• Sorry Miss Seno.
  
  Hey guys, I'ma head back to my thread. See-ya later.

Bye....*sighs*....Now I'm all alone again...

I knew I'd find you guys hiding in here

Originally Posted by Secret

• My girl refused to even talk to me when I tried to ask her out. LoL. She said I was too boyish and that I looked like a hoodrat. HAHA.
  
  That very day, I ran home and told my sister to give me a make over. She cut my hair and made it all spikey, and we went to the mall and bought some snazzy clothes. She still didn't talk to me when she saw my new look, so I ended up going to her house and sitting outside, playing my guitar.
  
  My mother told me it's important to bring romance to the girl you love. Because those are the things she will remember. These cheesy things guys do to pursue them. It was lame, to sit around and play my guitar and sing, but hey. It got her in my arms. <3

That's so SWEET!!! Cheesy as it is (I only thought that happened in movies!) I'd actually love for a guy to do that!

EDIT-

Originally Posted by Alice Seno

What wrong is that the last few posts in this thread have been about people who're married, in love with some one who loves them too, gushing on how great it is to be in love!
When I've never even so much has had a date! Or even a kiss!
I've had several unrequited feelings for guys that I thought liked me too!
It makes me depressed and angry at the same time!

Oh I'm so sorry Alice! I felt like that for the longest time, seeing all my friends around me having boyfriends when I never had any. I had long-time crushes, but they never turned into anything, and I was too shy to ask anybody out, and I thought nobody would ever ask me out! It happened when it was meant to happen! My first boyfriend was when I was 15. I married my third boyfriend. My sister, incidentally, married her second boyfriend when she was 26.

Lilim!!!!!!! *glompsiessssssssss
@Alice...lil Angel.....lookie someone as sweet as you will be destined to someone really special....you see and that might take time!!! we are all a bunch of old guys hehehe you are a baby!!! ok? *hugs*

Originally Posted by Trinitydoll

Lilim!!!!!!! *glompsiessssssssss
@Alice...lil Angel.....lookie someone as sweet as you will be destined to someone really special....you see and that might take time!!! we are all a bunch of old guys hehehe you are a baby!!! ok? *hugs*

*sighs*....I wish that special person will come soon...*sniffs*....I want a real life romance...

I wished and wished for it for so many years! The romantic, always hoping for that relationship, and I wasted a lot of energy wanting something before it was destined!

How old are you Alice, if you don't mind me asking?

Originally Posted by fawN

I wished and wished for it for so many years! The romantic, always hoping for that relationship, and I wasted a lot of energy wanting something before it was destined!

How old are you Alice, if you don't mind me asking?

I'm 18 years old, this year I'll be 19...

Do you go to college? That's where I met Jason. I think I was going on 19 when we met. I'm not saying it will be the same for you, but there's no reason to give up hope!

Oh sweety it will come soon you just need to hang more and go to places maybe some party or even the mall with some friends just meet people everywhere =) sometimes they hide a bit but they are there =D

*Winks at Trin Trin as she jumps into Alice's lap!* Your special someone is here! *Clings to Alice and luffs on her* ♥

Originally Posted by fawN

Do you go to college? That's where I met Jason. I think I was going on 19 when we met. I'm not saying it will be the same for you, but there's no reason to give up hope!

Plus, I don't think that I'm attractive in the slightest....Seriously, I look like a reject...I'm 18 years old and I have stretch marks all over the front of my stomach. Yeah who would want that?
I'm overweight by I don't know how many pounds...

• Well, if you want a shallow answer, most guys are thankful when girls take off their clothes, even if they don't have perfect bodies. I never understood why they are all so insecure. Not that I've seen tons of girls naked haha. Just my girl. She was all OMG like, turn the lights off! I don't want you to see me!
  
  Never understood that.
  
  But, for my unshallow answer, there is way more to a girl than her looks. Sense of humor is a huge thing for me. A girl could be smoking hot, and not do a thing for me past a little private time stroke fest if she can't make me laugh.

*sighs and feels the indents of the marks*....I hate it....I really hate the way I look. I've tried dieting several times...Nothing helps!

• You worry too much. How much do you weigh, if I can ask that. Don't answer if it makes you uncomfortable.

Originally Posted by Secret

• You worry too much. How much do you weigh, if I can ask that. Don't answer if it makes you uncomfortable.

I don't know...I haven't checked the scale in years...But I know I'm overweight...I'm aware that confidence is what makes someone beautiful...But really, who my age really gets that?!

Alright sweetie... Have you tried working out and taking vitamins. Yes eatting healthy helps but you also need to move.. Take walks and whatever you do to work out. Eatting right isn't enough you have to do the whole thing, working out, taking vitamins, also start telling yourself how beautiful you are. That will also help

Originally Posted by Alice Seno

Plus, I don't think that I'm attractive in the slightest....Seriously, I look like a reject...I'm 18 years old and I have stretch marks all over the front of my stomach. Yeah who would want that?
I'm overweight by I don't know how many pounds...

Welcome to the club same here and you think you are not worth it just for that? then gimme a gun cause I'll be first!!!! O_O

• I'm your age, and I get it. Don't be so discouraged. Everyone finds someone, this much I know is true. They might break your heart, like my girl is doing to me, but meh. All the pain and heartache, the longing, the waiting.. Psh. Makes it all worth it when you love someone. no worries, lover.
  
  Where do you go to meet fellas?

I've always have had problems with my weight. I've got terrible self esteem problems...I was harshly verbally abused in grade school. When you're that young, you believe everything you hear. I was constantly made fun of because of my weight. For a whole year, everyday I was called ugly by five or six people in my class. It's basically scarred me for life. I've never felt confident in the way I look because of it.

• I think I'll just leave this discussion to the ladies, being that I can't relate. But, if you ever want to talk about Miss Seno, send me a PM. I'd be more than happy to listen.

Kids are so mean...
I know it's hard to believe but believe what we are saying. Your not alone on being over weight or unhappy about something to do with your body. We all have something we don't like. But for everything we hate there is someone that luffs that. So you will find someone who luffs you for you. No matter what you look like on the outside I know your a doll on the inside so warm hearted ♥

Well you're right that confidence does make you beautiful; at least you know that even if you can't live it yet! Confidence does come with age too. I was never self-confident growing up, and I always ALWAYS felt below everyone else, and I don't know where that came from. I think that's why I didn't have boyfriends while my friends did, and I didn't get attention from people like they did.

When you start to like yourself, not for your physical body, but for YOURSELF, your personality, your qualities, your integrity, your compassion, then you'll start to glow from the inside, and that's when people notice!

I guess before I let someone love me...I have to learn how to love myself...*wipes away her tears*
How can I expect anyone to love me, if I don't love myself...But it's so hard to do...

Alice. Why don't you go shopping tomorrow
By a pretty hairclip and maybe some hair dye
And change the way you look. Like I was a blondeish brown I hated the way it maked my skin look. The brown made me look so pale and almost yellowish skin. So I dryed my hair a redishbrown. And my skin colour changed my cheeks looked rosey my eyes just pop now. I now like the way a look most of the time. If it's a good hair day. You should try that ^_^