|
Zasaleen
Jaz's New Mulie!
|
|

10-05-2010, 08:24 PM
I think a lot of it had to do with being in a really crappy mood to begin with today... I don't think it was set off by Jayden being here though I have noticed that a lot of days that her coming over will make me cranky... :( I want to be the fun happy aunty like my sister gets to be... Not the crabby hateful and resenting aunty Y_Y
Childcare alone is around $300 a month for part time... :/ I don't know if I could find a job that I could handle any better then I could handle Jayden... >.< I worry if I apply to a daycare that I am not going to be able to handle the kids like I use to T_T Especially if my kiddo goes there too... :/ Jazzy does terribly in retail... especially at this time of year... So yeah... There isn't much I can do... >.<;; Jazzy fails at life ><;;
The good thing is I suppose that Jay doesn't usually complain about Jayden... >.<* But Tara does when she calls.... Luckily that isn't often though.... and it sounds like she has a harder time with Jayden then I do....
But you hit the nail on the head... I felt like I was talking circles... ><;;
|
|
|
|
|
Melody
(づ ̄ ³ ̄)...
☆ Penpal
|
|

10-05-2010, 11:21 PM
You need a break from the kid to be the happy auntie. Other wise you end up just feeling like a disgruntled unappreciated mommy. Your kids will give you back love in little ways, other peoples kids, they just don't.
|
|
|
|
|
Zasaleen
Jaz's New Mulie!
|
|

10-05-2010, 11:59 PM
I think you were right about getting a job... I just sooo don't want to put Sean in daycare... I think after the kiddos are in bed I am going to mess with my bills.... See exactly what we do or don't need money wise......
|
|
|
|
|
Melody
(づ ̄ ³ ̄)...
☆ Penpal
|
|

10-06-2010, 10:37 AM
Maybe you would be able to work off hours, when Dillon isn't working you could go to work? Though, I don't think his schedule is steady yet...
|
|
|
|
|
Zasaleen
Jaz's New Mulie!
|
|

10-06-2010, 01:02 PM
Why is it when 8PM hits I turn into a sleep deprived zombie? Nothing got sorted out last night... Dillon does have a schedule... He works 11:30 to 8 and is off on Thursday and Sunday... >.> Saturdays he works 8-6PM so it is a little wacky but not bad... I don't know of many jobs that will allow for only 5-6 to 11 though...
|
|
|
|
|
Melody
(づ ̄ ³ ̄)...
☆ Penpal
|
|

10-06-2010, 01:07 PM
It sounds like decent enough part time hours, and isn't that what most places around there were hiring for? I was thinking about trying for some part time hours around here. I have time with the kids being in school and all. Just waiting for baby to be born...since no place wants to hire someone about to give birth.
|
|
|
|
|
Zasaleen
Jaz's New Mulie!
|
|

10-06-2010, 01:13 PM
The part time places around here want to screw you around... >.> they want you to be able to work 9AM-3PM one day and 9-11PM and then 5-9AM... I don't know what would happen part time in a daycare if I were to work there O_o I was considered part time when they had me working from 7AM to 2PM O_O
|
|
|
|
|
Melody
(づ ̄ ³ ̄)...
☆ Penpal
|
|

10-06-2010, 01:16 PM
Well 8 hours is considered full time here, but that's pretty darn close to it I would imagine.
Does your county have a head start program? Apparently the only qualification to become a head start teacher/assistant here is to have an associates degree in early child hood education.
|
|
|
|
|
Zasaleen
Jaz's New Mulie!
|
|

10-06-2010, 01:26 PM
8 hours is considered a full time job but jobs can get away with not calling it full time by giving you an 8 hour shift and then a 2 hour shift or something like that... ><;; this town is so crooked...
>.> An associate in ECE is what I have... But here that isn't even a requirement... You just have to graduate high school >.>;;
My biggest worry is that I will have Michael getting out at noon on Fridays and Sean in daycare still... So more then likely I will have Michael occasionally going to daycare and Sean going almost full time :/ full time for one kid was like $500 something.. Man how did I do this as a single mom??? I just don't see... Daycares f*cked Mikes head... And I don't want that to happen to Sean... T_T but at the same time... I think in a way the differences I see between Mikes and Sean, Sean may benefit from being forced to do something he doesn't want to... ><;; and being away from mommy... Another thing is I am only a little bit over 6 months from trying to get preggers again :/ and I lost my last job because I was pregnant and I was trying to find legal protection for L&D and the time off that a business is required to give... Dills at a job now that they HAVE to give him a paternal FMLA! I don't know that I'd qualify for any of that unless I was working retail...
|
|
|
|
|
Melody
(づ ̄ ³ ̄)...
☆ Penpal
|
|

