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#276
Old 10-01-2017, 03:39 AM

If you prefer to go by Spencer I will start calling you that. :) IRL I mean, not just online.

All of our available online schedules are so different, it sucks that we can't be online at the same time. I'll look if there is a place to post for an RP making thread.

I had an idea for a skyrim RP, so I might post in your RP search thread about it :)

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#277
Old 10-02-2017, 02:34 PM

I got the message!
And as far as calling me Spencer, that's great!

Husband and roommate don't know yet though. I don't know how to tell people in real life that I want a more gender-neutral name.

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#278
Old 10-04-2017, 05:41 PM

warning, im ranting......


so more drama bull shit with the person i was doing daycare for. she did not pay me in july her copayment, but since i was on vacation for 3 of her work days, I told her not to worry about it. when i called up the pay unit to discuss payments for august, they had me go through the last couple of months of payments i had recieved from her. i have the dates and the amount recieved written down. they noticed that i didn't say any dates in july of being paid and they asked about it. i told them the truth. now she is under investigation and is possible going to lose her child care benifits, so she is taking me to court. she states that she paid me in july, although she didn't. then she went as low as getting off topic of buisness. she said that i was cheating on my husband, that my kids aren't his, even though you can tell by looking at them that they clearly are his. she also said that i'm trash and that she has known my husband for 18 years, which is longer then i have known him, and that he settled with me and that i don't deserve him and that i'm just bringing him down. she then tried to say that while watching her kids, i had phone sex, ON SPEAKER PHONE, in front of the kids WITH MY EX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i mean that is seriously wrong on so many levels. for one why would i do that. i love my husband, and i have been nothing but loyal to him. and for to... with my ex? which one? the one that is now a woman? the one that is engaged to one of my best friends? the one that literally repulses me? not going to happen. those are the only ex's i am still in contact with, but the fact that she thinks i would do something like that, even though i wouldn't, and in front of not only her kids but my own? that sickens me the most.

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#279
Old 10-04-2017, 08:50 PM

I'm sorry that's happening to you. Some people are just way too out there. :(
I hope things get easier/better for you. You don't deserve any of this shit. Anyone who actually knows you, knows you're a great person.

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#280
Old 10-04-2017, 09:06 PM

yeah. i really think she's jealous of me, she wants what i have and Russell wont have it. she never had a chance with him and even less now. she actually caused me to use a word i despise. while talking to my husband. I'm just done with all of her shit and drama. it makes you really look at those you think are friends

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#281
Old 10-04-2017, 10:46 PM

If she makes those statements about you to anyone else, you could sue her for defamation of character.

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#282
Old 10-04-2017, 11:54 PM

i already have a case to sue her on. she refused to pay me for childcare rendered.

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#283
Old 10-05-2017, 01:13 AM

Yes you do...but if she attempts to ruin your reputation by saying untrue things about you to others, you could have another case against her.
The accusation of having phone sex in front of children could affect your ability to do childcare in the future.
...just something to consider.

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#284
Old 10-05-2017, 02:43 PM

yeah. i have already considered that. nothing but drama. that's what it seems my life is. gosh when will it end.

today my kids have been doing nothing but fighting this morning. its been frustrating. so I wasn't going to let our dog max out of his kennel until after i took the kids to school. well rusty my 8 year old let him out when i told him to put his jacket on to leave. then accidentally let him out of the house when he went to get in the car. so i told him to go ahead and let max into the car that he could ride with. on the ride the kids were still doing nothing but fighting, and max was trying to jump out the window to chase a squerill. the sun was shining in my eyes, i didn't see the car pull out ahead of me. when i noticed it i had to slam on my breaks to keep from hitting it, and max's head slammed into the windshield. he's ok. just so everyone knows. my car however is not. i have a massive spider web crack in my windshield. and from the drive home, which is only about a block, it doubled in size. now i have to try to think of the best way to tell my husband. I'm really not looking forward to that conversation.

