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10-02-2010, 09:20 PM
yikes. Well, you know they don't discipline her much, so I doubt they take much care of any of their other stuff...
This baby hardly stops moving, so no matter where you put your hand on my belly you feel baby move. It's like he's already got a chronic case of the hic-ups. Hopefully they stop when he's born, or he's going to be one unhappy baby.
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10-02-2010, 10:14 PM
Everything but the swing was absolutely CAKED in food... >.> and the swing had dried milk on it... The walker seat smelled HORRIBLY like urine... I know they didn't have dog when she started using it... It really isn't that hard to take those things apart and then you can machine wash them WHY didn't they do that...
I think because Tara is is the main money maker and often works more then 60-70 hours a week she left the baby stuff to Jay... >.> She is a compulsively clean person so I can't imagine that she would let Jayden's stuff get so... gross... Jay however... Never looks clean... His hands are always gross and just ew... I wonder how she can stand that when she is so compulsively clean O_o
I had the hiccups in utero... So did Sean... His didn't go away (no sure about mine) but he wasn't bothered by them either... and he had some pretty mean sounding ones too!
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10-02-2010, 10:36 PM
This baby has some pretty gnarly hic cups. Like they move my entire belly they're that bad. Kura had a mild case often when I was pregnant with hers, it was the only time anyone could feel her move other than me so it was good that she had them. This one, man he kicks, he hic cups, he attacks...he's so mean. </3
Opposites attract? If I was compulsively clean I think I'd find someone who was constantly dirty repulsive though. ^^;;
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10-02-2010, 10:44 PM
I am compulsive about things... >.> I am cluttery.... But compulsively need things to be CLEAN... Like when the bathroom wasn't being cleaned by Dillon he was the ONLY one I allowed to use it <.< except the tub cause the kids needed to bathe...
Both boys were violent in different ways Mikes kicked like mad... But Sean was the worst... He would headbutt my cervix... stick his toes between my ribs it was AWFUL... If his pregnancy wasn't bad enough.... He made it WORSE... Naughty boy... He got hiccups that would rattle my belly too O_O
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10-02-2010, 11:50 PM
I'm the same way. I don't mind things being cluttered to a point, but I need things to be cleaned! D:
Yeah, the twins did all of that. xD And then some. But I don't think they really had a choice in the matter... Kura was an easy baby to be pregnant with, just had all the bad pregnancy symptoms. This one I get all the bad symptoms PLUS the annoying headbutting my bladder, kicking my ribcage etc. *sigh*
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10-03-2010, 01:13 AM
Mikes was pretty easy on the pregnancy symptoms... Sean not so much ><;;
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10-03-2010, 01:32 AM
I swear kids need to mellow out more. There's no reason for pregnancies in the same person to be such polar opposites!
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10-04-2010, 04:05 PM
thought i would stop in and see how it is going!
oh and on the symptoms thing so far this pregnancy is way worse then my son's ever was!
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10-04-2010, 07:21 PM
My first son was easy peasy... My second could have killed me nicer then he treated me with all his symptom causing and pain... He's still a snot nearly 2.5 years later <.< stubborn child...
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10-04-2010, 07:26 PM
Gotta love how different pregnancies are! I swear it still shocks me to think about how incredibly different my first and second pregnancies were...and how different this one is from both of the previous! This one has actually been more pain inducing than the previous. The twins was the most uncomfortable but I felt pretty the entire time and didn't have a moment of sickness. My first I was sick with constantly. This one...man he's doing something to my uterus and my uterus doesn't like it one bit. He's caused me to have so much round ligament pain (the ligaments that keep your uterus in place) it's not even funny. </3 Brat.
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10-04-2010, 07:38 PM
Yeah I think it is crazy the differences ><
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10-04-2010, 10:27 PM
Keeping us on our toes each time. >.>
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10-04-2010, 10:32 PM
that they do!
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10-05-2010, 02:33 AM
Oi.... Jayden is so good at making me not want to have any more kids ><;; she wasn't even that bad today... And I still just get so blah with her here.... T_T
Azali visited and she was a little cranky... I think my house scares her lol...
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10-05-2010, 07:48 AM
I think you need a break from Jayden. >.< She's too young to really enjoy much, but too big to just cart around anywhere and everywhere you may want to go. It's one of those annoying in between ages. I remember feeling pretty trapped when the twins were between 1 and 2. They would whine after being out for an hour or two, but if I didn't get out I would go stir crazy, and Kura would too! Granted it didn't help that Scott had our car and that there really wasn't anywhere for me to go with 3 kids in tow...but still. It's a hard age.
>.> I'm of the opinion though that everything with little little kids is hard until they get to be about 3.
