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06-20-2007, 03:58 PM
wow, thats alot for a child to deal with. I have neighbors that are autistic. They get really annoying. One of them has this thing for tying toys together and throwing them into my back yard. lol. *hugs* you seem to be going through alot. I guess its just a matter of balancing who needs what and just trying to keep the peace for now. Hopefully after the vacation everything will alm down for a little bit. vacations normally help people to relax.
i had a friend that had a bad seizure condition. if his girlfriend noticed that he was about to have one she would deep fry him some bacon and that would stop it. the fats and such would keep him from having a seizure. is it kinda the same thing for your wife?
marissa- XD i thought you were a girl from your avi. anyway congrats on being a daddy! and you just think its august 14th. babies have a way of choosing their own birthday regardless of what the dr presicts. <3
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06-20-2007, 04:00 PM
Yeah I know. :p
I'm going to try and not make any plans for the week before and after the 14th. :p
I just hope her parents will let me be there. ><#############
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06-20-2007, 06:33 PM
i dont see why they wouldnt. you are the father. <3having my husband with me when i had our kids was a huge relief. and a comfort. <3my first daughter was born 2 weeks early, and my twins were born a month early.
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06-20-2007, 06:39 PM
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06-20-2007, 07:11 PM
^^;; My husbands mom is a lesbian. when he was little and once she told her parents that she was they took him and his brother away from her and gave them to his dad who is a dead beat druggie who after the divorce with his mom married what can only be decribed as an evil step mother XD they used to lock him adn his brother in closets or yell at them and send them to bed with no dinner when their own kids lied about stuff that him and his brother 'did' ten they sent them to a mental hospital. -.- my husband isnt crazy <3 i swear. it took some time but the grandparents eventually realized the error of their ways and that having a lesbian for a mom is better than having a dead beat dad. besides shes a wonderful mother to them.
I hope your friends parents will understand that and see through their racial and homophobic view points. because babies are beautiful things and no one should be denied seeing their child on such retarded grounds. (:
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06-20-2007, 07:13 PM
Especially that last sentence is what's really living for me. ^^; Bt I can't contact them, I've got no information on their address, phoen number, anything. I'll see Angelique on June 30 though!!! :D
And I doubt your husband was/is crazy... because if he was, yuo wouldn't have been with him now, would you? xD
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06-20-2007, 07:21 PM
i probably would be. im pretty crazy anyway XD and i love that bugger more than anything. sooo yeah id still be with him. id be making him crazier trying to make him better. lol.
well when you see her try and get a way to contact her. find out what hospital shes going to be delivering at etc, the parents are only allowed into the birthing room on her permission. the drs can adn will tell them to leave if theyre stressing her out. and if youre magically there if she wants you with her you can be in there (: even though shes young she can have the drs keep her parents out of the room because stress levels while giving birth are important. if she gets toostressed something could go wrong with the birth and thats just bad all around
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06-20-2007, 07:23 PM
I wonder what her views are on that... I'll talk to her on the 30th. >.>; I'll make sure to discuss all of that aswell. :p
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06-20-2007, 07:47 PM
(: I hope things go well for you. and once shes 18 her parents realy wont have anything to say about you seeing the kid.
theres alot she can do with the drs and what not. but yeah be sure to talk to her about all of that
do you know the gender of the baby yet? or is it a surprise?
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06-20-2007, 07:49 PM
Yeah, it's going to be a girl, Marissa!
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This avatar does make a little bit of sense now, right? xD
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06-20-2007, 07:55 PM
oh! lol. i get it now.
its cute that youre so excited about being a dad though. <3 alot of 18 yr olds get scared when they find out theyre going to be a parent. i was 17 when i had my oldest. and i was kinda scared. my boyfriend now husband was more scared though. he kept getting on my case about every little thing it drove me crazy.
have youbought her cute little outfits and stuff yet?
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06-20-2007, 07:55 PM
No.. because.. I'm low on funds.. ;~~~;
I did buy this big ass lion plushie. :D
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06-20-2007, 08:00 PM
lol yay for lion plushies?
just be ready when marissa comes to help support her. it would also help in the eyes of the narrow minded grandparents XD <3
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06-21-2007, 10:35 AM
Yu[!
QAnd by the way: it's a lion plushie because she's a Leo, and I bought it from the money I would have otherwise spend on cigarettes. x3;;
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06-21-2007, 06:32 PM
Oh! lol. it makes sense now! i dont pay attention much to zodiac signs. XP
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06-24-2007, 07:07 AM
@[email protected] oh jeebus its been a long day. i picked up my toddler from her grandparents since they took her out to knotts berry farm yesterday. and she was such a brat all day. i forgot how horrible she acts once i get her back from them. they let her do what ever she wants and it just kills her mood when mommy says no. so not only am i menstral right now, but i have this huge migrain and a screaming 2 year old because mommy wont let her have candy. sorry, candy is NOT allowed for breakfast.