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#285
Old 10-06-2017, 12:10 AM

I wouldn't call that drama.
Legally, what she's doing is slander. You absolutely have a case with which to sue her.

I'm sorry about the car though, and I'm glad everyone's okay.

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#286
Old 10-06-2017, 12:16 AM

it's been nothing but drama, and i have no proof that she is saying it to anyone else, but me, but i have a feeling she is. but whatever i just don't want to deal with her crap anymore, im just cutting her out of my life.

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#287
Old 10-06-2017, 12:24 AM

Makes sense.
I hope you don't have to deal with this BS ever again.

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#288
Old 10-06-2017, 12:28 AM

you know its funny i've been trying to stay away from drama, and it still finds me.

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#289
Old 10-06-2017, 12:44 AM

It happens. it's what happens when shitty people get bored and look for something to do. Unfortunately for the non-shitty people, we're the ones who are a victim of that boredom.

I actually recently had that happen to me. Someone stole my art on Deviantart, I called them out, and ended up getting stalked, harassed, and almost run off site. It's all been dealt with now, but it still sucks that it happened.

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#290
Old 10-06-2017, 12:47 AM

oh no. that sucks. i'm glad you were able to get it dealt with spencer.

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#291
Old 10-06-2017, 12:55 AM

It was all bullshit and drama, and I lost trust in my friends from that site. They pushed me into 'forgiving' the culprit and kept saying I needed to let it go.

I work hard on my SFM posters, I don't need people telling me to let it go when my art gets stolen.

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#292
Old 10-06-2017, 01:19 AM

I agree. I know I wouldn't have been happy about it either. i haven't even been on that site in forever.

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#293
Old 10-06-2017, 01:41 AM

It's honestly not worth it anymore.
I'm keeping an eye out for better art sharing sites.

--

So speaking of rp, I have another OC that's the embodiment of nature.
I can link the tumblr blog here, and we can do something with Vale on here too. I'm up for any plot with them.

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#294
Old 10-06-2017, 06:05 AM

Geeze. I'm sorry you guys have had these things happen to you. I'm just here living a boring life; work, and go home. Nothing ever happens to me. XD I guess that's because I don't have anybody outside of work or Tommy that I talk to on a regular basis. :P
Dakota, I saw the picture you posted of the windshield on Facebook. That seriously sucks. What did your husband have to say about it??
Spencer, do you watermark your art? Even if you don't its sad that somebody claimed your art as your own. I don't get why people do that. =/

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#295
Old 10-06-2017, 06:07 AM

I do.

It's complicated actually. It wasn't that this person stole my art, but she 'borrowed' my oc without asking me. I didn't even call her out publicly. I sent her a private message telling her to quit it. and when she refused to apologize, I blocked her.

Cue chaos.

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#296
Old 10-06-2017, 06:09 AM

Oh well that sucks :/
What's your dA account? I tried going on there to look at your stuff, but I couldn't figure out how to find you. Lol

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#297
Old 10-06-2017, 06:10 AM

pieceofbrooke.
I want to change it, but I can't afford Core, and at this point, I think the whole point is moot. I am starting to loathe that site.

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#298
Old 10-06-2017, 06:10 AM

Also. Sorry for not posting on here much, and for being a bit lazy on starting an RP thread. :P Sometimes I don't feel like putting the effort in to typing or thinking about typing >.>

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#299
Old 10-06-2017, 06:11 AM

That's okay!
There's never any rush, ever :D

If you want me to make us a thread, I'd be happy to do so. <3

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#300
Old 10-06-2017, 06:11 AM

looks like I couldn't find you because I didn't have you on my "watchlist' or w/e its called. :P

---------- Post added 10-05-2017 at 11:12 PM ----------

Sure. If you want that would make it easier for me. I can make up a character sheet and what ever. I'm so rusty when it comes to RPing and making threads and what not. Seriously, I have not done it in so long. I haven't even written anything in forever.

 


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