since the lease is signed and the money has been paid.
All I can do is make the best of it all and hope there will be a better opportunity that will present itself when the lease expires.
I am overwhelmed wirh it all...and sometimes consider a self-destructive act to land myself in the mental ward for an extended "vacation."
Then SOMEbody else would have to make the decisions and do all the work instead of me messing things up all the time.
It is tempting today...maybe not so tempting tomorrow...we will see what tomorrow makes me feel like.
I do feel that I am losing the will to fight to keep Sarah with me...thinking I am failing to provide her with a quality life...
At least, at the trailer, I won't be angry with her for not being quiet at night and for making her noises...she will have her own room to make all the noise she wants and can stay awake all night if she wants to.
I try to remind myself that 6 months isn't all that long, especially during the summer...and I will hope that a more suitable place to live will come available at that time.
On the flip-side of optimism, I may decide to place Sarah with the State before the lease is up...then it won't matter where I live...maybe in our broken down mini-van on a desserted trail in the forest?
I am feeling older than I am, lately, and fear I can't make good decisions anymore...
I also feel like I am rambling on here...please forgive me for that!
I have noone who wants to listen to how I feel in my RL...and once I start typing about it I can't seem to stop!
Thanks in advance for "listening!"

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#442
Old 04-04-2017, 05:41 PM

My dear friend, u have shown such love and strength for your family. I'm doing well now, but am no stranger to lean times or suicidal thoughts. Good luck and God bless.

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#443
Old 04-05-2017, 12:02 PM

And so starts another Wednesday. There'll b camel races and humpbacked while races and maybe igore will drop in..... Maaaaaaaybe ☺😊😀😁

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Old 04-05-2017, 07:13 PM

One solution for those of us over 40 who like avatar sites let's hope for a miracle that a game designer will create a new avatar site that is fun and appealing that will bring back fun for every one that is similar to Mobamingle with improvements. And a daily gold allowance to.Also novels that member can write.Also games and music to download.Groups and homes that are realistic to.something that could attract millions world wide .And an active staff to .

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Maybe two or three similar sites like Mobamingle would be OK for a little fun competition. And people joining all the sites.

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Old 04-05-2017, 09:37 PM

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One solution for those of us over 40 who like avatar sites let's hope for a miracle that a game designer will create a new avatar site that is fun and appealing that will bring back fun for every one that is similar to Mobamingle with improvements. And a daily gold allowance to.Also novels that member can write.Also games and music to download.Groups and homes that are realistic to.something that could attract millions world wide .And an active staff to .

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Maybe two or three similar sites like Mobamingle would be OK for a little fun competition. And people joining all the sites.
I was looking at some of the avi game sites. Sheeeeeeeesh

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#446
Old 04-06-2017, 07:47 PM

Guess we're just stuck here.

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#447
Old 04-07-2017, 12:29 PM

I am so over adulting.

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Old 04-07-2017, 06:45 PM

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I am so over adulting.
U poor thing

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#449
Old 04-07-2017, 08:16 PM

I ache.

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Old 04-07-2017, 10:13 PM

What kind of ache? Like head, heart, or what

 


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