Then because the toddler spent so long screaming, the babies would start crying too. and so i didnt get any peace of mind today. it was horrible. @[email protected]
though, i did get one thing accomplished. well 2 really. i finally updated pictures on my myspace and i cleaned all of the counters in the kitchen. (:
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06-26-2007, 05:48 AM
i still havent been able to get my toddler back on her normal scheduale. i hate Hate HATE leaving her with her grandparents for that exact reason. i tell them she needs a nap at 1 and to go to bed at 9. ill call before they should be putting her to bed and its 'oh she just started watching hapy feet well put her down when its over' wtf? why dont you listen to me! dont you understna dtha tit interfears with her scheduale and MINE if you dont listen and do as i instruct with my kids? for christs sake theyre my kids. i keep them on a scheduale so that my house runs smoothly.
im so sick of her still being wide awake at 11 pm because... grandma and nana let me stay up! im not grandma or nana when youre at my house yo ufollow house rules! im so tired. i dont even know where to begin.
i just want to know why grandparents do this. is so flipping annoying. espically when they talk about their own parents doing it to their kids and how annoyed they got. UGH
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06-26-2007, 05:59 AM
><:;;;;;; I may not be a parent yet, but I generally hate it when people don't do exactly as I say.
So I can relate to youijust fine.
This is exactly why I think it's not good for both parents to work. Other people should NEVER be able to replace the parents, preferably not even for a few hours each day. They ruin everything. When the child is like 5 or something it can have a babysit or something I think. Noot before that, because it'll ruin the parents' sleep. :p
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06-26-2007, 03:37 PM
Mimi's a mother of twins, but no one was surprised there as mimi is a twin herself.
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06-26-2007, 08:22 PM
marissa - i agree. i perfer to be the only infulence over the time and happenings in my childs life to ensure that they are on scheduale for everything. i also dont really trust other people with my kids (random babysitters, ill trust family and close friends) because of the chance of them not being able to andle the responsibility. i dont want my children to get shaken baby syndrome or something because the person in charge of them isnt smart enough to just call me and say they cant handle it. nor do i want other people disciplining my children. i just couldnt handle that. BUT on the other hand I do have to get away from them once in a while. because they can adn do drive me crazy periodically. If i didnt escape once in a while i wouldnt be a good mother, because every mother needs time to herself for her sanitys sake. and if my husband is around its nice to have time with just him, it keeps the marriage strong, and it keeps the family happy.
mimi- im a mommy of twins too! but it was a surprise... since im not a twin and there hadnt been twins in my family for 3 generations. lol. congrats. <3 how old are they now?
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06-27-2007, 04:24 AM
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marissa - i agree. i perfer to be the only infulence over the time and happenings in my childs life to ensure that they are on scheduale for everything. i also dont really trust other people with my kids (random babysitters, ill trust family and close friends) because of the chance of them not being able to andle the responsibility. i dont want my children to get shaken baby syndrome or something because the person in charge of them isnt smart enough to just call me and say they cant handle it. nor do i want other people disciplining my children. i just couldnt handle that. BUT on the other hand I do have to get away from them once in a while. because they can adn do drive me crazy periodically. If i didnt escape once in a while i wouldnt be a good mother, because every mother needs time to herself for her sanitys sake. and if my husband is around its nice to have time with just him, it keeps the marriage strong, and it keeps the family happy.
mimi- im a mommy of twins too! but it was a surprise... since im not a twin and there hadnt been twins in my family for 3 generations. lol. congrats. <3 how old are they now?
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06-27-2007, 12:40 PM
I may not yet be a dad, but I can allready tell I'd hate anyone interfering, emergency or not. I want tobe the only one in controll when it's soemthing I'm interested in and my little girl deffiantely interests me.
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06-27-2007, 03:45 PM
mimi- awww awesome! our twins are close in age <3
mine just started crawling. adn theyre going everywhere @[email protected] im guessing yours are walking/close to walking now?
marissa- you'll see when she gets here. you will need some time off. being a parent 24/7 takes ALOT out of you. my children interest me as well, but every once in a while you need a break if you want to continue being a good parents. and its not always interfearing. sometimes its because they want to spend time with the kids too. you just need to lay the smack down on them with the rules. which is something my husband doesnt do with his family, and they dont listen to me still. so i have issues with te kids being over there and he just gets more mad at me for it sometimes. lol.
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06-27-2007, 03:50 PM
I coudn't be a parent 24/7 anyway, because Angelique and I don't live together. A mentioned before, I might never be able to see Marissa at all anyway.
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06-28-2007, 02:39 PM
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mimi- awww awesome! our twins are close in age <3
mine just started crawling. adn theyre going everywhere @[email protected] im guessing yours are walking/close to walking now?
marissa- you'll see when she gets here. you will need some time off. being a parent 24/7 takes ALOT out of you. my children interest me as well, but every once in a while you need a break if you want to continue being a good parents. and its not always interfearing. sometimes its because they want to spend time with the kids too. you just need to lay the smack down on them with the rules. which is something my husband doesnt do with his family, and they dont listen to me still. so i have issues with te kids being over there and he just gets more mad at me for it sometimes. lol.
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Maddy can stand on her own now and Jenna too her first steps but is still alittle on the wobly side.
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