10-06-2010, 01:30 PM
There are stocker jobs and what not for retail. But normally they don't allow you to work that when you're pregnant. Granted, if you got pregnant they could find you another job in the store while you're "fragile" lol. But there are jobs to work that are away from the customers in retail.
As much as I dislike walmart...I noticed that their photography studio was hiring. I think I'd like doing that. >.>
|
|
|
|
|
GeminiKizzy
\ (•◡•) /
|
|

10-06-2010, 01:36 PM
My sis-in-law used to work in the Target photography area and liked it - I'm sure it's basically the same. Of course, she is a photographer herself so it was a perfect job for her.
Zas - if you get a job working on phones they can't get rid of you for being preggers since that won't stop you from picking up a phone (for awhile, anyway). It may not be the best kind of job but you can change when you find something better down the line. Whatever you do don't mention that you are trying to get preggers. If it happens on a new job you can just fib and say it was a surprise.
You mentioned full-time jobs but if you are willing to do part-time many schools are looking for lunch duty aides who watch over the kids so that the teachers can get a break. There are other entry-level jobs as well and once you are in you can move around the system easier.
Last edited by GeminiKizzy; 10-06-2010 at 01:39 PM..
Reason: wasn't done ::grumble::
|
|
|
|
|
Zasaleen
Jaz's New Mulie!
|
|

10-06-2010, 01:38 PM
I'd love doing photography! I don't think any of the ones here are hiring though T_T I'm going to have to really soul search on this whole job thing... I wish it wasn't such a hard thing to decide... I don't mind working pregnant... So long as I don't have to deal with ass holes. <.<... but I want to know that I will have enough time to go to deliver without having a bunch of people acting like my birthing is an injustice to them >.>
Jazzy doesn't deal well with people... That is a big issue... I get stressed when people yell at me or tell me I am not doing something right... I didn't mention that I was pregnant right away at my old job but I started asking my rights... Cause I knew I was... They wouldn't let me look at the handbook etc that stated my rights in black and white but they told me that I would have to work until labor PERIOD... Then I would have to come back after a week... Daycares won't except a baby younger then 6 weeks old... and by that time I had already moved Michael to a different daycare so there was no way I was going to have Sean at mine being only a week old and less then 2 days out of the hospital! Sorry rambling and babbling.. ><;; point being Jazzy loves kids and hates adults... >.>
Last edited by Zasaleen; 10-06-2010 at 01:44 PM..
|
|
|
|
|
Melody
(づ ̄ ³ ̄)...
☆ Penpal
|
|

10-06-2010, 02:32 PM
I can't believe they wouldn't let you look at the handbook. That's completely ridiculous! You have a right to know what is in the handbook as an employee of an organization! Keeping it from you is pretty much saying, sure you have the rights to such and such, but if we keep them in the dark from you we'll tell you whatever the hell we want whether or not it's true.
In the military scott was forced to get his wisdom teeth removed, and none of his command told him he didn't have to go into work the next day. So hopped up on drugs he went in to work and did a full days job only to find out at the end of the day that he had that day and the next day off because of the surgery. He'd asked before going in and everyone told him they weren't sure but he should show up anyway, just in case, so as to not be called 20 times asking why he's awol. :/ I was pissed. I could see he was in pain, it was completely obvious, but no they had him come in anyway.
I adore photography.
|
|
|
|
|
Zasaleen
Jaz's New Mulie!
|
|

