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08-14-2009, 07:47 PM
CAN YOU DO THAT THAT EARLY???? I was 8 when I had my first period O-O I can't imagine being on BC so young LOL... My whole family are early bloomers and early wilters... I hated not knowing too... Still do... But I just restarted the pill again YAY! because I couldn't have two prescriptions for two different pills so I had to let one expire or some nonsense like that LOL... YAY FOR EXTRA PROTECTION.... NO MORE BEBE'S FOR ME!!!!
Dillon assumed he knew how to... He didn't look at the box though haha... When we had sex the very first time... He put it on wrong and I freaked and told him to get another one and read the directions... Then I still had to help him @ [email protected] Tampons have picture directions too but they aren't that helpful in my opinion It took me years to figure them out haha...
YAY I was just worried I was going to start trouble... >.< I am too good at that and I haven't been up for debating my points with people lately... Hence the reason I haven't asked my sister in law for more money for watching Jayden everyday >.> I don't want the confrontation hehe!
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08-14-2009, 08:02 PM
Psh, you SHOULD get paid for baby sitting! If she's getting paid for working while you watch him you should have a bit of that money! If it weren't for you she wouldn't be able to work! Think about your family too Jaz. I'm not saying charge her what a day care would...but she really should be giving you some sort of compensation for losing your mind daily. xD Or have her baby sit your boys on the weekend so you and Dillon can have some alone time ;D
I don't see why I couldn't get them on birth control that early. A few of my friends went on it to help manage cramps, or because it helped acne etc. Scott had/has pretty bad acne sometimes. >.> if the girls get it its just one more reason to get them on birth control. But I think the reason most people don't have their kids on it is they're afraid doing so will get them to think having sex is ok. Which at a young age it isn't (my period didn't start until I was 14! xD) and I plan on letting my kids know that. But ya know their birth control isn't going to be birth control...its for getting their periods under control. >.> [/clever? xD]
I start on the pill next week... 3 days after my period starts...it's pill time, then shot time, then more shots...and more shots... >.< *scared* I can do it though!
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08-14-2009, 09:46 PM
Wow... that's crazy. ><
I was 15 when I first started. I was pretty late.
I was the last of my friends to start, and my friends are mostly 1-2 years younger than me. ><
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08-14-2009, 10:04 PM
I was the last of my friends to start, though, I think I was younger than most of them, save for my best friend who started 2 years before me! It's normal in my family though, all the girls tended to start a little later. :3
Which I'm ok with. One less thing to worry about for longer.
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08-14-2009, 10:09 PM
*nods* Yeah, I get that.
I don't know what I'm going to do, my house will be filled with kids, both boys and girls, so I don't know how or what I'll do about the girls when they're teens. ><
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08-14-2009, 10:21 PM
I don't know what I'm going to do with my son...but hopefully he can just keep his hormones in check?
maybe I can get him on birth control too. >.> xD Chemical castration!
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08-14-2009, 10:45 PM
That would be awesome if it worked that way. :O
What's your son's name? :3 (just curious, don't mean to pester)
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08-15-2009, 01:06 AM
if a boy takes birth control it really does chemically castrate them. It keeps the hormone levels of estrogen and testosterone almost neutral so they don't go through puberty. Its essentially the same as cutting off their balls.
My sons name is Aaron. His twin sister is Melody and their big sister is Sakura. But everyone calls her Kura. or Suki. But I stopped the Suki a while ago because I like Kura better. >.>
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08-15-2009, 01:13 AM
:lol: Does it really? (takes mental note of that)
Aww! Cute names. <3
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08-15-2009, 01:28 AM
Yeah, men with sexual issues (normally ones that aren't socially acceptable) are given them to stop the desire for their sexual urges. :P I would assume that they're given the shot...but I honestly haven't looked into it that much. I just know that the estrogen stops their sex drive. Which is good for incestuous men or pedophiles, necrophiliacs , . you ge the picture. lol
And thanks. (: I'm all out of baby names though. So I can't have any more kids. xD
Though I do kinda like the name Natasha...I think I'm going to name my Pomeranian that when I get one in a few years though. >.>
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08-15-2009, 01:32 AM
:lol: I have a whole list of names I want to name my children. :3
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08-15-2009, 01:34 AM
I had a list when I was younger, the hard part was getting the names that matched with my husbands last name. Some names just don't sound right together. It made things difficult. Specially when giving Aaron his middle name. It took forever to come up with!
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08-15-2009, 11:20 AM
@ Melody::
Yeah, seriously!
I know what you mean.