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10-05-2010, 01:20 PM
That is exactly how I feel I think... It doesn't help that when she is here I CANNOT focus on Sean who NEEDS to be focused on... HE NEEDS to get buckled down on potty training... Or I am going to scream... Once a kid hits about 2 for me I am ok with there... There are still little annoyances... like... Not napping or whatever... But it isn't a constant... But I simply don't want to watch Jayden anymore... PERIOD... I love her... And I'd watch her ON OCCASION... for her mom and dad to go out... But every week 2-3 times a week is just too hard... especially cause like this week I watch her 3 days Mon Tue and Fri... Not terrible except that around Thursday I start breathing a sigh of relief that I am done with her for the week and I get her again on Friday ><;
It makes it really hard cause Michael is the ONLY one who can get her to laugh... She is only minorly ticklish but she won't even laugh for that... All Mikes does is blow raspberries on her belly and she laughs up a storm but NO ONE else can make her laugh... It is almost... creepy to me...She always seems so unhappy to me... What kind of kid doesn't laugh... like ever... she smiles of course and babbles... just doesn't laugh... She is also at the independent play stage in her life.. Although she should be coming to parallel play REALLY soon, I see no signs of it anywhere... :/ so she and Sean are worse then my two EVER were...
She likes to go places though... But it is a pain to drag her around everywhere... >:[ not having a working sliding door and having two kids in carseats is a PAIN IN THE ASS
I don't know though... I think I need a break but unless I just say I can't do it anymore... I don't see how I COULD get a break from her... I hate the fact that her coming over is JUST like me going to a job... I don't want to go to work I HATE going to work.... I hate it equally when work comes to me :/
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10-05-2010, 01:36 PM
Zas needs a kiddo vacation - I time to defrag from being overwhelmed. Can you tell her folks that you can't watch her for a few weeks? You can try telling them that you need to focus on your own kid for a bit.
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10-05-2010, 02:30 PM
I don't know... ><;; I know they depend on me... ><;; I don't know if they would be able to find someone to watch her for just a short amount of time :/
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10-05-2010, 02:49 PM
:hug: It's worth asking. Dillon has other siblings doesn't he? You could see if one of them could take over for a little while and give you the break you need.
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out out baby.
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10-05-2010, 02:52 PM
Dillon has one other sibling... His little brother who refuses to change diapers >.>* so yeah... I know it is worth asking but I don't know I guess I worry about it :/
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10-05-2010, 02:58 PM
My brothers refused to do diaper changes as well. I told them I would refuse to do them with their children so they'd be out of luck if they needed an experienced baby sitter. We all agreed on it, so that's how it stands now. xD
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10-05-2010, 03:27 PM
What kind of nearly 22 year old is that childish though ><;;
My youngest brother is kind of the same but he is also only 15 years old... So I give him an excuse sorta... I think if push came to shove though he would change my kids with no problems... or only minimal... My older younger brother will do it... grudgingly but he will... ><;; I think my BIL's problem is that he has had to change Jayden once... And I do mean HAD to... He mom and dad had JUST left and weren't expected back for a few hour kinda HAD TO!! He's scared cause she is a girl cause he told me it'd be easier to change Sean cause he knows how to work around all those parts O_O
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10-05-2010, 03:43 PM
Wipe front to back. How hard is that? xD
>.> My brothers are 25 and 27 and they act that way. They never had to change my kids though because I never actually left them with them for long enough that it would be an issue. My 25 year old brother might have had to once, but Melody was potty training at the time so she went in to use the bathroom instead of going in her pants so he was saved from that. He says it would be different if they were his own kids, but becasue they're mine he doesn't want anything to do with them other than typical hey I'm your uncle kinda stuff.
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10-05-2010, 07:15 PM
Can't blame him... I totally don't want to feel like I have to be Jayden's mom... I don't want to be responsible for her... But I am...
I need to figure out if Dillon and I can make it without the extra $300 dollars I make a month for watching Jayden... I don't think I can handle watching Jayden any longer... I feel like I am in a never ending cycle... Clean... reclean... reclean... reclean... over and over and over... And she makes it worse because of all her behaviors... I don't know... Jazzy just wants to curl into a ball and sleep the rest of the day away... :-/ Just too overwhelmed to deal with life today...
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10-05-2010, 07:21 PM
Being overwhelmed isn't good for you Jazzy. </3
Would you be able to get a different job and still manage to make at least a $300/profit a month with the cost of childcare for Sean? You are watching her just about the entire day, I hated that feeling, more like resented I guess, that feeling when I was watching kids that weren't mine. And then their parents would come pick them up and complain about some random thing their kid did for the 2 hours they had them while they were awake the night before. It's just so stupid. I know where you're coming from though. If it were for an hour or two a day it would be completely different. By the time you started feeling a little worn down, the parents would be there to pick up the child, instead you've increased your children and you can't fully take charge of one of them because they aren't actually your child to be in charge of! And yet you're still responsible for them and they know it.
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