10-06-2010, 04:10 PM
That is rediculous that they made him work like that and no one told him >.>;;
Yeah I pointed out what they were doing was actually illegal... >.> and she tried telling no it wasn't... They only had one manual thing and they didn't want it lost or some bull crap... I didn't mention that the assistant director wanted me to bring my (would have been 5 day old Sean) into work with me... And keep him in the office the whole time <.<;; I was nursing him I would literally have to take a break every 1-2 hours for 20-30 minutes at the time and because of how the nurses made me feed Sean at the hospital (he was given 20-30 minutes to nurse then he was forced to take 2-3 ounces of formula right after) the boy was ravenous! He ate like all day long non stop!!!
|
|
|
|
|
Melody
(づ ̄ ³ ̄)...
☆ Penpal
|
|

10-06-2010, 04:35 PM
Why would they feed him right after you nursed him? o.o that's crazy.
What they were doing was illegal. It wouldn't get lost/stolen if you looked at it in the room it was being stored in and or went to make copies and brought it back. :/ Fail.
|
|
|
|
|
Zasaleen
Jaz's New Mulie!
|
|

10-06-2010, 05:09 PM
Because being jaundice "formula makes the bilirubin go though his system faster since they can't use all of the junk in formula so they poop more on formula..." But I threw a stick that they WOULD let me breastfeed and FIRST!
Next time I am not going to let them touch my kid with formula... >.> Sean was in the hospital with Jaundice for 4 days Mikes (who also had it and was NOT given formula AT ALL!!) was only admitted for 2 extra days... Not only that but Sean's Bili count was only like 2-3 higher then it should be and Mikes was 6-7 higher!
|
|
|
|
|
Melody
(づ ̄ ³ ̄)...
☆ Penpal
|
|

10-06-2010, 06:47 PM
Uh yeah, I always assumed that breastmilk would help more...babies poop more on breastmilk than they do on formula.
|
|
|
|
|
Zasaleen
Jaz's New Mulie!
|
|

10-06-2010, 06:53 PM
Nah... They can actually process more of the breastmilk soo it is normal for a baby to go a few days between poops.... My kids were never like that they would have a couple days that I'd be like Hmmm... nothings there the OMG!!!
Formula is a synthetic form of food... :/ so babies can't process a lot of it so more waste :/
|
|
|
|
|
Melody
(づ ̄ ³ ̄)...
☆ Penpal
|
|

10-06-2010, 06:57 PM
My babies pooped like 6 times a day on breastmilk. @ [email protected] Lots of yellow lumpy poop...that smells like the portion of the mall that has an ice cream shop and a pretzel place right next to each other. lol.
|
|
|
|
|
Zasaleen
Jaz's New Mulie!
|
|

10-06-2010, 07:55 PM
I think cheesy is the most accurate way to describe the smell ><
|
|
|
|
|
Melody
(づ ̄ ³ ̄)...
☆ Penpal
|
|

10-06-2010, 11:04 PM
It always reminded me of sour milk, so yeah I guess cheesy is a good description. But the milkiness smell of the ice cream parlours plus the smell of the yeast from the pretzel dough just...it smells like breast milk diapers. xD
|
|
|
|
|
Zasaleen
Jaz's New Mulie!
|
|

10-07-2010, 02:48 AM
We don't have an ice cream place in our mall lol so I couldn't tell you ><;;
|
|
|
|
|
Clair Voyant
}-(((*>
☆☆
|
|

10-07-2010, 02:02 PM
Clair is watching a show about a woman who was paralyzed, and was able to get pregnant and have her son. :O She has no use of her legs, and can move her arms only a little bit.
She married after she was paralyzed, and she explained that she got pregnant the normal, old fashion way. xD
Last edited by Clair Voyant; 10-07-2010 at 02:05 PM..
|
|
|
|
|
Zasaleen
Jaz's New Mulie!
|
|

10-07-2010, 03:23 PM
A lady in town doesn't have a lower half... In fact she moves around on a skateboard... She did the same... She has three kids I think... They did a special on her and her family...
|
|
|
|
|
GeminiKizzy
\ (•◡•) /
|
|

10-07-2010, 03:57 PM
I saw both of those shows. Good for them for not letting being different stop them from having a family. Everyone that wants a family deserves one.
|
|
|
|
| Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 4 (0 members and 4 guests) |
|
|
|