Finding a middle name that goes good with Merecedes and ISN'T Elizabeth is hard. ><
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08-15-2009, 11:51 AM
I had a list... But had to compromise on Sean's... Michael was name first middle and last after my uncle who suffered SEVERAL strokes and lost any visitation of his 3 boys when he was put into the nursing home... Michael Thomas (irish last name beginning with McM) it is really smooth sounding in my opinion... Then I liked Sean Patrick McM..... Since we are going to take my mother's maiden names (if we can ever afford it) ... But my hubby doesn't like Patrick bacause of a butt hole in high school... To be honest though we picked his middle name first... Mason... Out of a movie (can't remember which) where the guys first name was Mason... Personally don't like it as a first name too common in these parts... So we chose to use it as a middle name... then I read down the small list I had of boys names.. and the second (after Michael Thomas) was Sean Patrick... It sounded good so we got Sean Mason... Both by boys have two "M"'s in their initials (MTM and SMM) so one of my friends refer to them as the M&M's... I have a LIST of girls names a mile long if I have a little girl... But I think since chances are I won't have a set of boy girl twins that I set the name Elizabeth aside for... I will more then likely name a girl Elizabeth Rose or Elizabeth Jean Marie... I've always loved that name... We shall see if I dare have another... LOL
I am going to scare the bejeezus out of my boys... Not with facts but of me... I don't mind if the venture into the adult world by having sex... But they are going to be adult enough to confront the fact that there are pretty big risks involved and use protection... And HOPEFULLY they will be able to talk to me enough and tell me that they are having sex... Then I would have a talk with myself, my husband, boy in question... and the girl in question and their parents... If that kind of act is going on it is the responsibilities of BOTH sides to have protection... My biggest worry is that the number of parents living around here that act like teen sex doesn't happen and they would forbid the two from seeing each other which would in my opinion only result in hiding the relationship and chancing a failure in the one form of BC (praying my boys will be smart) or the girl going elsewhere and doing the same thing with no protection... The second is technically not my problem but then again... I still worry... My brothers and sister all seem to have learned from my mistake though none of them have ever told my mom they were sexually active... Two I KNOW are .... One I suspect doesn't like boys lol... running joke about my sister even though I know better... And one is still on the young side... I hope... My two oldest, younger biological sister and brother don't want kids..... My adopted brother is married and doesn't want them but his 16 year old wife does... I am worried about him... Because she has all but excluded our entire family from his life except my oldest younger brother... And I have no idea what my 13 year old brother wants... I think he will scare girls away personally most girls don't go for the doesn't bathe gamer boy... and that is my youngest brother AND my brother in law (GROSS)
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08-15-2009, 12:05 PM
Those are lovely names, Jaz. Though, Michael isn't really my favorite name, didn't even make my list, the names you have choosen for your boys are very lovely and respectable. ^^
I hope my kids don't hate me, but when I have children, I won't give them common names.
For girls: Mees (after a very dear friend of mine from the Netherlands) Antoinette, Penelope Ae (Ae is the nickname of my best best friend <3), Odessia (pronounced Odessa) Virginia (both names were my grandmother's) and Mercedes (haven't come up with a middle name yet).
I also love the names for boys: Emiel Keith-James (unless I can find a better name than James- Like Melody said, though, some names just seem to go good with other names and some don't), Oscar Blaine-Thomas, Desmond Mackenzie and possibly Charles Wallace. I don't know about the 'Wallace' part, but Charles is a populart name in my mother's family. I might name a son 'Charles George or George Charles'. Both names are very popular on both sides of my family. They are the names of my two grandfathers and their eldest sons. ^^
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08-15-2009, 01:24 PM
I'm glad I wasn't the first born son in my family. They have a naming tradition that goes on for at least 4 generations. My great grandfather was Clyde Melvin, my grandfather is Melvin Jay, My father is Jay Lawrence, my oldest brother is Lawrence Timothy. Therefor his first born son will HAVE to be Timothy ______. xD I've had enough Tims in my life already. My mom hated the name Lawrence, so we grew up calling him Tim...and whenever he has a son...it will also be Tim. Very confusing...though I think my brother goes mostly by Larry now. lol.
I was named after my Grandfather partly though: Melvin Jay turned into Melanie Jayne. (see, the different spelling in the middle name? cool huh?) xD
*shrugs* names are interesting things. I would want my childrens names to be too different...but I know I already screwed that over with Sakura. Poor girl, half the people we talk to can't say her name right. They always end up with Shakira or Sakira. It's really not that hard...the U vowel doesn't have an I sound! Sa-KUR-a. *beats people with sticks*
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08-15-2009, 03:10 PM
I originally wanted my kids to have unique names because my name being soo common really REALLY gets annoying... The first thing most people say when they find out my name is Brittany... is "Oh like Britney Spear".... NO NOT LIKE BRITNEY SPEARS LIKE THE TOWN IN FRANCE DUMBO!!!" GRAR... Not that I like being associated with the french much better but STILL... Why do people have to make that assumption... /end rant...
Originally some of my boys names were Darville Wolfe... Azrael (can't remember the middle name and too lazy to search out the paper atm)... Girls were names like Serena Elyssa, Serenity Elysson, Diamond... Gosh it is horrible that I can't remember anymore there were some really neat ones... There were 4 names that were common names on my list... Michael Thomas (after my uncle) Sean Patrick, Elizabeth Rose (Jean Marie) not really sure what I want for a name there, and Joshua Nethanial... The last two where in hope that I would be the one person in my family to have a surviving set of girl boy twins.. Which is what the past 3 generations have not accomplished and I look to be a singleton's only mama... I don't even hope for it anymore because dealing with 3 on a regular (not even all the time) basis is hard enough... I couldn't even imagine what my mom went through at 4... I only have 2 hands and the two I have right now keep them very full... Add Jayden and I am using a leg to real in one of the boys... Putting a 4th into the equation scares me... If I have twins now I'd have a baby in each hand chasing one that KNOWS better and one that more then likely won't know better... AHHHH SCARY!!! Some part of me still wants twins, personally I think it is the crazy part of me... One baby is hard enough...
Back on the name subject though... If we have another we will more then likely name a girl Elizabeth and my vote for a boy would be Seth... Dillon likes earthy names... Sylvan was his vote for Sean and he swears he will put up a bigger fight if we have another boy... Gemstone names for girls....
Dillon has that weird family tradition thing.... Not quite like yours Mel... All the boys... Not just the first born... Are named William and carry a middle name starting with D... William Dalton, William Daren, William Dillon... They all go by their middle name... Dillon's mom started the breakdown of that tradition by naming her second son Nathan... We finished it LOL...
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08-15-2009, 04:44 PM
Oh names! I wanted my youngest to be Lily, but my husband refused >.> I think it is so pretty. I like traditional names. Not overly used and not trendy.
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08-15-2009, 07:17 PM
Leela- I think Lilly is a beautiful name. I would have used it for one of my kids (Serena as well Jaz!) but they just didn't fit with the last names and I couldn't find a middle name to tie the two together. But they are in my list of favorite names! (I had a chameleon named Lilly, and a computer named Serena (don't ask) lol)
Jaz- hurray for the breaking of that tradition! >.< It seems like it would get really old really fast. I kinda like the tradition my family has, because its taking part of the previous generation and adding to it, but you have to really like the middle name you choose...since its going to be their sons first name (if they choose to follow suit) *shrugs* I know my brother is going to when he has kids. He's pretty strongly tied to my dads family, as was my father. And most women will give into a tradition like that, as its only one child. My mom just kinda ignored it and called him by the name she gave him. xD But he was still legally a lawrence.
My monitor should have been here by now...but now its raining. *whines* I want my fabulous new flat screen!
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08-15-2009, 11:02 PM
I would have named Sean a more unique name... But I thought it would have been weird to have Michael and Darville or something along those lines... My sister also had to use Dogma against me with the biblical reference to Azrael (which was one of my choices for Mikes).... >_> she also liked to make fun of the Demetrius Nicoli Alexander... Which I thought sounded AWESOME with my last name... DNAA would have been his innitials ^_^ I am a dork... But she made fun of the fact that it is Russian Russian Russian GERMAN... I still think it sounded cool LOL
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08-16-2009, 12:09 AM
No one let me go with Natasha because it didn't work with Scotts last name. >.> It was my alternate personality in high school! (ok, not really, i've never had an alternate personality, its just when me and a friend acted in the name of evil we would use our evil personality name and claim ignorance in our real names, more fun that way! xD)
That and I couldn't find a good middle name for Natasha, its like Madonna imo, one name is enough!
Demetrius is a really nice name. :3
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08-16-2009, 04:43 PM
Yeah I really like that name still... Wow your right I can't think of anything.... I have a cousin named Nadia Natasha though!
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08-16-2009, 05:10 PM
@ Melody::
Really? That's sad people can't pronouce Sakura's name correctly.
To me, it looks pretty self explaintory from the spelling. :sweat:
It's a pretty name. Cherry Blossom in Japanese. ^^
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08-16-2009, 09:34 PM
:3 Got the name from Cardcaptor Sakura. I was in love with that show! Have all of the episodes on DVD and the Manga too, ok they're not on DVD theyre books but you know what I mean. I think it will be cute for her to have when she gets older.
Jaz- My alternate personality was Natasha Worthington no middle name. xD I thought Natasha Marie sounded pretty... or Natasha Lynn...but they're such common middle names it doesn't fit with the exoticness of Natasha!
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08-16-2009, 10:02 PM
It's one of those names that fit you your entire life.
Some names seem to young or old sounding for a child/adult.
Like, it's hard to imagen an elderly woman named Brittany for me. >.>
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